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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

11-05-2015 , 04:38 PM
Well to his credit, the problem is less for guys since the average couple is younger female and older male. Not sure what made him post it.

There is a really good xkcd on this topic about how the (age)/2 + 7 dating formula outpaces the marriage rate so your dating pool actually increases as you get older. Which is funny to me, but I am a math guy.
11-05-2015 , 05:33 PM
Yeah I like how it just kinda came outta no where
11-05-2015 , 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by StormBorn
How would you go about getting a number from a girl that works in a fairly busy convenience store? Moved to a new area a couple months ago and there's a girl that works in the nearest store that's always pretty flirty with me, lots of eye contact and smiles when I walk in etc. She called across half the store when I was leaving this evening to say good bye even though she was serving another customer.

Problem is there's always lots of people before and after me in the queue and co workers around so it's hard to say a whole lot to her.

This is Ireland as well where people aren't nearly as forward about asking people out as they are in North America.

In situations where you see the girl often and there seems to be something flirty already going on with her or if you meet a new girl somewhere like a cafe, bookstore, etc and have a real convo/connection and can tell she's into you I will usually leave my number with them and let her reach out. The bonus to this is girls will pretty much never reach out to a guy they aren't interested in so you already know where she stands. Also the fact that you will run into her again, I think it's less pressure to just leave your number and let her decide what she wants. Once she has your number if you don't hear from her I wouldn't even mention it to her. If she talks about something fun later when you see her you can casually tell her to send you a text about it but I would always just leave it at that until she reached out.

If I meet a girl briefly and we don't have much time to talk but it appears we both like each other then I'll get her number and reach out to her. In this situation you can talk to a girl for 3-5 minutes and she might be really intrigued by you and wanting to see you again in the future right after you meet, but then the next day she goes to text you and she's in a different mood, not feeling as confident, he exbf texted her, whatever and she hesitates to do it which will often stop her from reaching out all together. Girls get into their heads just as much as guys do and psych themselves out of stuff they want. But if you text her and she's responding you're likely to catch her at some point when she's in a curious/adventurous mood again in which case things can be back on again very quickly.
11-05-2015 , 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted by GoodGame
Also San Diego NYE roll call time. My best friend went last year and made plans for it already so I'm going and hoping to do OMFG NYE. He's never done a rave so he might not want to do the 31st day. Anyone doing it/want to?
Andddddd it's lit. First lineup phase is out
11-07-2015 , 01:33 AM
Just wokeup from a nap and not going out tonight so here we go: '17 Tampa




We gonna make it
11-08-2015 , 12:13 AM
wow
11-08-2015 , 02:11 AM
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Originally Posted by GoodGame
Just wokeup from a nap and not going out tonight so here we go: '17 Tampa




We gonna make it
Shes a top 5 IBOTD of all time.
11-08-2015 , 05:11 PM
holy shiiiiiiiiiiit
11-08-2015 , 05:58 PM
A+
11-08-2015 , 06:28 PM
Not sure if anyone else noticed, but her bf is shockingly average. Maybe I missed something, like he's a trust fund kid or red-shirt QB somewhere...but if not, there is definitely hope for all of us fam
11-09-2015 , 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted by xdeuceswild81xx
Not sure if anyone else noticed, but her bf is shockingly average. Maybe I missed something, like he's a trust fund kid or red-shirt QB somewhere...but if not, there is definitely hope for all of us fam
or girls aren't attracted to looks, money, status like you think they are. rather they are attracted to certain qualities that guys who make money and achieve status tend to have
11-09-2015 , 02:09 AM
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Originally Posted by TheBirdman
Did GG smash or...?
she won a contest on barstool smokes for halloween

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Originally Posted by LucidDream
or girls aren't attracted to looks, money, status like you think they are. rather they are attracted to certain qualities that guys who make money and achieve status tend to have
11-09-2015 , 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by LucidDream
or girls aren't attracted to looks, money, status like you think they are. rather they are attracted to certain qualities that guys who make money and achieve status tend to have
Lol....whooo you almost had me going there for a minute.

