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Originally Posted by dogarse
There is nothing to disbelieve.
her excuse for leaving imo,
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Originally Posted by xXPocketDucksXx
Ok time for my second "female confession". There was this chick I had a crush on; we were both playing an acting role in this school production in my last year before uni. She smiled at me a couple of times in rehearsals so I thought there was a chance she was into me. I never actually talked to her in person outside of the school play because I found it easier to talk to girls on facebook. So I started talking to her; I'd typically send her some thoughtful, well-written paragraphs about my life and also ask her some detailed questions about her life. It seemed like things were going well because she'd always respond to my messages as opposed to just ignoring them. But ultimately it turned out she wasn't actually into me and said I was just "a nice guy" instead - not someone she would date.
I asked my mates and they seemed to think that my fb messages were too long, that I shouldn't have written her paragraphs and instead just made my messages short and pack them with flirty phrases and winky emoticons etc. But my worry is if my messages are too short then i don't have enough room to get my points across and they wouldn't be as thoughtful or meaningful as the longer messages I sent her. Thoughts?
smiling at you = good, talking on fb and not in person = bad (in most cases, if shes sending you nudes, its obv great)
the problem with getting to know a girl is that then you become friends and sexual attraction fades. a girl is not going to **** you because you took an interest in their career aspirations. not only that but its boring, they want excitement.
also idk how well your "mates" do but seems a high chance they give you advice because they then feel like they know a lot when actually they probably dont.
attraction (smiling at each other) --> approach --> arrange something, if she doesnt seem interested or cancels, move on to the next one (girls arent subtle and if they want to **** you, they will)
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Originally Posted by CRP90
send her a dick pic with a smiley or wink face
you can always do this tho, its not for the faint hearted.