It actually sounds like a pretty cool feature imo

My weed is loud and you smoking libraries

Thread needs more young thug imo

Next generation of young thugs went out with Black Friday. Prob be a lot more american college students posting in this thread if poker was still legal.

Texting girl strategy dilemma that came up from last weekend

My group is all lame and went in early but I'm in a good mood and decide to roll to a bar solo and have a couple more. The one I pick seems to have a pretty good ratio.It's not really big enough for laps so I decide I'll take a seat at the bar, chill and talk to whoever.

A brunette and blonde sit next to me and we start talking at some point.

Brunette A showed some interest at one point. "Is it ok for her to feel your head, cause if she doesn't I will" Then they both wound up feeling my head and commenting how soft it was. She said I was cute sitting here by myself, but how could she go home with a guy there by himself because he could be a serial killer(I hadn't mentioned going back to my place.) She pointed at the blonde and said "She wouldn't care, but I would"

The blonde(R) seems more interested, or maybe just more drunk. She mentions I look like this guy Joel Graham from high school, but now he's married with two kids. She said "I used to have the biggest crush on him"

I probe without asking directly but they don't seem like they'll come back to my apartment for another drink. I circle back to get the blonde's number. I believe the brunette starts giving me the number then the blonde gives me the real last name( when she see's I'm typing in the name of the bar we were at.)

Sent a text starting with "Hey R.." planning to chat and ask out the blonde, but get back " Hey this is actually A. I think there might have been a mix up on Saturday..!"

I'd prefer the brunette(A), but I'd take the blonde out too. What's the best line to take from here. Try to get the blonde because it's too risky to now go after brunette despite showing interest in her friend by texting? Or should I assume the brunette purposely put her number in instead and roll with it.

Uh,just as an observer,that sounded like a threesome waiting to happen.

If the brunette said she was debating going home with you,and was worried going alone but the blonde would,that sounds like an opportunity.

I would text her a little more to see if the attraction is there..

Might have been beer goggles talk or a one time offer.

So I have been dating a Chinese girl. Cliffs; from start told her it wont be relationship (because we will live 5000 km away basically, also im too young)

She agrees to just having fun (completely anti-Chinese). Im first guy she basically does everything with. She never kissed a guy before but after a while of dating we have sex.
We have a lot of great dates, share a lot (especially she).

She changed a lot for me. Lied to friends for me about sleeping over and will lie to her parents again next thursday. We will meet and she will sleep over but she told her parents she will sleep at friends.

She is in love and she had a few cries. We will likely meet again in 10 months for a week and I dont mind keeping somewhat in contact till then. But with option to date others. She cries, but agrees.

Now she has a point about her completely changing and me not changing anything. On the other hand I was always honest. I dont want to hurt her.

I was thinking about giving her a gift. Nothing to make our relationship serious, but something nice for her to remember our time by. Any suggestions?

Fwiw does anyone think I should break it off? I would like to keep contact but might be unfair to her since I never see ourselves in a serious relationship.

Do not get her a gift. And yes, you should break it off.


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No gift,and I wouldn't completely break it off,just let her know it's not a committed relationship.
You're both young,and will most likely meet others.

This. If not hurting her is your highest priority, and you don't see a future, you should definitely break it off.

once i asked out a girl and to surprise she said yes.

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meetme app is great if you are wanting to bang fat chicks with kids

do you have to verify weight before making account ?

I planned on doing a podcast where I pull a #1-100 out of a hat and then tell the story of that hookup. Would be funny but also possibly have some advice mixed in. I haven't been able to recover my old iPhone notes yet off my computer though and that has the list of women I've hookedup with.

I did a 7minute snap chat story that's up right now on Stoic philosophy. Making yourself uncomfortable in trivial moments so that when actual significant moments of struggle or danger happen you can handle it. As well as why creating chaos, and finding hidden harmonies & flow state in chaos, and why it's important in game theory.

Snapchat wasn't a great platform for it though. I didn't have my points defined enough for 10second snaps so it wasn't very clear, but I hope someone got something out of it.

Overall I've been progressing pretty well. I actually can go out with that girl I posted itt in the pink bikini but I'm putting it off. I'm still seeing the tattoo'd girl, although I've been meditating (basically just thinking don't take that word negatively) over her and know I should end it. I knew that during my acid trip though.

