I'm 6'4" and this girl I've been dating is 5'0". Any tips for making things less awkward?

Break a leg?

Making a new thread is an option if you guys want to redirect things and make it clearer what's to be expected. I don't want to be the one to make it, but we can pick someone.

I mean, aside from the awkward "ask out a girl" part of the title (am I the only one who thinks the title is awkward as hell?), I don't think there's a need. There's only one dissenter from the thread's current format.

Or is he just the only vocal one? People who agree with him should feel free to chime in with their opinion.

...I expect to be able to hear a pin drop at this point, but who knows.

lol wish I could take credit, but ty.

And +1 to the rest of your post. I can hear a pin drop as well.

...you wish you could take credit for your own post? I'm very confused.

You must mean that Jack Daniels wrote it.

Passive voice FTW.

I do think the thread should be more geared to relationship advice than "here's what I did recently" posts, but we also want feedback on our advice which will invariably take the form of "here's what I did recently" posts.

Honestly, I think they should be together.

The "what should I do" posts, if actually used, will turn into TRs. Whether successes or fails, that helps the thread.

- If the TR is a fail, you go back and re-eval and execute better next time.
- If the TR is a success, other people that might be having trouble can see that some of the stuff actually DOES work well.

this.

Sounds like EZ game. Why do the co-workers think it is so hard? Stop being so passive and ask her out already, ffs. She basically already told you to do that, so do it.

good thread is good.

I say we vote TUTS off the island.

With that said, if people are asking advice, etc., any anticipation that gets built obviously kind of demands a results post...and if people enjoy reading TRs (which they seem to), why not?

I mean, we don't necessarily have to post TRs about singing karaoke really well, but anything truly relevant to pursuing a girl seems perfectly fine, even if it's verbose.

We could start by fully completing the phase-out of the original title of the thread as named by him, and give it a cleaner title like "SL Relationship/Dating Advice Thread." Seriously, the title is an eyesore. Yes, this is nitty of me.

I like the title. F you guys.

Also, am still slightly sick but overall feeling much better, exhibiting almost no symptoms (no more coughing/phlegm, still a little shortness of breath occasionally), and I'm not running a fever (temperature 97.9 last night, 96.8 this morning). Safe to make out w/ a girl or no?

I'm facing a similar situation, and I think I'm safe to go ahead. Both she and I have both been sick in the same general area of time, so it's only logical to think we've got the same virus. We figure it's fine, and it's unlikely either of gets "re-sick" after being sick in the past 2 weeks (she was sick first, now me). I also think it may just be seasonal allergies.

At my college like everyones getting sick and allergies. I dunno whats up these days with people getting sick. I never get sick ever.

i have a small TR with a girl.

i saw this super hot girl(probably hottest ive ever seen here) while i was walking to class. I smiled at her, and she didnt give any reaction.

Question for our day game experts--

In order to condition for my summer climbs I've started running 6-7 miles about 3x a week. I do it on pretty much the same route every time, so it's not totally unreasonable to think I'd see some of the same runners from time to time.

Well, one of the ones I think I'll be seeing more often is this really cute brunette that I guess runs the opposite direction. I've seen her twice in the last 2 weeks while I'm running and both times we've done kind of the smile/wave thing.

I feel like my line is to let this pattern happen a few more times and then one time stop and say hi for a bit. Is this super standard?

I think the ideal situation would be to see her before she starts her run or after she is done, like when she is resting. I'm not too sure how it works out when stopping someone in mid run. She has to start and finish somewhere and stop running. I think best is to see her and talk then. This is a stretch cause of the fact that you have to have good timing at being at the place she starts or finishes running. Obviously the best thing is to be able to see her somewhere while shes not running, but thats tough.

Im interested to see other peoples opinions on how to approach this and what to say to stop her running.

next time you see her ask why she always runs away from you

LOL..this is definitely something that I would say. I like this one.

I'd say try going in her direction every other time you go and possibly try catching her before she starts or worst case when she's done and cooling down. Girls tend to have an aversion to talking for very long during or after a workout with the whole smelly/sweaty thing going on because it lowers their body image. If she's super focused and you interrupt her run it runs the risk of being a rushed conversation, but you could even run with her and even playfully challenge each other to add a little fun to the whole thing

Could we at least ****ing change it to "ask a girl out"?

I mean, that still sucks as a title, but it sucks a little bit less.

So you didn't get sick from each other? Is there typically only one cold virus that "goes around" the general population at any given time?

This girl hasn't been sick lately (although I started feeling sick the day after our first date, which is ****ing weird) and has a strong aversion to getting sick. I would like to not get her sick.

I prefer the

Official SL Bitches n Hos thread