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Originally Posted by PingClown
Is she fat?
i laughed. i wouldnt' have made that connection.
in other news: never a dull moment and i always seem to get the 'strange' ones. maybe there are no 'normal' ones?
just INSANE mixed signals.
- 3 dates, nothing more than kissing (though circumstances in the first two were not conducive due to being at a bar and dinner). the thing is though, there is now a noticeable difference in 'how' she kisses me when sober vs. after a few drinks. sober = peck on lips, post drinks = real kiss.
- this is out of chronological order but we were talking over text today and i asked her what her schedule was and she didn't answer but texted somethign else entirely. then i tried 1 more time and asked when she was cooking me dinner (she referenced this last night). she said "soon
"
- last night, i cooked her dinner and literally RIGHT after dinner she got a text from her sister saying she was coming to near where i live (likely planned since she'd have known this ahead of time and said something) and would i mind if we went to this bar with her sis, sis's bf, and her friend. ofc i said sure.
- also out of chronological order but at the bar, the "friend" (who's overweight) wanted to stay to talk more to some guy when the sis/bf had to go for some reason. obv my date had to then drive her home and the bf said, jokingly, "sorry, man" to me in front of all of them. i didn't really know what to say so i laughed and kinda sluffed it off.
those are obviously the 'cons'.....'pros' are
- she is SUPER proud when introducing me to her sister. said "who'd have thought i'd meet such a smart cute guy skiing" and "isn't it great we have so much in common [to her sis]"
- she was like beaming and was holding onto me with a deathgrip lol when i told her sis et al. the full story of how we met, which is way better than most stories nowadays.
- we have multiple plans out in the future. march 16th we're going skiing. march 17th we're going to her friend's place for a party and may stay over there. during dinner she said she wanted to have me over to her place to cook me dinner (lives w/ her mom/dad) and said "this is an ideal time b/c they are accountants and don't get home until late"
- and the real kicker, the irish bar we went to serves food and the others didn't eat so we sat down for dinner. during dinner we got some more drinks. we're sitting very close and RIGHT IN FRONT of her sister/bf/friends starts kissing me passionately. the 'real-after-a-few-drinks' kissing. this happens multiples times during the night.
so i have no idea what's going on here. on one hand we seem to be doing great. on the other, it's like we're just friends until she has a few drinks.
i assume i just let this play out and see what happens but at some point i should probably say something.