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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

07-17-2013 , 12:00 PM
Do you upload photos of yourself or does it use fb? If the latter, do you choose which photos it uses?

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07-17-2013 , 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
Yes, paying $500 for a middle tier prostitute who may or not be a cop ready to send you to prison is the same banging a SEC sorority who you liked you on tinder (not to mention you can, you know, keep banging her)
And even though I've never sexed a prostitute, I have to imagine banging someone who wants to bang me is a lot more fun than banging someone who is being paid to bang me. Maybe I'm crazy though.
07-17-2013 , 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by PtMx
Do you upload photos of yourself or does it use fb? If the latter, do you choose which photos it uses?

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android one doesn't let you edit your profile yet.

So its your about me section from facebook, and your 4 latest profile pictures.


which for me was not ideal since 2 of those are of my pets since they had died and 1 was from <4 months ago when i was 20lbs heavier.


they said the next update in a couple weeks will allow you to edit your ****.
07-17-2013 , 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
met this chick at a bar thursday. texted a little that night, told her id hit her up this week.

texted her yesterday using her "nickname" ((play on her first name) asking how her weekend went with an inside joke. she snapped responded with my own "nickname" then went dark. lol me or lol women?

5:59PM
Me: "What's up [nickname]!? How'd your weekend end up, get any exciting instagram photos?"


6:03PM
Her: [nickname]! Noo, I'm boring and opened [at work] all weekend. I don't often get to have fun these days haha. How was yours?


6:07PM
Me: Too bad, are you experiencing hashtag or filter withdrawals? I didn't do anything either, worked Saturday night and early Sunday. Tends to happen after a [place we met] Thursday haha



then nothing. wat
What the **** is she supposed to respond?
"Yes, I experienced severe hashtag withdrawals".

I like the first line ("Whats up x") but definitely don't take the inside joke any further as apparently its not an interesting subject (from what I can tell)
07-17-2013 , 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted by scrolls
And even though I've never sexed a prostitute, I have to imagine banging someone who wants to bang me is a lot more fun than banging someone who is being paid to bang me. Maybe I'm crazy though.
I've never used a hooker but I have friends who have and I've known a few.

I think there are different ways guys approach this.

A minority actually get off on the girl being paid. That is part of the appeal.

The majority I would say engage in suspension of disbelief. I don't think you can completely forget that it is a hooker situation but you can for the most part put it out of your mind. There is a discussion forum for local hookers and when looking at what the guys write in reviews the degree to which girls go in helping them with the the illusion figures greatly in their reviews.

Many years ago I was friends with a guy who was dating / exploiting a hooker. I spent a afternoon - night at her place while she was doing in-calls. It was really ****ed up. A few of the guys brought her flowers and or other small gifts. It was awkward as I was sitting with these guys and I actually felt bad for them since they clearly seemed to not understand what the defined john / hooker relationship is. Granted you see this with strippers / regulars as well. I know one girl who has been dancing for the same few guys for 12 years. It is just ****ed.
07-17-2013 , 12:51 PM
Don't use Tinder but at the very least it seems good practice for your text game.
07-17-2013 , 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Barbra Streisand
What the **** is she supposed to respond?
"Yes, I experienced severe hashtag withdrawals".

I like the first line ("Whats up x") but definitely don't take the inside joke any further as apparently its not an interesting subject (from what I can tell)
idk

didn't want to send a 200 character text, so figured I'd get some kind of basic response like "Haha I survived somehow" "Yeah drinking hard Thursday tends to do that" "Lol fun people we are" etc, transition to asking what she is doing this weekend.

part of that is based on her immediate response the first time, in which she seemed to be excited and had no problem engaging in a brief text convo. if it took her like 2 hrs to answer the first text I probably would have gotten more down to business.
07-17-2013 , 12:58 PM
Yeota,
obviously a bigger problem in the US. Prostitution is legal here and $500 is a ****load.
You pay 30 - 100€ in Germany, obviously sky is the limit, but depends on your preferences.

