"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 55

she probably realized at some point your demeanor changed and you became a little to confident as if you got it in the bag, because.. ya... she asked to keep walking you have it in the bag. she just wants you to still feel like she has control and you have to impress her.

01-08-2010 , 04:00 AM

#1353

il_martilo

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Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

lol yeah knowing my ex i'd bet a lot of $$ she's stalked my posts multiple times since we broke up. she used to (almost to a creepy standard) stalk any girl i talked to IRL when we were dating and she thought might be a threat to her. she also used to keep tabs on all of her former love interests too. there is honestly no doubt in my mind she's stalked my posts on 2+2 or on the law school forums i post on. if you are reading now, hiiii!

Standard x 1 million.

01-08-2010 , 04:03 AM

#1354

il_martilo

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Quote:

Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

TR-
Stopped by her apartment just after 6, and she accuses me of being late, but jokingly and with a huge smile on her face.
"Wat? I said shortly after 6" I say, and pulled out my ipod to show her that it was ~6:10. I'm actually fairly surprised how excited she appears to be to see me. She asks if we're in a rush, to which I obv reply that we aren't, so she says that she wants to stop by campus to pick up her other shoes (she was wearing really funny sneakers at the time fwiw).
We get to the place where we're eventually going, and our table happens to be right beside my roommate and her boyfriend's, which isn't really a big deal I suppose.
I mention that I had Subway at like 3 and that I'm not incredibly hungry, but we decide to order food anyway. (I got a ****ing burger for some reason and regretted ti immediately when I saw the size of it. This thing was ****ing massive. I immediately got scared that I was going to look like a goat trying to eat the thing.)
Over the ~3.5 hrs that we were together, I think I stopped laughing like twice. My face actually really hurts from smiling so much, and she was smiling and laughing just as much. I really thought things were going well. As we were leaving, we run in the guy that I know who was playing and he tells us a really funny story and I almost piss myself, and as I'm walking her home we talk about him and how I know him and such. I'm not done talking by the time we get to her place, so she suggests that we continue just walking around randomly. (Brag? I mean she could have just said "okay I'm home, bye!" but she didn't) We walk around aimlessly for another half an hour for whatever reason, talking about nonsense.
When we get back to her place I ask her to put her number in to my phone, but she replies that she doesn't have a phone. She's just barely weird enough that I believe her. I'm so thrown off be the fact that someone can actually not have a phone in this day and age that I'm pretty much silenced for the remainder of the exchange.
I give her my phone number and tell her that I enjoyed myself "and would like to get together again" to which she replies, and I quote: "Mmmm, perhaps." Body language didn't really match what she said at any point when she was joking around earlier or w/e, and I just got a really weird vibe completely different than what I was getting for the other 3.49 hours we were together.

Cliffs:
girl wears funny shoes, but gets different shoes so as to have regular looking shoes.
Eat without being hungry for some reason.
We both laughed our heads off.
She wants to hang out a little while longer, though she doesn't invite me up.
I suggest we get together again and she seems meh about it.

I agree mostly with what others have wrote... I think you are good but she's trying to stop you from feeling like you have it all totally in the bag.

01-08-2010 , 04:05 AM

#1355

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

01-08-2010 , 05:38 AM

#1356

br3nt00

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Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 3,664

Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

well i love winter break.

01-08-2010 , 07:31 AM

#1357

Flyingbanana

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I love having the time off from all that sort of stuff at uni. I think I needed it to recover to be honest.

01-08-2010 , 11:55 AM

#1358

LKJ

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Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break.

01-08-2010 , 12:14 PM

#1359

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

01-08-2010 , 05:36 PM

#1360

Nio min Nio

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Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 67

ohh good to be back after awhile. failing epically atm, visiting a friend at college for 2 weeks, looking to hook up w this easy hot girl whose really easy during that time. turns out her bf is coming to visit from today and onwards. all other girls here are conservative and theres some sortof dance tonite and i dunno what lol. well see.myabe ill make a short TR.

neways yeah just text her Karak, breaks suck.

glad to see thread up again, will read over the coming days as i have plenty of time and add my five cents if theyre of any worth. take care peoples

01-08-2010 , 06:38 PM

#1361

GoodGame

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Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

really? care to explain more?

