Well, I spent some time trying on some watches today. I've been able to eliminate some watches based on size. I think 44-45mm is where it's at for me. I tried on this Longines today, and it fit very well on my wrist. (List price is $4750, though.)
That makes me think that the previously suggested Longines might be the way to go, since it's the same size and similar design (but within my budget).

Then I saw this, which is the same thing with roman numerals and a black face.

I like the idea of black & brown, because it makes it more versatile, but I'm not sure. What do you think?
I wasn't a fan of the Baume above in person, and a couple of those Oris watches were a little small for me, but this one is 42.5mm. I haven't seen it in person, though.