It's in the title of the thread. He's trolling

Yeah thread wasn't as epic as I thought it would be but it just kinda shows that with those facial aesthetics you have a lot of room for shenanigans

The OP would not have gotten laid more often than others, the guy was an idiot, his conversational skills were terrible. Of course he wanted to push the boundaries but then at least you need to know where they are in the first place.

So next week I am going on my first date ever. Im really psyched.

I am thinking just going for a walk and chit-chat. Then at the next date also go for a walk but then afterwards invite her to my apartment, watch some tv, just relax. My question is, should I ask her immediately after first date for another walk or wait 2-3 days?

You're assuming she will want to go out again. You're assuming you will want to see her again. Bad assumptions. Don't get caught up planning things. Let them naturally progress.

Inviting a girl to your place might sound relaxing, but it sounds boring and she'll think you are inviting her over for sex. EDIT: Inviting her over to do something fun is okay if things are going well. Inviting her over to watch tv and relax sounds boring.

How old are you? How did you meet this girl?

Maybe I should also tell you that I know this girl, we have spoken on parties and I would consider her a friend. We are also facebook friends.

When I asked her out she told me that she was happy that I asked her out and that is why I am drawing conclusions.

My girl friends at work told me that a walk would be a nice start then invite her home to just watch some tv. If that is boring what do you suggest?

Im 23-28 years old.

Do some type of activity e.g. mini golf, bowling, kayaking, a local festival, a local band, etc.

Don't listen to advice from girls about how to be a man.

I would have highly recommended you go on a bunch of online dates before asking this girl out, but it's too late for that. You have zero experience dating and that is going to be a disadvantage in the long run if you really like this girl.

Well, I'll go for a walk with her and see how things goes.

Wish me luck, i'll probably need that or beta blockers if I dont want to pee my pants out of nervosity.

You'll be fine. If you feel confident talking to the girl just let conversation flow.

I do think that a walk is a little on the dull side, seems like the sort of thing a middle aged women would say is nice. I'd have some kind of backup plan in case it doesn't look like she's enjoying herself. Is there a bar close that you can go to? Would certainly help with your nervousness.

Anything but this. They gave you terrible advice.

Apparently that girl would like that. But on average most girls would not. You gotta play the averages and go with something the majority would enjoy.

Unfortunately dont have any bars around.

Well she was glad I asked her out for a walk so I am not completely out of line. But maybe walk --> invite to apartment is lame.

I'll TR next week.

She was happy you asked her out, I highly doubt going for a walk with you excited her LOL

There must me something going on in your town that is fun.

How could you live in a town with no bars? Wtf where do you live

Obviously DanteA is not telling the whole story.
Either he will sink or swim on this walk he plans to take and we aren't going to change his mind about it.

I think a physical activity is great for 1st date. LT22 listed some great options.

Why'd you give us an age range? Just like there is a huge difference between an 18 year old and 22 year old, there is quite a large difference between 23 and 28.

I don't know about you, but I'm feeling 22

I'm going to assume you're an introverted poker player who dresses ****ty and she's a likewise 4-5/10 if you said ask for another walk lol.

The fact you have girls at work you call friends and seek advice means you're on a huge uphill battle. Just know going into this that'll be a stepping stone to more successful times. The only true 100% advice I can give you, since there's no details on what she desires or who you are, is to break the touch barrier early and semi often.

Whether it's leaning over her to grab something or a cheeky push when she says a joke, whatever. Touch her. Also compliment her immediately upon seeing her. A casual you look nice or you smell good, while hugging. Say it super nonchalantly and follow up with another sentence right away before she responds to it.

Unmatching = you caring. Not caring is the most attractive thing a guy can do.

I use them sparingly. Last one was a picture of a fruit plate and bottomless mimosas on a Sunday morning that got 47 likes which may be a social media record for me. It's a good way to show you're out there in life doing ****. It's conducive to having a girl allow you to meet out at a bar on a weekend because she sees you do it a lot and won't embarrass her and it's also conducive to getting her to just come watch a movie at your place because it's clear you do other things all the time

In your brief conversations at parties, was there anything specific that would stand out? Was there any talk of bands/dj/activity/restaurant that you were both interested in?

Earlier in the day yesterday expressed interest to have some casual drinks with some friends. Then some girl messaged and wanted to hang out. Decided to do that instead. My friends had messaged friend zoned chic and a couple other female friends. 6 of them ended up going out. They asked if I was still coming at about 8. Told them I had to see about a girl. (appropriate line given recent passing of robin williams).

I guess they had told friend zoned chic I was coming. Then I no show. I'm sure they told her I was hanging out with some other chic.

She messaged me this morning: what's going on with you? we've seen each other once for like 5 minutes since i've been home. i miss you.


just gave her the, ya i've been pretty busy lately. work and stuff.

LOL women

Well done well done

The dynamics seem so weird tbh. It's pretty unnatural behavior on your part, you dont really cut people off like that. I get what you are trying to do but you shouldn't have let her come so attached to you. And then making up excuses seems even weirder.

Totally disagree. He's done nothing wrong.

Although this latest interaction makes me wonder if he's not gay best friend but that she wants a real relationship and wants him to ask her on a proper date (not just hooking up).

There's a nonzero chance housenuts misread the entire situation.