Don't friend her out of the blue unless you're trying to not hook up with her, wait to run into her again and give her your number

Now they trying to ship me off to Kuwait
Gimme a break
How much **** can a ***** take?

This situation brings up a good question.

Been having a fair amount of situations where I I'll have a brief run in with a girl or even just make eye contact on campus. Most of these times don't seem to warrant a number request, but leave me to believe the next time I could, yet I don't see them for a while. Is the best play to just hope you see them around, or to hit them with an FB add and message them? (Assume these girls and I have mutual friends and they'd know who I was if I added them).

Just a one time run in and then get a FB request is kinda creepy,but that's just me.
Unless it was for an extended period of time,and it went so well both of you actually forgot to ask for contact info...

This is why its best to always ask for the number at the first chance you get unless you are sure you will see her again. If its a place when you both frequently go to then its fine not to. But if there is doubt you will not see her again then its good to exchange numbers.

In response to pogbas question, i think it depends on what you think her level of attraction is to you. if you couldnt gauge it during that short interaction. then i would leave it.

Talked to a Sweedish girl on Tinder that is only interested in "fun". Going round her dorm tomorrow night for some "fun". Will probably bring my books and stuff as she lives on campus. Easy walk to lectures for me on Monday.

Leave the books at home and skip class

Had a pretty good date with an old classmate of mine, friends of mine found a brilliant way of trying to ruin it, though.

We were in the same classes for 6 months last year and were definitely flirting but I never acted on it because I don't really do that with classmates, met again at the graduation thingy 3 weeks ago and she basically said when are you finally going to ask me out, so I did.

Went out for drinks and had fun but I was stupid enough to tell my best mate about it (I barely date and had told him about her before), they bribed my housemate for the key to our house and completely decorated my house with rose petals and candles. Really awesome to bring back a 1st date to your place to find three friends there and your house decked out like that.

She was a good sport about it and could laugh it off, told the friends to get the **** out after they got to know each other for a minute and we had a nice time after that.

I usually don't tell friends if I'm dating anyone and now I remember why, my friends consider things like these hilarious.

A little ribbing is OK,but not being able to bring friends around at all means you either need a new girlfriend or new friends.

The friends are awesome, I usually don't let them in before the dating amounts to anything. This time, I did and they were telling me to date this girl months ago. When I finally did they decided to have a little fun with it.

Guess it comes across like I don't tell them anything, that would be a very unhealthy situation but just after it amounts to something.

Annual bump of one of the best sequences ITT

I think Henry17 had the best quotes in this thread. Like when he made a post about how he used to consume 3000 calories worth of alcohol everyday.

Hatelijk2,

Your friends sound awesome. And I promise the girl liked you even more after that. Shows you hang out with fun people.

Middle school science teacher I hooked up with a couple times then never talked to again just added me on LinkedIn. Wtf?

And that probably explains what happened to him.

Out with my friends and some others I don't know tonight. Have made plans to go and have "fun" with the Sweedish girl again afterwards. One of the guys is a cripple, does this hurt my game or will he attract the nurturing type? Am I best off straying away from them and going hunting solo?

Wow.

Just to clarify, he's one of the other dudes that I don't know.

You really expect us to give advice when you dont even tell us what kind of cripple he is? Does he have blades for feet? Because he'll probably steal your girl

Picture Walt Jr from Breaking Bad, except not good looking and doesn't need crutches. He can walk, but in a strange way.

You're either a douche or a troll.

I am dead serious. I've asked myself what Henry would say, but I just don't know.

Hang out with him just in case he falls down,then gauge accordingly.

Honestly,why does this matter?

It's not going to get you laid.

I'm more interested as to whether hanging with him is going to hinder my chances. It sounds cold I know, but still. It's not like he's even my friend, he's a friend of a friend's.

So how does that affect you?

That's like worrying about how a stranger in a bar is going to affect you talking to random girls.

Or exactly the same.