"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 185

welp it seems like me and "A" are officially done. it feels weird because i've only ever wanted to date 2 other girls in my life and i did. it felt like it was in the bag a lot of times yet somehow it didn't work out. if i wasn't so lazy i'd probably quote every post itt i ever made about her.

she's moving like 6hrs away for school in 5 months and her recent pictures she uploaded looked pretty bad (just the outfit choice) so i guess i don't feel to crushed.

04-01-2010 , 06:26 PM

#4603

DerrtySlime

veteran

Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 2,190

my goal this summer is to nail 26 girls then write a TR tr involving girls whose names will be A through Z.

sl tourney can be found here

04-01-2010 , 07:39 PM

#4604

nbaaddict

journeyman

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 274

so i've made out with a couple drunk girls at my uni but haven't talked to them since and when i see them again it's mega-awkward and mega uncomfortable for me. any advice for when i see these girls again?

04-01-2010 , 07:40 PM

#4605

KoreanBuffet

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4,268

Quote:

Originally Posted by nbaaddict

OMG hai freshman year! I pretended I didn't see them...

04-01-2010 , 07:50 PM

#4606

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

Quote:

Originally Posted by nbaaddict

who cares? just act like nothing happened. if they are getting weirdo about it, then that's their problem.

04-01-2010 , 08:34 PM

#4607

B.T.overdrive

journeyman

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 261

I'm with karak on this one. avoidance or ignoring them is a bad line to take. being friendly and showing a little bit of interest in their lives gives you a whole lot less chance of coming off as a douche. Girls talk. You being uncomfortable is just your brain telling you that because you made out with them they have some significance that some other random girl doesn't. If you know them as friends, treat them as such. If not, maybe you can run some day game

04-01-2010 , 08:36 PM

#4608

zugzwang83

banned

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 3,588

im pretty sure martilo looks like brad pitt from his fight club years.

04-01-2010 , 09:18 PM

#4609

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Quote:

Originally Posted by zugzwang83

im pretty sure martilo looks like brad pitt from his fight club years.

I agree, I've jumped to the conclusion that he's likely the best-looking among us.

04-01-2010 , 09:20 PM

#4610

Vintage00

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 7,513

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

I agree, I've jumped to the conclusion that he's likely the best-looking among us.

Speak for yourself.

04-01-2010 , 10:25 PM

#4611

thebigeasy59

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nbaaddict

gonna have to disagree with everyone, and say talk to at least one of them, preferably your favorite. shy girls are always like this around guy they fool around with, but if you initiate any kind of contact they usually open up. if she made out with you in the first place then theres probably some kind of attraction level and it should be easy to procure at least something somewhere.

Last edited by thebigeasy59; 04-01-2010 at 10:26 PM. Reason: disagree as in offer a slightly different, albeit drunk, opinion. see you tomorrow BTO!!!

04-01-2010 , 10:52 PM

#4612

B.T.overdrive

journeyman

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 261

Good Friday keggers ftw. Hopefully between me and thebigeasy one us will have a decent TR by sunday

04-01-2010 , 10:55 PM

#4613

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

This BG situation has such potential to be an absolute ****ing trainwreck.

Of course, since I'm Karak, that draws me in like a fly to a zapper thing (whatever the **** they are called).

04-01-2010 , 11:07 PM

#4614

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vintage00

Speak for yourself.

My heterosexual opinion that an imaginary male character behind one screen name looks better than an imaginary male character behind another screen name...well, that's nothing to be offended by.

04-01-2010 , 11:07 PM

#4615

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

I considered posting a success TR as an April Fool's Day joke.

That is how long my drought has gone on.

04-01-2010 , 11:13 PM

#4616

zugzwang83

banned

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 3,588

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

I considered posting a success TR as an April Fool's Day joke.

That is how long my drought has gone on.

in b4 martilo posts a fake fail TR hahaha

also lol karak get outta thereee

04-01-2010 , 11:15 PM

#4617

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

after my run for the last 3 months im just operating on the assumption that i have misread the situation

bad runs causing bad play imo

dont care

04-01-2010 , 11:18 PM

#4618

CCuster_911

You Only Live Once

Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 24,435

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

I agree, I've jumped to the conclusion that he's likely the best-looking among us.

I think it would be funny for everyone in SL to "guess" what the other person looks like(in the most hetero way possible ldo)...obviously this will fall only upon those who post TRs......

04-01-2010 , 11:23 PM

#4619

goofyballer

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Quote:

Originally Posted by goofyballer

Sigh, my latest online dating adventure:
- messaging back and forth with a chick who seems reasonably attractive and pretty cool
- she gives me her personal e-mail and tells me to use that so she can reply faster cause her work blocks the dating site
- I send her an e-mail from my e-mail address
- two hours later, she doesn't respond but does friend me on Facebook (obv looked me up on FB from my e-mail address)
- seems like an innocent gesture so I accept
- this was on Friday and I have not heard from her since

sigh. Pretty sure I look like a huge goof in the most recent pictures I'm tagged in (which are also from 2009, I've lost 10+ pounds since then) cause they're from some stupid 80's party where everyone was dressed ridic, looks like that turned her off or something.

I hate this ****.

Hey, so this chick finally wrote back to me (I sent her a brief facebook msg in the interim on like Tuesday which apparently helped) and we have tentative plans to meet up next Tuesday night. Run good one time?

04-01-2010 , 11:24 PM

#4620

Vintage00

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Quote:

Originally Posted by goofyballer

Plans?

04-01-2010 , 11:34 PM

#4621

goofyballer

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She only lives like 12 blocks away from me so we're going to meet up at a bar near her place and just have a couple drinks and chat.

04-01-2010 , 11:36 PM

#4622

Vintage00

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I know you are verified and all, but I still feel the need to ask.

You planning on just winging it? I usually am pretty decent at this part, but some people have to have a plan of attack.

In general, my plan of attack is to not have one.

04-01-2010 , 11:52 PM

#4623

goofyballer

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Like, what kind of plan are you talking about? I guess my current plan is to talk to her over some beers and get to know her better and hopefully make her laugh a little and think I'm totally awesome.

04-01-2010 , 11:59 PM

#4624

Vintage00

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Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 7,513

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

This BG situation has such potential to be an absolute ****ing trainwreck.

Of course, since I'm Karak, that draws me in like a fly to a zapper thing (whatever the **** they are called).

The formal name is "bug zapper." Trust me, I'm from the South.

Quote:

Originally Posted by goofyballer

Yup, pretty much that.