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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
I am making a comparison, of course they are similar when both simplified. It is two people not acting logically when 3rd person parties give out quality advice, but both male parties involved instead act on emotions. Obviously theres a huge difference in the details, one being a 8 year relationship broken by cheating the other being a causal fling broken by a girl being a huge mess.
Also your post(s) is very hypocritical. Have you ever been married? Yet you feel grounds to give advice on what a married person should do?
The situations simplified:
Guy involved with girl
girl does something "wrong"
people tell guy that this is a deal breaker
guy ignores advice and gives girl another chance
cool, but i think the reaction to my posts ITT and its damn near identical nature to many posts from people who i respect highly speaks for itself. feel free to disagree, but you're in a stark minority and you are also in no position to really judge.
also, assuming your line of logic works (it doesn't as the two situations are ABSURDLY different given how high the emotions run... BG took me 2 weeks to roll over - altho final tabling the sunday mirrion and winning the 100k with my AMAZING heads up skills definitely helped - something like this can take 5 years to get over), it would make me actually quite more qualified to give him advice rather than less qualified. do you see why?
regardless, BG never has any commitment to me, we are going to go on a first formal date, she gets with another guy... i take her to lawl prom anyways cause why the **** not, hilarity ensues, we all laugh at karak and life goes on 2 weeks later. this is something very standard that happens to every guy. now if you knew the story of my ex, you might be able to get somewhere... but you dont know the story! raha!
a guy dates a woman for 4 years, marries her, buys a house with her, is together in marriage for 2 years and she ****s a golf pro at a resort. he's staring at divorce, a huge financial situation and a woman who has been devoted to him for 6 years lying her ass off all over the place and manipulating the **** out of him.
yeah man, they are similar. lolololol you are going to some amazing lengths here! you really do love me!
anyways im not arguing this anymore as im 1001035235% confident in the advice i gave him (also please note it's on par with 99% of the other posts in that thread). you are just not in a position to really understand mbp's situation, but you will some day and you'll see why his behavior is really bad for him, both emotionally AND legally.