"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 1188

If the friend was giving it as honest advice, I agree.

Sounds like he was just deliberately setting his so-called friend up for a humiliating fall instead though.

08-21-2011 , 03:35 PM

#29678

Krayz

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Quote:

Originally Posted by mullen

I'm confused. Other than his ******ed advice the friend did nothing wrong.

And yeah, never do what you did again.

Even if his friend isn't ******ed, you don't **** your bro's love interests.

Sorry if that's too much morals.

08-21-2011 , 03:39 PM

#29679

LKJ

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Oh not this again.

08-21-2011 , 03:41 PM

#29680

dkgojackets

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a girl youve talked to twice doesnt qualify as a love interest

08-21-2011 , 03:42 PM

#29681

LKJ

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Correct.

08-21-2011 , 03:51 PM

#29682

TimeLady

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Doing it the same night though

That's a bit scummy

08-21-2011 , 03:52 PM

#29683

Iaminhere

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need more details to know if he's a douche or not. sounds like you got denied and basically gave him a green light.

08-21-2011 , 03:52 PM

#29684

Henry17

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Guy gives horrible advice and then has sex with the girl the same night.

The odds that someone could give such ****ty advice yet also have enough game to get laid with no previous groundwork is next to nil.

He was ****ing with someone -- maybe DanteA but also possibly just screwing with the girl to put her in an awkward position for ****s and giggles. There is no way he believed that was legitimate advice.

08-21-2011 , 04:09 PM

#29685

GoCubsGo

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Lots of guys that don't really know what they're doing get lucky. Otherwise like 80% of guys would be virgins Henry.

08-21-2011 , 04:10 PM

#29686

Dr Pepper MD

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Its not a love interest but if one of you boys is trying to get a girl you dont mack her wtf?

I picture it went like this.
-****ty advice
-Makes a fool out of himself
-girl gets flustered
-"friend" makes fun of him to her
-"friend" bangs girl

08-21-2011 , 04:27 PM

#29687

DanteA

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The guy is a really close friend and my best friend. 1. I don't really mind him having sex with her and 2. we both figured out that it was pretty damn horrible advice. It's not like I was all in love with her. I just thought she was a nice lady.

I don't think his intentions was to trick me into making a fool out of myself or anything like that. We had good fun about it this morning too.

But I wouldn't mind doing her if I had the opportunity.

08-21-2011 , 04:33 PM

#29688

Blinzler

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But why did you do it even though you figured out it was a terrible idea?

08-21-2011 , 04:38 PM

#29689

DanteA

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Dude, I was drunk and didn't use even 1% of my brain capacity. Then you have to take into consideration that I use less than many even when I'm not drunk. It's a recipe for disaster.

08-21-2011 , 04:51 PM

#29690

GoodGame

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GOD DAMN. just wrote what was going to be my longest post ever on 2p2 and i clicked f5 on accident and it all got erased

08-21-2011 , 05:11 PM

#29691

thebigeasy59

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i think if you click back and then CTRL-Z it will come back. that might not be the shortcut, but there is one that will get it back if you check the life tricks thread in OOT

dan tea, you might have aspergers

08-21-2011 , 05:24 PM

#29692

diskoteque

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Quote:

Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

dan tea, you might have aspergers

i think i called him an aspie after reading one of his posts from a couple of weeks ago. after reading more of his posts i'm almost certain this is the case.

08-21-2011 , 05:32 PM

#29693

Krayz

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If you actively try to **** someone your best friend likes, you're probably a douche.

Don't really care much if people in here will tell me I'm wrong. It's within your right to do it, but you're basically saying you ****ing a girl is more important than the friendship.

Which is probably true most of the time from some posts I've read on this forum.

/soapbox that everyone is going to disagree with.

08-21-2011 , 05:37 PM

#29694

wackybrak

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if a friend did that to me i don't think we'd be friends anymore, tbh. maybe i'm too sensitive though.

08-21-2011 , 05:41 PM

#29695

GusJohnsonGOAT

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Krayz

+1. That's a douche move to do unless your friend is the one who stole her in the first place. Then you prob shouldn't be friends.

08-21-2011 , 05:42 PM

#29696

mullen

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If you start eliminating girls your friend has talked to twice you're going to run out of women fast.

I don't think it's fair to classify people that go home with girls their friends find attractive as having no morals or loyalty. I find that completely ridiculous.

DanteA has talked to this girl twice in a month and is infatuated with her and is confusing that with "really liking" someone. Once you are out of high school these strange crushes shouldn't really exist. Including your friends in them isn't fair either to anyone involved.

08-21-2011 , 05:46 PM

#29697

mullen

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GusJohnsonGOAT

+1. That's a douche move to do unless your friend is the one who stole her in the first place. Then you prob shouldn't be friends.

lol @ "stealing" the girl....wtf they barely know each other and she has no interest.

08-21-2011 , 05:47 PM

#29698

diskoteque

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if friend wasn't intentionally trying to sabotage dante then i don't think there's anything wrong with this unless they truly were "best" friends, as dante suggested. (i think this is incredibly unlikely considering dante was in love with a girl he knew for 2 hours so i'm thinking he overestimates his relationships.)

however, as henry said on the last page, the odds of the friend genuinely thinking his advice was good AND the friend having enough game to get laid are very slim. that advice was so blatantly terrible that only the most socially awkward people would give/follow it.

08-21-2011 , 05:54 PM

#29699

Henry17

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Krayz

If you actively try to **** someone your best friend likes, you're probably a douche.

Most guys don't care and I would have problems being friends with someone who was so emo that he got upset about stuff like this.. It isn't like you are ****ing their GF.