yeah study girl is definitely not over me. we went back to her place today and messed around. afterwards she said she just needs some time to "be by herself" because she's basically been in one relationship or the other since she was 17 (brag?). She said all this **** like "you're making this really hard for me, you're so ****ing cute, i want to do this with you, it's just bad timing, etc etc". I took your advice El D and didn't really engage her in logical conversation about what was going on between us. Said things like "that's funny you think that, you worry too much, let's just hang and see what develops, etc". Unfortunately she's a very organized almost control freak sort of person and won't drop the issue....she needs to have things figured out before embarking on any sort of relationship.
A few hours ago she said she was dtf in my room tonight. half hour after i left she sent me another long ass text saying the same kind of thing that she needed time alone and being with me tonight would force her into something with me. I texted back "let me if you change your mind. besides, what are you gonna do, never see me again?
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Not much else I can do here, right? Just continue flirting and being awesome around her while waiting for her to get her stuff sorted out? No sense in pressuring her to make up her mind right now or have sex with me now, right? I'm just keeping the attitude right now of "i know you'll get with me eventually, so i'll wait around until you actually do". should i be more persistent?