this thread went downhill reallll quick.
maybe ill start hitting on a new random girl tomorrow just to bring it from wherever it is now back up to mediocre.

A good sign, but not really a lock for anything.

Yeah, I don't like this. How did she hint at it? I need more info before passing judgment.

Meh don't worry about this ****. Who gives a **** about other dudes at this point? As things progress, this is something you can consider and address once you have more info. Also, try not to lock in to that "I need to get THIS girl" attitude. That can put you on a path to failure. Be aloof and don't act like you are in a competition.

Well, I really can't answer this until I hear more about the "hinting" thing, but be careful to not make yourself too available with the gchats/facebook chats. Don't be constantly IMing her every time she gets on. Play it aloof, and don't let yourself, borrowing a PUA term here, get one-itis and psych yourself out.

Re: the "not hooking up with her on the first or second date" thing. If you have an opportunity to kiss her (I'm not saying you should hook up with her) and you turn it down out of some sort of master plan, that's not going to work. Appearing asexual and not taking the initiative, especially if the opportunity is there, is not going to help you. Obviously if you are going out on a date with her, she knows you are interested. You aren't playing some super clever meta-game by not kissing her. Yes, push and pull, but if the opportunity for a kiss is there and you pass it up, then you're a fool. You don't have to "hook up" with her per se, but you do need to show some sort of initiative with attraction.

The whole "you have to appear distant and not too into her and push and pull" thing is very important, but some people take it way too far and don't know when to stop. You need to let someone know you are interested eventually if you want something to happen lol.

Do it TurnuptheSun you are the the main man in this thread and i enjoyed following you story. Awaiting TR....

ya she basically said it. she said something like "tell you what, i'll text you when i have free time to hang out."
also this struck me as weird. though she never asked to end the chat, she wasn't talking a lot. i had to start talking about **** or else she'd be quiet. but that's partially cause she's kinda shy

so a follow up question is does pua work on all women, even shy women who don't party, cause it seems like pua is geared toward women who are out and about in clubs and ****?

lol thanks. old girl i was after is over, no point on continuing that (unless she initiates something with me, which i would give huge odds on)
honestly, just gonna find another random girl and do the same thing again, but with different methods.
not sure how quick ill find this girl, but ill try my best to do it quickly.
and of course document it all here.

Yeah that's not good at all. And your reaction of constantly re-upping the conversation is probably not good either. The whole "tell you what, I'll text you when i have free time to hang out" is a brutal line from her and makes me think you really over-exerted yourself and came on far too strong for her. I'd stay distant for now and see when (and, honestly, if) she contacts you.

Re: PUA... that's an argument for another time (see massive thread in EDF). I really don't like PUA very much, and I don't use it, but I think it can serve its purpose for men who just don't have a clue with women. Odds are if you are still in college you don't need to worry about it. Just focus on improving yourself. PUA just basically teaches stuff which is absolutely common sense when it comes to women, but some people never learned it. It also teaches some garbage techniques.

But to answer your question, the guys who stand behind PUA would tell you it works on all women.

haven't posted here in a while but pretty much got the worst case scenario. everyone at my school has been sort of going through hell-week for midterms so i didn't see her much in the past week or two. learn yesterday in some pretty short period of time she got back together with her ex-boyfriend. my fault for not trying to do something earlier but there is a legitimate degree of worst possible timing of events.

o man i forgot about your story. sucks to hear that. the good thing is getting back togethers usually only last >6 months cause the same crap will happen and they will realize why they broke up the first (or second, or third) time.

sucks fury... find some other girl who is depressed about failing finals, sing her a song on a guitar, tag it and bag it

well first, hi everyone. lurked for too long, posted too little, slowly ending up on non-poker boards and I like it.

i just wrote 2 longass posts but found out ill just simplify:

-are korean girls hard to get to bed? im on exch.,she 100% likes me and seems to have good skills so i guess i like her. i have 2 weeks to reap the benefits before she leaves. made out pretty big last 2 times we were out and then were on a date that went pretty good, so im good but need to make haste. we go to same class btw. doubtful we'll party anymore together. Please help me explore this exciting stuff and ill promise to follow up on here. feel free to ask for details.

tc, nmn

1. tell here you have 2 weeks before you never see here again
2. party with her
3. ????????????
4. profit

You are going on dates with her that are going well.

She has made out with you both times.

What, exactly, is your question?

i need to increase the nth number of bases and as mentioned it is not likely we will be partying anymore as finals are coming up in 1 week, and im not really that good at sealing it in non-partying situations. i do however need to make a move quickly so I could need a tip or two at making situations where sex might arise.

ill probably have to make my move while reading together for mentioned finals, so the Q is how to go from quite cold to quite warm in such a scenario. thx.

also specific information on korean fbuddy customs is appreciated if available.

Yeah. I'm no help to you here.

that was the most tilting series of posts ever.
yik.

whaaat tilting

"hey think ill just head out this sats aswell, finals screwed for me anyway lols" sounds good? think ill just go w that and accept that ive got no sober game

so tell her to come to over for drinks and a movie? make sure it is late enough then just ship it to the bedroom when the movie is done.

also if you have a TV in your bedroom you can always use the line when watching TV if you cant get a way to go to the bedroom- "you know, ive got a TV in my bedroom" worked for me 100% success

j/w has anyone here gotten laid off advice?

your 4th attempt at trolling and im gonna bite.
gtfo. we get it. or at least i do.

i get laid following my own advice

Might not have been because of the advices but it certainly helped. I'm 2/2 so thanks all .. All except the haters.

Update/ Bump:

So i was just at home monday night and get a message from aforementioned friend. she was just asking how my exam went and if it was my last. I reply back saying it was interesting etc and asked her how first day at work went and if she was top sales person yet. Not very interesting but need to get thread bumped.

Hopefully go away next week and just by coincidence she'll be at same place (yes i am a stalker...)

^ this sounds good

yeah thats a positive

just out of interest and cos bumpage is needed. has anyone else been asked by a girl, rather than u asking them out? My last girlfriend did (over fb non the less, LOL), hence its failure but was pretty awkward and felt no way could say no. dunno how girls have the balls to reject guys seems like would weigh on ya conscious.