Guy is obviously aesthetic as ****, but still a decent video:



if bored skip to like 19:30 for some lulz phone calls

Nice Vid, He def has game. His attitude about not chasing girl is ****ing A+. Movies and media have indoctrinated into guys that they need to chase girls and make all the effort but we all know irl that never works and you just come across as desperate.

Not hard to have game if the girls just throw themselves at you to baby em up.

Those calls.......I miss that.....

I guess it is a matter of lack of dating, self confidence and being scared.

Yesterday was the best night out in a very long time, mostly because I got a little action. Night started out with drinking with some friends and we had a great time. I got pretty drunk and we went out. Danced for like two hours straight and was soaking in sweat. During this time I made out with a girl that I have known but never really hit on or anything. We made out like 3-4 times. We sat on a stairwell one floor above the party floor, I kiss and touch her all over the place. I decide to go for ****ing and get in a hallway where basically no one goes. There are hotel rooms in the hallway so she says she don't want to. Im so drunk so I don't think about that anymore. The night goes on and I think we make out one more time. I live like 5 mins from this place so I have no idea why we aren't leaving for my place. She's a solid 6.5 and her body is 8 imo. Plan on messaging her sometime this week.

I dont see her more that night and I end up in another pretty chill after party with a couple of girls and one guy. Was a great night though since I got girl action. First time in like...forever. Sucks to fail before the finishline though.

Today Tinder girl (the one I know) says she thinks I should come out. Im too tired and not in the mood. Mixed feelings not going out. One part of me wants to go out and the other don't.

Anybody read aziz ansari's new book "modern romance?" I went into it thinking it was just going to be a comedy book on dating in this day and age. It's actually quite interesting.

I enjoyed it immensely. When people now say how embarrassing it is to tell others they met someone on Tinder, it doesn't sound as bad as some of the old people he interviewed that met because they wanted donuts.

It go down in the DM

Nice one Dante. Time to go for the Netflix and chill IMO

I'll preface this by saying I've been on tinder and match. I think you start off on much better footing by asking a girl out in person the old fashioned way. I think it shows confidence. So, it's more about that versus donuts. I know you're not arguing against that, I'm only making an off topic point.

Agreed.

Anybody have a link to the "on changing your life thread?"

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/79...your-life-787/

Im chatting with this girl now and I am not even sure she is aware/remembers that we kissed. Or at least she is not giving away any tells.

I know the feeling, most women struggle to remember the day after sexual activity with me too

lol

We've been chatting for an hour now she asks things back and writes with a lot of smileys, thinking I should go for asking her out.

So I asked her out and she declined at the moment blaming that she recently came out of a relationship. In the same sentence she said "Maybe another time?" and some chatting later "hope you dont find it weird". Oh man. I really think I have a shot here.

Either it's a nice way to say **** off or she actually wouldn't mind me taking her to dinner.

Shut it down and stop responding. Time to move on. Just treat these conversation's as freeroll's. You have nothing to lose.

But I actually think I might have a shot if she just gets some time to digest the earlier relationship.

Sending each other (witty) messages throughout the day over text/chat seems fine, but chatting non-stop for an hour or longer seems a negative.

I would also stop contacting her. If she was legitimately interested she would have accepted. Wait until she reconnects/throws you big signals. I don't think trying is a freeroll. Rejection leads to a drop in confidence.

I mean, I don't plan to message her every other day. Maybe see how her exams went and stuff like that in a couple of weeks.

I dont know if I can get any lower, but yes, rejection leads to worse confidence.

He finally finished the book. Definitely worth a read.

Dante,

If a girl (or guy) doesn't suggest a specific alternative, it's a no. "Maybe another time" is just people being nice because it's not easy to say "no I'm not interested." Every once in a while you'll be surprised and "maybe another time" was genuine but don't count on it. I would have 100% taken that as a rejection in your shoes. What'd you say to ask her out by the way?

Yeah post at least that part of the convo for ANALYSIS

Yeah,I'd go with this as your default.

Always possible she meant it,but don't count on it.

Depressing,yes, but it beats asking for the date and she screams in abject horror.