Re: condoms

Best I've tried by far, #1 on ComdomDepot too, and you can grab 100 for $15 on Amazon: Crown Skinless 100-pack

My advice is just to stay away from condoms manufactured in Thailand. Make sure to ask whoever you are buying from where they are manufactured. Seems like a lot of these companies have one place they manufacture and then Thailand as their other place.

thanks lads

and this
is def not a problem haha

Yup, thats what i said a couple pages go. back in 13-14 everyone was just more willing

CoffeeMeetsBagel>>>>>Bumble IMO. Not as high quality as Bumble, but either can message the other, they give you a statement/question that pertains to the match when you do, and IME the stigma is much less than Bumble/Tinder with women I've met off there (and the % of meeting matches has been way higher than Tinder/Bumble). Low-time commitment with 9-20 swipes a day, too.

I really should have TR the party right when it happened because now I can't even remember exactly what I was going to write. Hooked up with the girl the next night and then the following night, aka yesterday the 4th, I got blown in the bathroom at the restaurant by the girl on my snap then hooked up at my house.

BathroomBachelor title is relevant again

Have a "friend" that just found out his "girlfriend" is pregnant.

He's owning up to it,but she's been with other guys and he has been with other girls,it's not been a committed relationship,but they do like each other.

I think he needs to get a DNA test,but I assume it's after the baby is born.

He asked me what to do,and I'm at a loss how to ask someone to take the test,and not totally piss them off.

I've been down that road,and it wasn't a problem to have the test done cause we didn't really like each other,just liked to bang .

So is there a good way to do it?

I'm thinking there's a chance he isn't the father,but her other partners were all kinda sketchy,no jobs,no car,bad boys,druggies,etc.
So she chose him cause he has a job and a car.

She seems normal,but at this time,who knows?
It's been about a week since she told him.

Any ideas?

A. Abort
B. Get tested if there's any chance it's not his

Get the F out of there as soon as possible...

But good luck convincing the friend of that.

Can you get a DNA test before the time it's too late to abort?

Abort asap, use the uncertainty to clear your conscience?

I've never had to be in that spot but I just came in a girl last weekend and I'm always like "goddd that was so unnecessary lol" right after. so I can put my mind there. She seems crazy but not in the "I want your baby" way. She was on her period, so less likely to be ovulating, and said she was on birth control. I still pulled out the second time in the morning when more sober and I swear they give you this vibe like you're insulting them by pulling out when they said they're on birth control.

I just feel like there's so many ppl who say yes they're on birth control when in reality they've been told once by a doctor that they may be less likely to conceive because of xxxx & yyyyyy in their life

Also end your text with babynames.com

From experience with my roommate who had this exact situation about 6 mo ago, only one solution worked. We tried everything, but until we sat him down and had to just show him how much money/time/expense it is to have a child.

He was wrapped up in an emotional sense, like "well, it would be cool to have a kid and do stuff w/him, etc. etc." But once we were able to get through to him that his life of 1. drinking 2. partying 3. banging other girls 4. spending money on himself 5. gambling was completely over and the kid is numero uno forever, he somewhat snapped out of it. Situation got resolved eventually, but no other argument had any sort of hold over him besides the last one. Just had to appeal to his own selfishness to help him get through the emotions.

Don't get me wrong, kids are great I'm sure, but not when you're not ready for one.

LOL....so she chose your friend bc he has a car and he's worried about how to have a convo about abortion or getting a DNA test bc he's worried it may hurt her feelings.

Grow the **** up, people tip toeing around everyone's feelings all the time is how these situations come up.

Be honest with the girl and tell her it's in both of your interests to have an abortion.

1) bc neither of you are in a position to raise the kid right now, and certainly not together
2) bc she has no idea who the father actually is

And be blunt that if the father isn't him then she's gonna be in for a world of hurt trying to get money out of 1 of several unemployed, carless, druggies.


Oh and tell your friend to wake the **** up and stop ****ing with this chick and get his life together. Her life is in shambles which means by default his life is at best 1 step above that on an internal level, even if he has such luxuries as a car.

That's kinda how I'd feel about it,but I can understand not pissing the girl off,cause we all know some can hold that grudge for a long frigging time.

And abortion is off the table()

I think he should ask asap,but I assume it can only be done after the kid is born.

Really,we all can see she isn't the best choice,but if she's keeping the kid,he's better off not making her mad.

This chick is a loser, he needs to distance himself from her and stop being a loser himself.

She's taken abortion off the table and she's pregnant with the child of potential unemployed druggies. The best prospect for a father is a guy that owns a car? I would tell her to her face that she better hope the kid is mine bc her life is totally ****ed if it isn't. I understand some of these chicks are complete losers, they hate themselves, and they think having a baby is going to bring them some sort of love and joy and potential payday for the next 18 years...his job is to make her understand that none of that will happen, esp if it's one of the other guys kids.

Beyond that, idk what the best option is if she has the kid and it's his. I have no idea how you try to maintain some sort of relationship with your kid when with the mother is some psycho, depressed, loser chick that thinks having a random dudes kid is going to improve her life...but your friend should start mentally preparing for that reality now, esp if he's not going to try to talk her off the ledge so to speak.

