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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

02-17-2012 , 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Sciolist
So as to consolidate my position as the thread nit, it's "rapport"
Also if we're gonna be nitting it up, "so as to" is kinda wordy (just say "to") and I don't think consolidate is the right word there. "reinforce" is probably better
02-17-2012 , 04:22 PM
I'm pretty happy with using "consolidate" as in to make solid or firm; solidify; strengthen: to consolidate gains. And in "so as to" is the same as "in order to" which works better than simply "to". And that's my last word on that.
02-17-2012 , 04:34 PM
Wrote a response then accidentally deleted it. I'm not sure anymore...seems like you consolidate a power more than a position (you wouldn't consolidate your position as the leader, you consolidate your power as the leader, right?)

Most grammar nits don't like in order to, but I guess It's clearer than just to at the beginning of sentences.

Last edited by funkyfood; 02-17-2012 at 05:01 PM.
02-17-2012 , 04:59 PM
omg funky capitalized "it's" in the middle of a sentence! grammar thread is in oot yo.
02-17-2012 , 05:29 PM
Every forum could use a grammar thread.
02-17-2012 , 06:47 PM
A grammar thread in SL would be obsolete.
02-17-2012 , 08:32 PM
you should change your avy back to that elmo one
02-17-2012 , 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted by funkyfood
Not sure what else I could do but talk to her the whole night, walk her home, tell her we should get together again, and try to kiss her goodnight. I'm 24
dont know the whole story, but im assuming this was a bar you frequent and you know some other people there. I'm not going to pretend like im the most social person, but it seems like it'd get pretty boring talking to the same girl all night, even if she is cool/attractive. At there very least I'd probably make my rounds and say hi to the people i know. Just say you need a new drink and take your time getting back to the group.
02-18-2012 , 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted by funkyfood
since i know you were all eagerly awaiting it, i have an UPDATE:

so i went to the bar tonight, and she was there. i was talking to my friends about how cute she looked when this girl and her friend came up to my friend. girl 1 started flirting hardcore with my friend, so naturally me and girl 2 started talking. cute redhead with blue eyes...funny because during our pregame the same friend and i both mentioned how much we had been loving readheads recently (faye reagan?).

anyway, we talk the whole night and im not totally on my game and she gives mixed signs. one guy tries to hit on her and she's obviously not feeling it, so like a boss i interrupt and save the day. he, like the classy guy that he is, tells me that i should get my nose straightened out and tells her very skinny friend "good luck with jenny craig". i had reconstructive shoulder surgery last month and def couldnt get in a fight, but we all got in his face and told him he was a real pathetic mother****er and to take your sad ass home. my friends then followed him outside and tried to fight him, but he ran away, despite being 6'3 or so.

anyway, im outside the bar with the redhead and she's like let's go it's late. we walk by my place and i invite her up, she says no i cant, then i offer to walk her home, she says sure. i make the move and she says she cant because she is about to breakup with her boyfriend but hasnt totally done it yet so she can't. blah. she then texts me "sorry again about the awkward info drop at the end there. i'm glad i met you, hope to talk to you again sometime soon "

soooo all in all a +ev night. from time to time, i eyed the girl i came to see and she was either with her girlfriends or talking to some guy she wasnt in to. i wanted so badly to interrupt, but i was preoccupied.
Sounds like a sweet night...However when she declines your invitation to yours and clearly knows your intentions there's hardly any point in pursuing things further...esp if you wanna hangout etc next week/in the future..
02-18-2012 , 11:51 AM
funkyfood,

Other posters have mostly covered the good advice, but lol @ your friends chasing the guy out of the bar and trying to fight him. He's a loser just let him leave. And if your friends were trying to jump him he's obviously gonna run no matter how tall he is
02-18-2012 , 04:45 PM
All,

TR.

Got home from the gym last night and was pretty tired. Me and my friend who I went with went back to our places to take showers and we were gonna meet at this bar in my town to watch the 2nd half of the Knicks game. He's notoriously slow at doing everything so I got done early and went there myself to watch the game. It was still pretty early so not many people there, some middle aged people and a couple kids I went to high school with so I grab a beer and talk to them for a little before I sit at the bar.

I text my friend asking where he is and he texts me saying his sister's car battery died like an hour away and he's gotta go drive out there to get her. So I'm like whatever **** it I'll have another drink and finish watching the game then leave and go somewhere else. With 1 min left in the game I get tapped on the shoulder by some girl who asks me what I'm drinking. Pretty cute face, really tan/dark skin (found out later she was Chilean). I tell her it's Blue Point which is a really good Long Island beer and asks her if she wants to try it, she does and likes it so I wave over the bartender and get her one.