Quit that,my lips are chapped.
11-09-2015 , 08:33 AM
Well he is correct.
11-09-2015 , 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by xdeuceswild81xx
Not sure if anyone else noticed, but her bf is shockingly average. Maybe I missed something, like he's a trust fund kid or red-shirt QB somewhere...but if not, there is definitely hope for all of us fam
Ya I saw him too lol. I think they brokeup because I didn't see any recent posts. Prob standard got lucky to be in same middle school/highschool and developed social status in that closed mating market. Then she went to college and the whole game changed. But who knows
11-09-2015 , 11:10 AM
Wonder if he'll ever get over that one? Haha
11-09-2015 , 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by LucidDream
or girls aren't attracted to looks, money, status like you think they are. rather they are attracted to certain qualities that guys who make money and achieve status tend to have
Right and if you looked at the pictures briefly, you would see this goober had none of those qualities it would seem. Like half his pictures were with cargo shorts and gym shorts. He seemed average height, average aesthetic, etc. Maybe he's a super boss irl and I'm wrong, but at a quick glance, it just seemed odd that you had a dimepiece hanging out with this guy.


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Originally Posted by GoodGame
Ya I saw him too lol. I think they brokeup because I didn't see any recent posts. Prob standard got lucky to be in same middle school/highschool and developed social status in that closed mating market. Then she went to college and the whole game changed. But who knows
This was my initial thought too^. I wouldn't be shocked if she upgrades quickly with her newfound "fame".

edit: Just saw LT said she was on barstool + TFM? Damn, gg ex-bf.
11-09-2015 , 12:27 PM
University of Tampa

Jameis is coming imo
11-09-2015 , 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by xdeuceswild81xx
Right and if you looked at the pictures briefly, you would see this goober had none of those qualities it would seem. Like half his pictures were with cargo shorts and gym shorts. He seemed average height, average aesthetic, etc. Maybe he's a super boss irl and I'm wrong, but at a quick glance, it just seemed odd that you had a dimepiece hanging out with this guy.

how he dresses doesnt determine if hes rich or not lol, since when do you have to be above average height to get girls? the biggest slayer i know is 5'8. its super standard for hot girls to date guys that arent that good looking
11-09-2015 , 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
how he dresses doesnt determine if hes rich or not lol, since when do you have to be above average height to get girls? the biggest slayer i know is 5'8. its super standard for hot girls to date guys that arent that good looking
Because only shorties want to be friend with your manlet ass.

/s
11-09-2015 , 05:35 PM
Height is huge no doubt about it my gf basically said shes only dated dudes 6'+

I do think its over blown to an extent though and can be over come with good dress, hygiene, money etc...
11-09-2015 , 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by TheBirdman
Wsop,

Height is a MASSIVE factor when it comes to getting girls. A majority of girls will simply not give you a chance if they are taller than you are or about the same height. You may have one short friend that pulls but on the whole being short is a huge barrier to overcome.
As long as shes not taller than you then you have a chance. I wasnt talking about being short. obv if youre noticeably short youre at a disadvantage, i was talking about being average height.
11-09-2015 , 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Because only shorties want to be friend with your manlet ass.

/s
man get your lanky ass on i bet you got a phobia of ceiling fans with your tall ass lol
11-09-2015 , 08:09 PM
Oh yay another height discussion!
11-09-2015 , 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
how he dresses doesnt determine if hes rich or not lol, since when do you have to be above average height to get girls? the biggest slayer i know is 5'8. its super standard for hot girls to date guys that arent that good looking
I don't think lots of hot girls are dating dudes who aren't at least near their respective class. She's a 10 and it looks like she was dating some avg dude was all.

I think GG gets what I was trying to say, didn't mean anything too serious by it. Just found it interesting was all

      
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