yeah right, fat kids that got skinny have too much self confidence going in as it is. Had to knock you down a peg or two.

This, however, you would put up with.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7x3kn...&NR=1#t=03m11s

so you called her last Wed night at 9:30, then didnt call back till 11:00pm the next day? she obviously isnt very concerned with the date. i wouldnt want to spend any money on her. so id go and make her pay for her drinks and then just leave after your 2 hrs and not talk to her anymore (if you cant find anyone else and dont wanna bail on your res)


these are the exact warning signs you always talk about with other people and you claim you are able to cut off now w/o a problem, so do it.

im like 60% sure you are leveling, but im not entirely certain. i hope you are at least. when you started out citing the response time (~24 hours), i thought you were going to rip me for getting annoyed at just a 24 hour gap! so perhaps my thoughts of a potential level are pre-biased! and the money isn't an issue. im not gcg-broke or even close.

im just going to have fun. i honestly dont usually propose until the 2nd or 3rd date or at least until we've held hands first. i dont really consider her LTR material at this point, but the jury is still out i guess. i want to expand a network of girls to go out with in town, though.

if we are cutting every girl off instantly based on her taking 24 hours to reply and no other signs at all (i barely know her... we've spoken minutes at most), then we're getting far too picky for my abilities. annoying? sure. understandable in some circumstances? probably. something we need to analyze in the light of other context clues? absolutely. existence of other context clues here? non-existent. what do we stand to lose? 100 dollars. how much do we care about that? not at all.

however, if she is rude to the wait staff...

bout tree fiddy



last night i went to this party with a bunch of ppl i don't know, in some club i've just joined. so besides the very nice gesture of inviting me to their party, nobody was being particularly friendly. the host was a very big dude so i figured there'd be no fly honeyz. there was one, she had 2 or 3 fawners at any give time hanging on her like flies. like 10 ppl total. i took the only open seat next to a fat girl. we talked for a while about nothing interesting but she was nice (ldo she's a fattie). then i escaped to be with other fat girls and one was cute for a fat girl, i'd say like 3 or 3.5. she had a fat girl friend, both were into me i think. then everyone went to a new party, where i again didn't know anyone. we are going deeper. this party was at a super nice house, and many rich spoiled kids. some hot girls but v v v skanky. one was hardly wearing clothes. i obv wanted to talk to her, but this was a friend-making night and i had to follow social norms. e.g. not ditching everyone that i came with to go hit on the biggest skank at the party. so i talked to the fat girls and it was fine. i felt like karak or spurious or yeota.

eventually i just had to be me and i slipped away from the fatties and talked to some guys we came with cause they were standing close to some fly honeyz. the hot skank with barely any clothes bumps into me and we start chatting, my arm around her shirtless waist. but she mentions a boyfriend of 2 years. i remain amicable but i'm not really into this conversation anymore.

eventually i ended up upstairs with the cuter fat girl i don't really know why and then i farted and it smelled awful and it was honestly the most embarrassing thing i've done in some time. ****ing currie. hope she didn't smell it.

some of us left and the fat girls took a cab leaving me one on one with the hot girl from the first party that had 2-3 flies on her at all times. i kind of thought it was funny i didn't really try at all this night except for the v brief conversation with the one skank, and i ended up alone at the end of the night with the girl that i'd have hit on at the very beginning if i were not in social circle mode. anyway, it doesn't really matter cause i've hardly talked to her this night, i really dislike her personality. she is very cute though. we're very close to her place and she is splitting off our walk to go home. she seems really concerned about me getting home, i tell her where i live it's like a 15 minute walk and she thinks i'm gonna get lost cause i'm new here. she asks me like 3 times am i sure i can make it home and should she just get me a taxi? i felt it was slightly over the top, and i considered the possibility this was some sort of hint that she wanted to prolong the night.

after thinking about it for a second or two, i decided there was no way that was the case, told her i was fine and i'd make it home just fine. say goodnight and part and almost die on my walk home cause this dude with a hot girl stared me down and i wasn't really paying attn so i kept staring back at him until i realized his was kind of an aggressive stare and i should look away.


also today i met a cute girl from a country i love and she seems cool and i wanna practice her language and she seemed to want to do it. i give it 25% chance that it happens, just cause she is away this week and probly won't remember.

and some girl just called me cute! sick life.

This is getting good.

i dont think ive ever dated a girl over 130 pounds

actually the one chick who was 5 10 probably was, but she was pretty athletic

GCG has a constant need to put down yeota, spurious, myself, etc. to boost his own self-esteem. it's sort of amusing to watch. im not sure he realizes how obvious what he's doing is.

(it's really obvious brohan)

although i guess i could get to keep the 100 dollars AND spend 12 hours on a starcraft 2 binge this evening instead, which is sort of tempting. altho i'd probably guilt myself to going to the jazz event, shifting the EV calcs around.

fwiw i was not saying that you guys bang fat chicks, just that you guys always say how it is important to not just talk to hot girls. so i picture you guys talking to lots of ppl i wouldn't really have any interest in talking to most of the time.

u mad?

im not sure you know what "u mad" means

and honestly take your last post before the above one away and my statement still stands *shrug*

LKJ,

A suggestion for the future:

@GcG- we usually talk to our friends of which we have when we go out



@karak- i wasnt leveling. she was awake when you called @930, and chose to not call back that night. then decides to wait the entire next day, and calls hoping you are asleep so she can leave a message. to me, she is doing this because she is hoping she can finagle her way out of the date w/o having to be upfront about doing so, thinking maybe if you hadnt heard from her you would cancel.

Karak,

A suggestion for the future in totally unrelated situations:

ok im calling her to cancel now

karak now i cant tell if youre leveling or not, lolz


lkj **** commas i dont like using punctuation especially when im typing on an internet forum

also, karak, if you do cancel, you take the power back. it wouldnt be out of the ordinary to cancel on someone who doesnt call back w/i a reasonable amt of time. maybe she will be truly disappointed and you can set up a new first date, and she will be sure not to be flakey next time.

lol don't be so dramatic. i don't have any issue with you at all, i think you overanalyze stuff. you're just fun to make fun of and also an easy target cause you put yourself out there (as do i).

no matter how many times i see fat black kid whoa, it will never cease to be awesome, even when it is used in response to insults that are not so awesome.

Wat

Do you not get how making friends works? Obv talk to the girl if you want to talk to her ffs.

also karak, re your date tonight, i wouldn't cancel at this stage, it seems like an overreaction cause there are reservations and all. i think she would perceive that negatively and would make it more difficult to schedule a new date. if you cancel, it's done with the intention of ending things with her.

thats the point, if shes jerking him around already (the wrong jerking ), then its no bueno. especially with nothing invested in her.

im obviously not going to cancel

Well then you can't write a whole new clause into the middle of a sentence. If you're going to type like a simple man, you also have to WRITE like a simple man.

Absolutely serious

1. bunch of fat girls love me
2. bunch of fat girls hate the pretty girl and call her a skank (this happened at party house 1)
3. bunch of fat girls hate the guys that talk to the pretty girl and say he just wants sex (also happened at house 1)

it's a tarp!!! thus i had to make it subtle and not just make a beeline for the biggest skank in teh room.