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Tinder chick im talking to has left Saturday evening free for me to take her out. shes 7.5/10 and just my type but just wondering what is an ideal first date we could do apart from the standard drinks? or should i keep it simple and go for drinks?

01-11-2016 , 05:37 PM

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LucidDream

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Colin_Piddle

Cliffs: So basically your saying: Dress well, Date more, learn to read girls better, become more relaxed and confident, Don't be afraid to make a move physically but do it nautrally, lose the shyness and fear and you will do better with girls.

Yea, basically but the how to version of that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eeyorefora

Stopped reading after "being attractive to women has nothing to do with physical looks".

Women will overlook a lot ,but to dismiss looks completely....

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That isn't what I said. I said my overall advice has nothing to do with that. In the very next line I recommend that anyone who isn't doing whatever they can to maximize their physical attraction first do something to change that and maximize it.

01-11-2016 , 05:56 PM

#61628

Michael888

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Quote:

Originally Posted by wsopmichael

I usually only deviate from drinks if I have friends going out or if I know that she has a particular interest in something (e.g. a girl said she liked live comedy clubs or it came up somehow so I did that the first date) but really you problably wanna be drinking no matter what you do.

01-11-2016 , 07:35 PM

#61629

lazer

adept

Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,131

Quote:

Originally Posted by wsopmichael

Keep the first date at drinks...simple is good. See if you're into each other. If you are, get more creative in the future

01-11-2016 , 07:57 PM

#61630

TheWhoWhat

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Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 352

LucidDream definitely wrote that post beating his chest like..."Man Student Life is going to think I'm a dating genius!"

Where in actuality it came off as awkward and cringe worthy as all his other posts.

01-11-2016 , 07:59 PM

#61631

CCuster_911

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Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 24,435

Ya if lucid was given a 100 word cap on his posts he would be much better off.

01-11-2016 , 08:21 PM

#61632

LucidDream

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I mostly posted it bc of Dante's posts where he's said numerous times he's fairly good looking and is getting Tinder matches but clearly has no idea what to do and girls still don't go for him. But I think it's good overall advice for all guys with an open mind.

No worries tho, I won't waste my time continuing to post advice where it's not wanted. For those of you that realize being attractive to women takes work and is multifaceted, you'll get it eventually. For the rest that think it's only based on being more physically attractive, good luck

01-11-2016 , 09:37 PM

#61633

Induce_You

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Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 270

Thanks Lucid, please stop posting.

01-11-2016 , 09:37 PM

#61634

scrolls

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Too wordy but I thought the post was fine.

01-11-2016 , 09:50 PM

#61635

CCuster_911

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Ya, he is always always making good points, but the more verbose he is the more this "anything is possible!"...camp fire-y/kumbaya tone comes out.

Yes self doubt and low confidence are a huge problem but thinking the word is your oyster is not good either and he always manages to give off this vibe that once you are confident you can basically get anyone. Which is certifiably false. Obviously. People have types. Preferences. Etc.

Basically he talks a lot and will sprinkle in random wtf which takes away from his core points.

Last edited by CCuster_911; 01-11-2016 at 10:02 PM.

01-11-2016 , 10:35 PM

#61636

CCuster_911

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Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 24,435

Also, just a reminder:

Dont stick your dick in crazy:

01-11-2016 , 11:08 PM

#61637

Eeyorefora

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Quote:

Originally Posted by CCuster_911

Also, just a reminder:

Dont stick your dick in crazy:

I almost got arrested for letting my ex total the car I bought for her.

Cops didn't believe she could wreck a car ,so it had to be my fault.

Before cell phone video,Ldo.

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01-11-2016 , 11:16 PM

#61638

LazyTops5

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Lol gotta love cops

01-12-2016 , 02:15 AM

#61639

wsopmichael

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Yea Lucid keep posting

01-12-2016 , 07:17 AM

#61640

DanteA

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Saw that on fb. Why isnt he calling the copa though?

01-12-2016 , 10:10 AM

#61641

LazyTops5

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Cause they will think it's him until he shows them the video

01-12-2016 , 11:49 AM

#61642

CCuster_911

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Quote:

Originally Posted by DanteA

Saw that on fb. Why isnt he calling the copa though?

Yep what LT said but basically he doesn't have a landline, and the video proof(on his cell phone) is more important than getting the cops to come and stop her.

The odds that the cops would believe that she tried to hit him with her car, without the video, are pretty much 0.

01-12-2016 , 12:14 PM

#61643

DanteA

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True.

On another positive note. Tinder girl accepted my invitation for a date.

Havent planned much more than that. Still waiting for her reply if she is available the date i proposed.

01-12-2016 , 01:04 PM

#61644

wsopmichael

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Quote:

Originally Posted by DanteA

True.

On another positive note. Tinder girl accepted my invitation for a date.

Havent planned much more than that. Still waiting for her reply if she is available the date i proposed.

I usually dont propose specific days, I usually ask them when they are free for us to get together then i work around their response. if you ask a specific day and she says no shes not available, its hard to gauge if thats true or disinterest but if you ask her what day shes free to see you and she responds with a day or 2, you know that shes atleast interested in seeing you. If she says im not sure or I dont know then its usually a blow off and she doesnt want to see you anyway.

Just my opinion, asking for specific days works too if her interest is high enough as she will offer you alternative.

01-12-2016 , 01:17 PM

#61645

DanteA

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She already said yes and she knows I have to travel a bit so I thought it would be easier if I proposed a date. And if she is not available then I think she will propose another day on a weekend.

01-12-2016 , 02:54 PM

#61646

wsopmichael

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Nice! good job

01-12-2016 , 05:23 PM

#61647

Colin_Piddle

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Surprised that Dante is from Sweden. Thought he was american for sure.

01-12-2016 , 06:01 PM

#61648

DanteA

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How come?

Ty wsopmichael!

01-12-2016 , 08:29 PM

#61649

UCDLaCrosse

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Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,903

Been back and forth with this chick for 8 years and counting, recently went through a huge breakup where I stood my guns for the most part, and the holidays caused me to cave in. She is now using the things she knows I'm a sucker for (well written letters, my affinity for music) to "win back my affection", and after 2 weeks, I still feel empty/incomplete.

How the **** do I ditch this situation? I can go into further detail if necessary but really prefer not to.

01-12-2016 , 08:36 PM

#61650

CCuster_911

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Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 24,435

Nobody is going to be able to break up for you. You obviously want and need to stay apart from her so not sure as to the point of your post. If you are looking for a line check then you will just get a bunch of people telling you that an off and on 8 year relationship will never stay on.

Just tell her there's a reason why you have broken up numerous times before and you no longer think it's healthy for either of you to go through the cycle again.

Or move. Or text her new phone, who dis next time she texts. I don't really know what kind of answer you want or need to hear.

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