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Originally Posted by scrolls
And even though I've never sexed a prostitute, I have to imagine banging someone who wants to bang me is a lot more fun than banging someone who is being paid to bang me. Maybe I'm crazy though.
Got a friend who uses hookers and ****s regular girls and he says the sex with professionals is way better.

Last edited by Spurious; 07-17-2013 at 01:00 PM. Reason: answer is ldo: it depends
07-17-2013 , 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
I'm not sold on Tinder -- we have some evidence for attractive girls but not enough to be confident and I see at least two additional issues -- what percentage of hot girls actually want to meet vs what percentage want to have their ego inflated and just chat to fill their boring time. I also think that it will have issues because the type of guys who will be successful on Tinder are also the type of guys that already have no issues picking up constantly in person. I don't know if the average looking guy is going to really get any hot girls from this. I'd expect guys will generally be going at their own level or under because you have no way of really promoting any of your other qualities except looks.

That being said I get the impression from you post that you feel there has to be a certain amount of effort involved but maybe I'm reading it wrong.

I tend to think that low effort ways to have sex with hot girls are very rare but they do exist. I see those as good things. I don't know if Tinder falls into the category but I'm positive on the category.
This is spot on, coming from someone who has metup with/+ with diff girls from Tinder.

Tindering on the john is a great activity.
07-17-2013 , 01:27 PM
ive never used tinder but might set it up. should probably get a more recent picture but i try to avoid photo ops.

also have to check my fb to make sure there isnt something extremely offensive in there or may skew results

the risk seems to be someone i know seeing me which would be embarrassing but i guess it means they are on there too so yolo
07-17-2013 , 01:30 PM
im just gonna wait until i can edit my profile
07-17-2013 , 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by dkgojackets
ive never used tinder but might set it up. should probably get a more recent picture but i try to avoid photo ops.

also have to check my fb to make sure there isnt something extremely offensive in there or may skew results

the risk seems to be someone i know seeing me which would be embarrassing but i guess it means they are on there too so yolo
They cant see your facebook profile, or your likes that are not in common. I guess you could like a **** ton of obscure bands and tv shows and ****, maybe like the notebook for the lulz, and then girls will see you have that in common. Not like if one of your likes is ass to mouth, the girl will know this.
07-17-2013 , 02:46 PM
dkgoat get rid of that avatar
07-17-2013 , 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
Having sex is an end in itself. I don't know when I was single if I was getting invitations to the Playboy Mansion parties I wouldn't turn them down.



Yes except obviously the less attractive are going to match. I'm still not clear on exactly how it works but basically I assume there are two lists of pictures -- male and female. Everyone gets the complete list and you go threw and select people you think are attractive. When two people select each other it sets off an alert and you each get told about the match.

I suspect that what you'll have is an inverse correlation between how attractive a girl is and how many guys she selects as possible matches.


It is funny because getting a job in law in Ontario was based on the same match system and I can't believe it never occurred to me that this would work for dating. No one has mentioned how they make money from this -- I assume ads of some kind or maybe they are just building it up to monetize later.

In the theoretical sense yes there are lists of pictures. But in the actual sense you dont have access to this list at your own discretion.

Basically you get shown a profile like this(on the right obv):



This has a profile pic, age, first name, number of mutual friends, and number of shared interests(also number of pictures they have in their profile). You can do one of three things, either click on the photo to open their profile, or just swipe left for dont like and swipe right for like(or actually click the heart/x).

The profile is limited to:

More pictures
Distance away
Last active
Shared interests/friends
and a tagline, which you can type something up like a dating profile, although most people have less than 2 sentences, usually including the college they go to if they do, or generic **** you see on all dating profiles.

You are right in that its harder to bat out of your league on tinder. You cant even get your foot in the door if the girl doesn't find you meeting her minimum level of attractiveness. Hot girls will def use the app for ego boosts, but they will also meet up with people too.