My diet is the best it's ever been, I move into an apartment Monday, things are all going well but finances are tight. I owe some money and still have been going out semi frequently. If I had unlimited data I think I'd be in the Skype chat more. JoeIngram is starting GTOclub but I think it's capped already, but there's no reason this thread can't be that. Where ppl come and share resources.

Me and TheWal have being pm'ing some stuff like that to each other

This is creepy. If you would like to become famous for being a creep, definitely start a podcast talking about specific hookups from notes you keep on your phone.

Well for starters the name would be "why did I keep a list?". I'be read on forums the whole like "keeping an excel spreadsheet of hair color and stuff is American psycho status" but it's just the name or place I met the person if I don't know their name.

I have friends who have just as many hookups or more and don't remember half of them. It's nice to have the list. Saying it in a podcast is the exact same as me typing it up in here. But I stopped writing TR's. And I wouldn't care if anyone in my life read this thread anymore. I've moved past that. That's like a level1 thinking.

How creepy is it to have a bunch of experiences you're not comfortable discussing? You can interpret being transparent as being ego but that's if you view all times you had sex with someone as a pure success in every way, which I don't. Especially ones from years ago.

Edit/Addition: I'm projecting, but it's likely you said that was creepy because you view having sex with 100 ppl as a success and that success was a reflection of you thinking you failed or are failing in some way so you have to word it as creepy as if there has to creepy/psychotic manipulation involved to protect your ego

I kinda go with really not smart to keep incriminating evidence of your decadent lifestyle around where someone could find it.
At least here we have some semblance of anonymity.

That's assuming you view it as incriminating. I don't. And it's just as easy to find this thread as it would to find a podcast. I could put it under "GoodGame" on soundcloud and it's be just as anonymous as this thread or my twitter. If you can't tell I've been slowly getting past anonymity the more stoic (basically confident in my self if you hate cheesy words) I get.


In the snap chat I put an example of like you want to be able to face things like if you jacked off at your parents house when home from thanksgiving and someone found out, you shouldn't be embarrassed by it. But at the same time it's not stoic to jack off at your parents house and then like fist bump your mom on the way out telling her about it in the attempt of being transparent. There's social ramifications and there's a way to walk that line.

So you guys have good concerns but they're misplaced in this instance. As always, just in my opinion.

It's probably generational too,I guess
Stuff I did in my 20-30s I'm not going to apologize for,but I'm not eager for my parents,kids or SO to find out alot of detail..
Maybe the youngies can own up to their past mistakes and dalliances easier nowadays.
Anyway,good for you to at least have some introspective on your life choices now,rather than regret later.

You are definitely projecting. The number of women you've slept with is irrelevant. This is defintely me thinking about how if you went public with the fact you keep a list that there would be a **** storm of social media talking about you being a creep. The number may further ignite the backlash from some women but IDGAF.

I guarantee you it would be a huge mistake to go public with the fact you have a list, want to do a podcast, etc.

You're missing the point. The whole point is to not care what others think if you're truly happy with the process.

So if you got ridiculed on 2p2 by 100 ppl over a hand that you know you played right would you internalize it as shame? No.

Now if 100 ppl ridiculed you on a hand should you pause and deeply and objectively scrutinize your process? Yes.

Take a wild guess if I've done that. A list is so arbitrary. If I had a better memorization techniques the list would be in my brain. The list started at 17, when I started to forget ones while I was on a train coming back from a music festival.

"The number of women you've slept with is irrelevant"
- ok I have a list on my phone that is now 4 ppl but includes last names because I struggle to memorize that

You sure you have the same reaction?

You're acting like agreeing with the masses is optimal. Guess what the masses think of poker as only degenerate gambling and but how much did you lose? I would think this concept would be intuitive to ppl on this forum

I don't think having the list is particularly creepy. If you're having trouble remembering and want to remember, it's pretty much your only option. That being said, not particularly sold on that format for a podcast. You've got some really entertaining stories, but I feel like they could be presented in a better way. Just my two cents.


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I agree with TheWal, I dont think ots creepy to keep a list, its definitely something that would rub some people the wrong way but it doesnt seem like you care about that

Seems weird to me whether the list is 5 or 100 long, but whatever. I know females who have kept lists, it's not super uncommon. I also doubt he'd get much backlash for publicly talking about it. Some would think it's douchey, bb misc'ers would love it.

GoodGame,

Before you start the podcast or so listen to this podcast about "Man Rules". The idea of sleeping with as many women as possible is discussed quite extensively.

http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-epi...s-episode-430/