I always test the grounds with at least one innocuous SMS before asking them out on a date/hook up etc. I'd probably go with something like "God that DJ just couldn't stop playing hip hop! Had a fun time last night, you we're really fun to hang out with"
The bolded part is just an example but what I mean is that you should try to recall something fun that happened yesterday and then spin it so that she'll get another laugh when she reads your text. That way it reaffirms or strengthens her belief that you were/are a fun guy to be with.

Major no-no.

One day is more than enough. Why should you restrain yourself from fun when what happened in the past is, in the past.

My lack of acceptance for common grammar conventions may have led you to misinterpret the post... She was dating someone else, she and him broke up, she and him got back together, then she and him broke up a week ago.

because involvement with girls several days out of a long term relationship can get messy and annoying?

i texted back: "I don't know. Any ideas? There is playoff football on... :-P"

Texted that later last night. I had had a few beers. In retrospect it really wasn't a great play, but I really don't care that much. She hasn't responded. this girl is awful with responding to texts and always has been so there's no need to read into that. I'm not going to wait around all day for a response either. If I don't hear from her in a few hours, I'll just make other plans, because I don't think re-texting her is a great idea... thoughts?

actually if someone else posted that text i'd probably blast them. it failed in 14 different ways. however im pretty sure she's interested so i dont think it matters much.

so what if i c/c'd the flop with TPTK on a drawy board... im just gunna c/r the turn.

wow cant believe i just posted that analogy.

The poker analogy was definitely worse than the text.

Text wasn't good, but you're right, if you've already gotten yourself in with her it's not as if it was damaging.

Oh sorry completely misunderstood you post then.. I'm not sure on a good timeframe for what you're asking tbh.. Depends on who made the final breakup.. If it was her then I'd go for a shorter timeperiod but if it was he then it's a bit tricky.

karak, emoticons in a text followed by a poker analogy.
that is all.

in my defense this chick usually texts like a 15-year-old... i translate them for you guys here.

i don't have anything to add to this thread right now but i can't let karak keep to much of a lead on me. i had a party at my house last night. i personally invited every person that was there and there was more girls than guys which is pretty hard to do imo. i had 2 girls in my mind that i invited to try and hookup with and the rest were just filler girls to make the party seem good.

one of the girls is the bitchy one i post about. sure enough she stayed home despite me going there with a friend and picking up two ppl from her apartment. the other girl got really drunk and passed out on the couch. she kept waking up and looking at me but i was told she threw up a couple times so ya i didn't pursue it.

biggest brag of the night: i got the best massage, although it was 100% platonic, of my life from a girl who had scoliosis so she knew what she was doing. my back feels brand new right now.

girl never texted me back. how annoying.

im gunna mass text a bunch of people later to see what's going on and ill just include her

im so bored. i wanna watch the game, but watching it in a bar with a bunch of people will be much better

I just got done taking out a female gymnast from my school. Life win.

i would just be wary of a girl getting out of something like that. i dont think you need a time frame to pursue per se. are you looking for a hookup or a relationship? if the latter i would take it very slow (emotionally you can still bang obv)

i like a conversational text followed by one asking to join you out somewhere

meh could be worse

gay

nice play

holla





my situation girl was texting me from 1 am till 5 am this morning (its my birthday). at one point she asked if i checked the mail, i asked why should i be expecting something? she tells me she heard there was an anthrax scare in my area, i was skeptical but she was persistant so i eventually believed her.

anyway today i get home and i have mail from her. hand made card. completely caught me away i didnt think that was really something in her character. she told me she has a gift for me when i get back and we are currently setting up plans for her to cook me dinner this week (she owes me because i took her to the ER one night). ship ship ship.

also dallas is ****ing pwning im in a good place aorn.

Me too.

1) I put $ on Dallas to cover
2) I just finished aforementioned date w/ gymnast
2a) She's wicked flexible, and is friends with Shawn Johnson and Nastia Liukin
3) Just cracked a beer
4) Got some friends coming over in a bit to play some pong. Girl/Guy ratio will be approx 3/2.

Go Dawgs.

sounds like a good night

vintage wins tonight by a landslide

atm just hook up but she definitely meets the requirements for relationship material down the road so would like to keep that option open, which obv something like moving in for the easy kill tomorrow when shes still in that emotional wreck stage would shut that door. fwiw she broke up with the dude but not on account of being bored with the relationship or anything similar, she still liked him a decent amount but he had finally reached that stage where a guy gets bored with a relationship and acts like an areshole all the time. if he were to revert back into the honeymoon mode tmrw shed 90% go back.

if youre goin for a hookup with possibles, id say proceed whenever

wondering if anyone knows any stories of people who were friends for a long time (maybe 5+ years or something) and then later began a relationship.

non-responder text girl tonight's roommate wants to hang out tomorrow

lolz?

worth noting roommate has a long-term boyfriend... that's a long ****ing story

I'm interested in the story.

i typed the story out, firefox crashed, story didnt post properly

:-(

sorry

ill take it as a sign to not post it

i always copy a long post just in case ( : you should do it

sounds like a movie from the early 2000's with like jason biggs or the kid from dawsons creek.