The key is to not just devote a lot of time simply because you got matches, I imagine matches dont mean much to girls at all(outside of the very very picky), you should send an opening text and you should be able to gauge pretty easily within the first two messages if shes actually keen or what. Its not like something you should be doing at night, do it during the day when you have free time, taking a **** or whenever you are not really giving up something to do it. If you treat it like this its effectively a very very minimal risk and decent amount of reward.

And majority of meetups form tinder are probably not going to be strictly sex, its similar to other dating sites in that regard. You will probably meet up with her for drinks or something first.

Last edited by CCuster_911; 07-17-2013 at 02:52 PM.
07-17-2013 , 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted by diskoteque
dkgoat get rid of that avatar
lol we have a non-CHALLENGEr itt
07-17-2013 , 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
They cant see your facebook profile, or your likes that are not in common. I guess you could like a **** ton of obscure bands and tv shows and ****, maybe like the notebook for the lulz, and then girls will see you have that in common. Not like if one of your likes is ass to mouth, the girl will know this.
awesome, i am going to NEXT every girl who doesnt like the CHALLENGE, then when i find one invite her to the chicago 2p2 watching party
07-17-2013 , 03:21 PM
disko/dk,

What's that avatar from?
07-17-2013 , 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
met this chick at a bar thursday. texted a little that night, told her id hit her up this week.

texted her yesterday using her "nickname" ((play on her first name) asking how her weekend went with an inside joke. she snapped responded with my own "nickname" then went dark. lol me or lol women?

5:59PM
Me: "What's up [nickname]!? How'd your weekend end up, get any exciting instagram photos?"


6:03PM
Her: [nickname]! Noo, I'm boring and opened [at work] all weekend. I don't often get to have fun these days haha. How was yours?


6:07PM
Me: Too bad, are you experiencing hashtag or filter withdrawals? I didn't do anything either, worked Saturday night and early Sunday. Tends to happen after a [place we met] Thursday haha



then nothing. wat
funny you say this: recently, ive asked out three girls (via either email or text), who then replied saying they'd love to go out. i follow up asking if such and such date works for them and they don't reply. the fact that they dont want to go out isnt so weird; it's the fact that they choose to reply and say sure let's do it, THEN don't reply. would be better off just not replying in the first place, right? lolwomen
07-17-2013 , 04:42 PM
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Originally Posted by scrolls
disko/dk,

What's that avatar from?
Its CT from the MTV shows of Real World/The Challenge.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...edrKdWZE#t=32s
07-17-2013 , 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by funkyfood
funny you say this: recently, ive asked out three girls (via either email or text), who then replied saying they'd love to go out. i follow up asking if such and such date works for them and they don't reply. the fact that they dont want to go out isnt so weird; it's the fact that they choose to reply and say sure let's do it, THEN don't reply. would be better off just not replying in the first place, right? lolwomen
This is just rude/disrespectful, I dont know why girls always do this lol Theyre so finicky sometimes, one day they are into the next day they don't reply to your texts lolgirls
07-17-2013 , 06:05 PM
challenge is on tonight wooooo
07-17-2013 , 06:06 PM
I'm gonna give Tinder a crack once I'm back from the US, but not overly optimistic. I have a weird name, I'm new to the city so friends in common will be minimal and I'm not particularly photogenic, I imagine I'll do pretty terribly at something that bases attractiveness purely on a few photos, mutual friends and your first name.
07-17-2013 , 06:07 PM
Friends in common isnt a factor people use at all, if anything it hinders you. Also doubt names matter at all in life.
07-17-2013 , 06:26 PM
Well I'm still un photogenic so ****ed regardless haha. Disagree with name though. Especially on something where it's so easy to next and there is no attachment, anything that adds difficulty will be a detriment.

Also gonna give online dating and speed dating a crack as well. Two of my good girl mates who are both eligible bachelorettes do both and they say the quality isn't terrible.

Not going to go crazy with any of them individually but at the very least I'm going to have some pretty good TR's over the next 6 months I imagine.
07-17-2013 , 06:28 PM
Mutual friends is actually a factor. I think a girl may trust you more if certain people know you.

      
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