The least of my worries is pissing this girl off tho. She's not emotionally and mentally stable so worrying about that is like worrying about how you're gonna stop it from raining later...it's gonna happen, deal with it. She sounds like the kind of girl that's going to hold the child over the father's head, be manipulative, etc etc... If that's the case then he's going to have to deal with a reality where having a relationship with either of them may not be possible as showing any care towards the child will be used by the mother as an emotional weapon against him. This is the dysfunctional nature of single mothers who get pregnant in this way in order to "trap some dude" or bc she hates her life and thinks a kid will somehow transform her own self hatred.

Cliffs....tell your friend to run far far away from her

For all my ****** with babies by bitches
That use their kids as meal tickets
Not knowing the disconnect from the father
The next generation will be the real victims

Interesting you brought this up.It reminded me of a few times.

DISCLAIMER.Don't do this.

I never wore protection,I can say,except for three times I can remember,twice the girls asked the first time,but didn't after that,and one who was a disgusting slag that had obvious problems in that region,but I was horny, drunk and desperate.

You're right about pulling out,if they claimed it was alright but you tried,it did seem to insult them.
But the quality of most of them wasn't great TBH,most were decent looking,a few were hot,but a majority were damaged in some way.
Doing a rough inventory,it seems I hooked up with women working in a bar or restaurant,strippers or married/in a relationship.

I can't remember any outside of these parameters.

I'm not really dating,just banging alot,sometimes for extended periods,and one calls me up and tells me she's prego.
This is before DNA was a thing,so I just figured,well,she's not hot enough to screw around,so it must be mine.

Small aside...to see her dressed you'd have thought she was fat with a cute face.
Kinda meh..
But honestly,naked she looked good,big boobs and a big butt,before it was in style to have a horse's ass.

Anyway,she was a drinker,and after finding out she was preggers,she goes on a bender.
For a couple of weeks.

I ask her to get an abortion,mainly out of selfishness,and if she did go to term,I was afraid it would be some sort of waterjug with teeth as much as she kept drinking.

She agrees,so I give her the money,and a couple days later she calls me,all upset.

Seems she had a miscarriage,I thought due to her drinking,but it was spontaneous,no one could say for sure.
But she's really upset about losing the baby.

????

I never got my money back BTW...

Wow on a plane to Vegas where I'm gonna try to satty into the main event this weekend. The 2009 16yo clicking buttons on Full Tilt in me is so giddy. Thanks to CCuster for hooking it up with a place to stay. I'm using my one time, so when I ship it you guys have to come out

Decent chance she was never even pregnant to begin with

yik, gl

The New York Yikkerbockers in summer league and Pues shipping a ME seat, due

And you still haven't shipped me the nova t-shirt

GL buddy

10/10 would read again

OK,another one,just a total train wreck but I'm bored...

(Stop right now if you don't want tldr)

I'm out one night with a buddy,and he's the driver.

We go to an after-party when the bar closes,and I meet a sweet looking Indian chick (think of Pocahontas from Disney) and she wants some coke.
I happen to have some,so she offers to give me a ride to her place.
We get there,do the coke,and proceed to rail each others brains out.

We get done,and I call my buddy,no answer..

She gets kinda paranoid,I figured its the coke,no worries.

I finally get hold of my ride,he's half asleep and says he will get me in the morning,which is only an hour or so away,but I agree.

I figured I'd tear it up a little more,but she's dressed and trying to hustle me out the door.

It's January,freezing cold,no way I'm going outside til my buddy shows up.

She says,whatever you do,don't look out the window.

??

So I don't,until a pair of headlights shine up the house.

So I looked out the window,it's not my friends car,so I go sit down to wait for him.

All of a sudden,there's banging on the door.I don't know any better and go answer it...

And this dude grabs me,and wants to know what I'm doing at his apartment.

I don't know what to say,he yells at me,this is his apartment,and wants to know where his wife is.

She has run into the bedroom in the meantime,and I'm trying to figure out what is going on.

I look at the wall,and there's a picture of a couple of kids,so I say I'm the babysitter,yet the kids aren't there.

(BTW,that girl must have had them by c section,cause that **** was tight.I didn't get a good look)

So he asks where the kids are,and she pops her head out of the bedroom and says her sister came and picked them up earlier,and I'm waiting for my ride.

Bear in mind it's about 5 in the morning.

They proceeded to get into a knockdown drag out fight,she retreats into the bedroom,and evidently calls 911.

Cops show up,and I'm cowering on the couch,they talk to the couple,and decide its not worth the hassle.

I ask them for a ride to a store or something,anywhere to get outta here,they say if I go with them,it's going to be jail.

So I stay,and call my buddy again,he answers,he's sleeping at somebody's house,but he says he will come get me.

Cops leave,the couple go into the bedroom,and proceeded to have hardcore make-up sex.

I sit on the living room couch,listening,and wondering if the guy has any clue what bodily fluids he's getting sloppy seconds from.

Can't even enjoy it,cause I'm afraid he's going to see my handiwork and come out of the bedroom and kill me.

Eventually my ride shows up,and I get the hell out of Dodge.

A couple weekends or so later,I run into the guy at another party,and he profusely apologizes to me for his actions that night.

I act cool and say no big deal,amazed at how lucky I am.

His wife is there as well and she comes up to me and wants to go **** in the bathroom.

Luckily my big head overruled the little head,and I politely declined.

Found out later through mutual acquaintances he had served time for manslaughter.

And my friend still thinks it was hilarious,all these years later..

Been backpacking Europe these past 3 weeks and all I can say is I definitely should have done this years ago (I'm 25). If any of you ever get the chance to go to Budapest....GO.


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I was told I might get some good feedback in this thread so I'm cross posting from the Online dating thread in OOT.