yeah to me "relationship" means "exclusive", and "i don't want to get serious" means "i don't want to be exclusive"

but exclusive doesn't imply relationship....imo

I disagree actually. I think relationship = exclusive. Dating = non-exclusive.

I'm going to the bar, so I cannot further explain. Just be sure that you are in safe hands. Themoreyouknow.jpg

So our date tonight ended at 11:15pm with me dropping her off at her place (and not going upstairs), but I actually feel much better about where things stand and pretty great in general.

I guess I assumed that with her having work today at 7:30am and class tomorrow at 10am, I'd be more likely to keep her out later and get down to business tonight than last night, but it turns out that she's much more amenable to blowing off work duties and actually takes this class thing pretty seriously, so tonight when she said she had to be home earlyish to get to sleep for class it turns out she actually meant it.

But, we had fun, we went to a comedy club and saw a pretty good act that we both enjoyed along with a couple drinks and then drove to another neighborhood to grab some food, settling on (lol) Johnny Rocket's for a grilled cheese sandwich and some chili cheese fries with a milkshake before taking her home. We made out for awhile in the car while I tried to soften her up into letting me come up, and...I dunno, I just feel like I can tell she likes me. The way our lips part softly when we kiss, the way we smile at each other, I just feel like I can feel something there that makes me feel like everything's gonna be ok.

And the way she talks about how she spends her free time, I'm pretty sure she's not dating anyone else since she has so many other commitments in her life. So I don't think we need to have any grand talks anytime soon...I'm enjoying the time I can spend with her, and for now that's fine.

I'm seeing her again next Saturday (specifically so that we can enjoy Sunday morning together ) and possibly squeezing in another "TV date" during the week. But yeah, I'm feeling pretty happy with things right now. Obviously I could be being incredibly naive and there's epic soulcrush potential coming....but, hopefully there won't be

pics plz

lmfao needs more love

nooooooo goffy youre falling in love!

As far as I can tell, goofy falls in love before every first date.

if you haven't hooked up with either of them and are in the zone at this hang out, "hit on" both of them. if you did it incorrectly you could lose both of them though.


goofy-

you are definitely on the brink of love unless you are just a very passionate person. Reading the 2nd part of your post was very intense.

If you think she really likes you, why do you think she gave you the "lets be casual"? testing you?

karak-

pics of BG are so crucial at this point

Stripper update:

Or downdate.....So after the other night of us fooling around in the hotel lobby, we were supposed to go on a date yesterday. The stripper didn't even want to leave the lobby the night before to go to bed she just wanted to spend as much time as possible as she ocld with me, however

Date day: Date day i txt her in the morning to tell her I hope she has a good day at work and am excited to see her later...No response....called her about an hour later no response, all in all she ignored my txts and calls yesterday completely and I haven't heard from her..


Y would she have come in the night before not wanting to leave, flirting like hell with me, and then all of a sudden the night were supposed to go out have no contact with me at all to let me know what was going on?


Another thing that bothered me as that she checked out of the hotel yesterday during the day...she fkn lives at the hotel, why would she be checking out? she has no family to go see, so where the fk is she and why didn't she respond to me yesterday when the night before she didnt want to spend a second without me?

dude... lol shes a stripper


karak- ftr i only asked BG when you were getting married once, and we've heard the "im starting to lose interest" bit before


goofy- be careful not to get too attached and lovey dovey you dont want to scare her off

You made out with her while on the clock.

Maybe she doesn't respect people who get paid for performing quasi-sexual acts.

nh

but... you're a cashier.

we have?

Yes.

oh

well here it is again?

Because of the other commitments she has in her life.

I'm not falling in love or anything, I'm just not worried about all the things I was worried about yesterday.

no one will let "other commitments in life" get in the way of someone they truly want to be with

goofy it's too early to be thinking about this stuff. wait a month or two. stop thinking about waht she does with other dudes. it doesn't matter UNLESS she starts telling you about it and/or dropping it in your face, and i do not think this chick will.

I disagree with this statement. Love alone cannot overcome a large number of issues which may come up between a couple. That being said after a couple dates she clearly is not invested enough to be in that stage anyway.

i originally had "love" typed in there instead of "truly want to be with" and did change it to address that, but that is a valid point

also im gunna be picking up BG from her house tonight (she lives in the area and came back from school for lawl prom), and im gunna have to meet her parents. BG told me her dad owns a lot of guns.

that will be kinda awk

hi im [karak]. i'm 24-years-old and here to take your 19-year-old daughter to a law school prom. she already informed you she'll be spending the night at my house (she told her mom this point blank and her mom got all frazzled and then juts said nothing). please do not shoot me with one of your many fine firearms.

So many Lol's that you have to meet her parents. You sure your not 16? I think you better bring her back before 10 o'clock.

Yeah that last paragraph definitely commits you to a TR.

karak= nerdy, less douchy version of tucker max

friends confirm/deny?