Small update on mine:
of mine confirmed with friend of hers that she's single but she's skittish about dating law school guys bc she had a bad experience and now hates sseeing him aeound. Whatever Nbd.

My roommate mentioned that his now girlfriend emailed him to ask him out aftef they had just barely met...this is different because shes a chick doing the asking, right?

Aggro move, good for her. Depends on your reputation. You don't ever wanna be one of those dudes.

If I am reading the correctly you are both in law school and you are concerned about running into her again naturally? How big is your law school?

If your law school is like mine at the start of the year we got a student directory with all the student's pictures, their e-mails, and their phone numbers. This makes e-mailing her considerably less creeping then if you had acquired the e-mail though some web detective work.

continue as normal and hope she didnt see them, not much you can do. if you lean down to close/move the suitcase its going to focus her attention to the suitcase and then she'll for sure notice. howd it play out?

Yeah that's how I got her email. Big law school so hard to run Into

I would still try to run into her naturally. All the schools in Ontario are 303 students except one that is 606 so I have no concept how big a law school can be but I am assuming under 2000 students and all in one building as the upper limit. Assuming you spend a normal amount of time there I wouldn't expect it to take more than a week to run into her.

If you don't then the e-mail option is not as bad as originally discussed. It would be acceptable to e-mail her but not optimal.

Does the law school go out as a group? We used to have a pub every other Thursday and with the exception of the nerds and adult students everyone else would show up including some of the younger professors.

Yeah there's a big outing every Thursday, not sure if she goes. I feel like if she's not there and I email her Friday its weird because I waited four days after meeting her only briefly

once again, I NEVER refused to be friends. I just stated, with an explanation, why I thought the cons outweighed the pros.

I've had 2 serious girlfriends and both were ok with this approach. Youre saying thats 1 in 10,000+? I doubt it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJC7GCxlhwc#t=1m15s

Hey SL, quick question ...

This girl I run into on a semi-regular basis always says she wants to hang out when talking to her in person, always very talkative and seems generally interested ... however whenever it comes to actually hanging out it never happens.

Seems like she is just messing around?

Super common in my experience...just don't bother trying after a few attempts

I have the same problem with a girl I was good friends with while we were still in the same uni classes.

I blame Ladder Theory.

She's probably slightly interested but you either need to step it up or become more interesting.

Or just propose some specific plans?

i wouldn't ask more than twice. does she have your number?

She does. I did propose specific plans one night but she had an early class or whatever.

Other times its just been like people chillin and i told her to come by if she wants to chill in the dorm.

Any equity in calling her on it or?

No. If she's doing it on purpose then it's awkward. If she doesn't realise she's doing it, it'll be awkward and you look weird.

Passed by my girl today on the street but was teexting so didn't see her till it was too late. I managed a weak "hey". Hopefully ill see her tonight, I think It's definitely too late to email her at this point

See I knew it would be less than a week. Also further evidence of why people's obsession with electronic devices is bad. If she is not there tonight you'll run into her again fairly quickly.

Mirakal, I'd text her and invite her to something specific, something you think she'd be interested in so that she purely doesn't have to come to hangout with you it will be something she likes too, if she doesn't turn up to that then I'd give up

pro advice:always have a charged cell phone on you. 3rd time this month ive nearly gotten a number only to give mine out, its not the same and pens are not always handy

take the girls phone, put in your number. Send a witty text from her phone to yours while she watches. She laughs and problem is solved.

overly aggro move imho.

You can still Tweet her.

The best joke you have ever made on here Henry. I cracked up