We start talking about random **** and she's from a couple towns over here with some of her friends. There's no seats next to me at the bar so I ask her if she wants to sit at the tables on the other side. We go over and she sits next to me on the booth sides. Surprisingly she was pretty fun to talk to, she had just got done studying abroad in Europe and traveled there a bunch which I've always wanted to do. Eventually I start teasing her and she's touching me playfully, being very receptive etc. After while she mentions it's really hot in the bar, I tell her I have a key to a private beach nearby that has a swingset in the sand and ask her if she wants to go. She agrees and gets up to tell her friends so I go to the bathroom and by the time I'm back she's ready to go.

It's like a 10 minute drive and the beach is really secluded which is a plus. I'm not supposed to have a key because I don't live in the private area but this girl I used to see did and so I made a copy and kept it. I unlock the gate drive in and we start going on the swings. She tells me this is so random/fun and she never does stuff like this or really talks to new people at all. I ask her why she decided to talk to me and she said "because you're really attractive". She then told me she really liked my hair and asked how I style it like that, so I told her she could play with it. Our faces were touching and we start making out.

It's pretty cold so we go back in my car and turn heat/music on, and continue making out. She stops and says that this is crazy, you're a complete stranger, I never do this. I'm laughing inside but I tell her I'm just having fun and I know she is too so what's the problem? After 5-10 more mins of this she says she has to go to the bathroom so I tell her I live 5 mins away and off to my place we go.

One of my couches is like a futon that lays totally flat when down so we hop on that basically right away. I'm kissing her neck and shes already breathing heavily. She's wearing leggings with no panties so I start fingering her and eventually take her pants off give it a once over and go down on her too because **** it. She starts screaming and squirming like crazy. After like 15 mins of this and her coming multiple times she says stop she can't take it anymore and rips my pants off and starts blowing me like she's possessed by a demon. It's crazy good so I don't tell her to stop and I finish eventually and she collapses on the couch. After minutes of silence she asks where I learned to do that and I tell her I taught myself. She then mutters "you killed me, you killed me, you killed me so many times" over and over again. We were lying down next to each other and she was just staring at me like a puppy dog or something. By now it's like 330 am and she had some school thing at like 9 am so I tell her I should prob take her back to her car so we get dressed.

On the way back we exchange numbers, I'll probably hang out with her again but she already texted me this morning and is replying in 1 minute to my 20-30 minute responses so hopefully this doesn't end up badly.
02-18-2012 , 05:42 PM
mullen for president. glad to see you're gettin your fair share.

pics of hair so karak can copy your look and get a gf?
02-18-2012 , 06:05 PM
pix of you so i can see said attractiveness
02-18-2012 , 06:32 PM
private beach key is too clutch
02-18-2012 , 06:35 PM
Legit brag.
02-18-2012 , 06:40 PM
Nice work.
02-18-2012 , 07:48 PM
Oh look, Mullen running good for the millionth time.

Nice job.
02-18-2012 , 07:54 PM
in my experience, girls who dont wear underwear are not the type who "dont normally do this kind of thing"
02-18-2012 , 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by rmfan31
dont know the whole story, but im assuming this was a bar you frequent and you know some other people there. I'm not going to pretend like im the most social person, but it seems like it'd get pretty boring talking to the same girl all night, even if she is cool/attractive. At there very least I'd probably make my rounds and say hi to the people i know. Just say you need a new drink and take your time getting back to the group.
yeah i mean, my friends would come by and talk to me and her friend. it wasnt like we were in a corner by ourselves. obv i agree i should have at least said hi to the girl im crushin on

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Originally Posted by mullen
funkyfood,

Other posters have mostly covered the good advice, but lol @ your friends chasing the guy out of the bar and trying to fight him. He's a loser just let him leave. And if your friends were trying to jump him he's obviously gonna run no matter how tall he is
so we're now fbook friends. weirdly, she friended my friend who her friend went up to to talk to in the beginning of the night, but not me. reasons for this could be:
1. she knows he has a gf so it doesnt matter if she friends him because she isnt trying to play any games with him
2. she likes him but not me,
3. she forgot my name (possible because i only said it once when we met and i tend to mumble).

i friended her today though (im sure people are gonna hate on me for that). anyway, her fbook status from the afternoon after was:

"law school bar fight 2012: that **** cray"

and her friend commented:

"That was nuts! Guy was such a twit. Hats off to those boys who defended me and ___"

so maybe causing a scene wasnt such a bad thing
02-18-2012 , 11:40 PM
Great tr. Pretty nice brag she came up to you and started talking to you.

Well Done
02-19-2012 , 12:43 AM
Mullen demonstrating how rolling solo is not always a beat.
02-19-2012 , 12:45 AM
(if you know what the **** you're doing)
02-19-2012 , 01:05 AM
know what the **** youre doing = girls without underwear just walk up to you while youre watching basketball

Last edited by dkgojackets; 02-19-2012 at 01:06 AM. Reason: lold at "i never do stuff like this"
02-19-2012 , 01:14 AM
02-19-2012 , 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by dkgojackets
know what the **** youre doing = girls without underwear just walk up to you while youre watching basketball
I too slightly resent Mullen for his run good but still respect him for his decisions, even if he took any liberties with the recount.

      
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