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Originally Posted by JWhitt88
Raines is a place I would consider going to but I thought it was a little too upscale and fancy for me to take this girl initially. It seems like a date spot, though, not a Friday/Saturday night place to go out with friends.
I took a girl on a date to a place very similar to that (I can PM you the place) and this girl was also similar in likes/nature to the girl I was just dating and she hated it and felt the cocktails/drinks were too exotic to even try them. She refused to and requested a margarita. I didn't want to have to deal with that again.
I enjoy places with cheap beers where people take advantage of the deal and within an hour or two of the deal are drunk and open up.
And I'm completely true about my statements.
Do you not find NYC bars incredibly overpriced? (it's $6-7 for a Bud Light, you drop $60-150 or more out one night...how does that make you feel the next morning?)
Do you not find them in relation to other cities much smaller and cramped in size? (this isn't debatable, all the bars are small because it's incredibly expensive to buy/lease space in NYC)
Does the fact that there is less space not lead to you feel cramped if the place is deemed popular?
Bars in NYC are expensive, just like everything else. You're paying for the opportunity to be around some of the world's most ambitious and accomplished people, the ability to sample the world's cultural and culinary best, etc etc. If the money is an issue for you, and you like dating women who are scared by exotic drinks, then yeah, you're not getting what you pay for from NYC and you might like a more reasonably priced city (or the outerboroughs).
To answer specific questions:
1) Yeah I like bars the best where people aren't uptight and open up. Raines, while a great date bar, and a tough place to go completely alone, is also a great example of that because two drinks will have anyone floored.
2) I feel like I get what I pay for in my favorite NYC bars. I don't drink Bud Light unless one of my bro'eyer friends is buying a round and I don't want to impose.
3) I don't find NYC bars cramped at all, but I assiduously avoid places where I'll feel cramped because I don't like feeling cramped. There are plenty of interesting places that aren't cramped.
4) See above. There are lots of bars that have hot, interesting women that aren't popular in the meatpacking district sense of the word.
And look, I'm inclined to agree generally with many things you're saying. I prefer the bar scene in Chicago and Boston because it's a little more laid back
in general at the places you'd want to be as a single guy. But
in general doesn't matter that much in a city of 8 million because if you choose where you go wisely, you'll barely notice the difference.