you said this:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

3) i wouldnt read too much into it. weird girls like to say **** like that, especially ones who are acutely aware of the whole push-and-pull dynamic of relationships. if she's weird enough to not have a phone, she's weird enough to play odd ****ing games with a guy she likes.

distance for a little, then re-initiate contact and see where it goes. not an awful result at all. weird girls are just... weird though... so you never know what to expect.

which a) isn't really anything concrete so i can't understand your exact view point

and b) seems to almost agree with what i posted

01-08-2010 , 08:51 PM

#1362

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

my text: "when you guys back in town?"

reply text: "Tomorrow night. You? What fun awaits us?"

lolz

01-08-2010 , 09:03 PM

#1363

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

problem is philly @ dallas is on at 8

****

01-08-2010 , 09:34 PM

#1364

thebigeasy59

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are you in to a relationship with this girl? if she likes you then she'll watch football irregardless imo.

01-08-2010 , 10:21 PM

#1365

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

am i in a relationship with her? no obv not

but i think you were asking if im interested in one with her?

meh, maybe. im not really interested in dating anyone exclusively right now unless she really knocks my socks off.

either way im just going to invite her to watch football with me. *shrug* im not missing philly dallas part 3

01-08-2010 , 10:23 PM

#1366

TurnUpTheSun

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thoughts on telling her you want to watch football with your friends to see if she responds with a "meet up after?"-esque text?

01-08-2010 , 10:30 PM

#1367

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

thoughts on telling her you want to watch football with your friends to see if she responds with a "meet up after?"-esque text?

game will end too late

she'll be out with her friends. she's the popular goey-outy type.

01-09-2010 , 02:09 AM

#1368

LKJ

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Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

*shrug* im not missing philly dallas part 3

Totally irrelevant to the thread, but who's your NFL team?

01-09-2010 , 02:24 AM

#1369

yeotaJMU

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hint: his team is blue, in the NFC east, and not in the playoffs

Last edited by yeotaJMU; 01-09-2010 at 02:25 AM. Reason: did i mention they arent in the playoffs?

01-09-2010 , 02:42 AM

#1370

thebigeasy59

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fwiw, my post above was assuming that you weren't in a relationship, but also assumed that she was in to you. In my experience, girls love to pretned that they're in to sports when they're not, as long as they can indirectly be in to a dude.

01-09-2010 , 02:51 AM

#1371

il_martilo

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Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

hint: his team is blue, in the NFC east, and not in the playoffs

hahahhaah nice.

01-09-2010 , 08:51 AM

#1372

mEmmerrr

journeyman

Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 290

SL,

Went out to see some friends (1 male 1 chick) last night, who were already out with a couple of girls I have never met before.

On the dancefloor I end up hooking up with one of the girls I have just met. I pose the question of going somewhere a bit more private, but she wanted to keep an eye on the second girl who was pretty hammered and it was fairly obvious that she was happy in the current situation but not going to be going any further tonight with other friends around.

At the end of the night after a lot of positive vibes on the dancefloor (FWIW she was barely drinking and definetly not drunk, and so this puts me on much firmer ground imo) I get her number as the whole group of us leaves together, and she seemed very positive to the idea of me texting her today.

My question: Do I just test out the ground and be like "good night? blah blah" and get some conversation going and then after a few days organise midweek drinks, or just straight away be like "enjoyed last night, drinks next week?" and then run it from there.

Holla

01-09-2010 , 09:07 AM

#1373

WonThyme

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Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 352

Personally, I go along the lines of, "Was nice to meet you, hope you had a fun night. do you fancy going for xxxxx sometime/tommorow/next week"

Also, if she said anything funny/did anything funny that was a talking point for you both, try and slip in a joke about it after the "did you have a fun night" bit imo.

01-09-2010 , 09:32 AM

#1374

zugzwang83

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Girl dated guy for 2 years. Broke up last spring, got back together last fall, and now just broke up again before we got back for spring classes a week ago. When will it no longer be too soon to advance things without bringing along an emotional brouhaha. She definitely showed interest last semester and still is, but lol@picking up that sort of humpty dumpty right now. I figure ~3 weeks should be good right? But I dont have emotions so no clue whats standard.