didnt you just say everything i just said lt?

she just wrote this on my facebook

i said

not thrilled about this being a day date tbh

doesn't sound like a date...sounds like a group event

**** did i screw up there?

by saying you're open to anything else?

also, I've had it in the back of my mind for a couple hours that you weren't on a date but a social gathering that she was invited to and invited you along as well. So I have some major bias in my read as a group event. It might be a date, lol.

and also, why are you upset it's a day date?

lol by not realizing its a group thing.

because according to forecast weather should be fantastic on friday and i want to play soccer with friends

it's pretty obvious there are going to be other people there. She wants you to come, but is going regardless if you come or not.

somebody else please chime in!

why can't "we" be him and her?

group event forsure. made the whole debate we just had itt pointless

you are trusting her to use pronouns strictly in that sense

that is far too much trust

it wasn't so much the pronouns as the context

Her 1st facebook post could have said, "Sushi place location, u know where? Let me ask my friends what time we're going and then I'll let you know"

2nd message, "friends said 1pm"

Posted this few weeks ago and doubt anyone read but anyways all was successful, 'going out' with A now so ty for any advice and general overall quality of this thread!

refer to post 4347 for the backstory....

well, i asked her out (over facebook-weak i know, but i think the situation really presented itself). since friday is good friday she asked if i was going to class and i told her i wasnt going if she wasnt, and she said she didnt think she would because it was gonna be an excused absence. then i did it. i said "we should do somehting fun instead."

there was a long pause, and she said "my boyfriend has to work, so ill be free."

you guys think her finally mentioning him made any real difference?

ALSO

saturday im going on a date with another chick i met this semester. she broke up with her boyfriend like 10 minutes before she contacted me to go on this date, and told me "i was really chill and she'd like to hangout with me." it feels like i could be "the rebound/revenge guy" but then again, we have been talking alot and really getting along greaet at school for the last few months so i dont know.

adizzle13

play in the SL tourney next week or you're a POS

pm me to let me know when it is

His new details may make this moot anyway, but I really didn't disagree with much of any of your post. I certainly wasn't advocating having some big talk to make sure that she knew that he didn't want her. I would have just said to make sure that you go dutch if you remain uninterested, which is a strong enough signal through actions without being awkward at all.

I was just strongly disagreeing with GG's line, "So what if you're a tease? Girls do that all the time." He hasn't done anything wrong yet, and it doesn't sound like he's going to, I just didn't like the advice of telling him to serve his own self-interest by optimizing how he can best use her to hook up with whoever.

But anyway, it appears that we were getting ahead of ourselves. To be fair, the OP of this situation put us there.

Always good to hear successes. Nicely done.

The model I hooked up with (twice) last weekend has initiated text convo with me 4 times in the last 2 days and already demanded we hang out very soon after break.

I'm running this girl over in a nice way and I must say it feels very, very good.

I hate you/well played.

Likely going to introduce BG to A, B, C and D this weekend.

Mistake? Probably.

BUTNAHHHHHHHHHHHH

Im pretty sure you can order stuff besides SUSHI at a sushi restaurant....

Blind squirrels find nuts too.