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Haha, nice. If only there had been action on this.

I have an ex, we broke up about 5 years ago. We dated for almost 2 years iirc. I was her first real boyfriend and took her virginity. She broke up with me, without actually breaking up - she was a sr. in high school, it was towards the end of the year and she was going to college - said her dad wasn't letting her go out anywhere anymore until school was over and what not. It seemed pretty obv she didn't want to see me tho because I kept coming up with ways we could still see each other and she just turned them down.

Any way, I'm way way over it all, but I'm still friends with her friends. She goes to College on the other side of the state fwiw.
I saw her FB profile like 2 weeks ago as a suggested friend so I added it. she approved. Saw her on FB msger last night and thought I'd say hi so I did, but right then a lady friend was knocking on my door, she surprised me with dinner because I'm sick - so I told my ex on msger "oops bad timing i'll ttyl".
When lady friend left I look at FB and see ex has a status update (something she doesn't seem to do much) and it says "I will never be the same... If we ever meet again", from the time stamp it was like 5 minutes after I sent her the msgs.
Chances that this update is just a coincidence and has nothing to do with me? I find it hard to believe she feels anything like that for me anymore, I def don't have any feelings for her and I was more into her than she was into me at the end of our relationship.

I was kind of hoping when she gets back in town we'd be able to be friendly because we have a lot of the same friends that we hang out with. I'd also not turn down casual sex if it were an option. But if that update is directed at me it looks like I have no shot at that

odds that status was just a big coincidence?

Patience, grasshopper.

Short version is... life is good. No girlfriend, but at least one option on any given night.

Long version is being typed up after I go out for some more birthday drinks. I'mma teach you fools how to write a real TR.

if it wasnt a song, 0% coincidence. considering its a song, 95% that she was just listening to it at the time and its not directed at you.

http://www.metrolyrics.com/if-we-eve...timbaland.html

i mean i know the song, and the lyrics of the song kinda made me more paranoid that it could be about me

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any way it's comforting that you feel strongly like it wasn't directed at me. maybe i was just being paranoid.

wtf can I do to get rid of this cold?? I've been taking medicine regularly but jfc even though I've been "mostly" better for like the last 4 days I just can't kill this thing. Jennifer wants nothing to do w/ me for as long as I'm sick, she's paranoid of catching something, and it'd be really nice for this to not kill our TV date tomorrow night.

SiQ, meet her at a party sometime back home, chat it up get some drinks in ya. Almost for sure you two will have sex. Whether or not you want to deal with the consequences of that is up to you.

And lol at it being only a coincidence. People usually have motivations, just like you did when you added her on facebook.

P.S. Im not saying she wants to date you again, but I am saying she would like you to bone her some more. And then she might want to date you after that. Who knows.

You're so vain
You probably think this fb status is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this fb status is about you
Don't you? Don't you?

is this thread just for college student trs? i might make a new screenname and post some stuff, i've been out of the dating game for 2 years and have been going out with a vengeance the last few months. maybe start a log for my stripper game itt!

Nah you don't really gotta be a college student to post in her. I'd say go ahead and start posting some TR's or asking fro advice.

Date went really well. She came over to my place around 8, and we went out to a hookah place I know. Got some hummus, pita, and falafel as well as tea and smoked some hookah. We hung out there for a while. Convo was smooth, and constantly flowing. We have a lot in common, and she's graduating at the end of the summer so I know we can just have fun and not get super serious which is kind of what I'm looking for. After the hookah place, we made out for a bit, and then she went home to study for a test she has tomorrow. Feeling pretty good. Will probably hit her up tomorrow or friday.

my current situation:
the last 3 weeks, ive been hooking up with a girl who has a bf.
shes breaking up with him this weekend, or so she told me.
i hope its not "for me", because im not interested in a relationship with her.
a girl asked me out on monday for tomorrow. im not gonna go, but going to make plans with her for saturday. shes obv into me, so she will accept.
as the creator of this thread, i feel its my obligation to update every so often.
im also drunk.
i also feel this thread kinda sucks. it tells people to try all these fancy lines and moves. i disagree with a lot of it. just be yourself people. you dont want to be with someone who doesnt like your natural self. also, i feel that long TRs are not necessary itt, as we should be more focused on helping and giving advice. we shouldnt be putting emphasis on making blog posts itt, but just casual updates are fine. i think we should be putting more focus on asking questions and deciphering weird s--t girls do.
fwiw, if a girl texts you and says "im not feeling well", its code for "im not interested".
/drunk typing at 10:27.

Maybe if she texts YOU that, that's what it means.

I'm gonna speak logically here. Hopefully breaking it down this much is enough.

If you disagree with a lot of what is said itt, then that's probably good, since you are the OP, you likely have trouble talking to women. If you disagree with the advice later on itt, it's probably good advice, since you started the whole charade.

And I, for one, really like the TR's. If they're too long for you, don't read them. Pretty much everybody else seems to as well. If you spent as much time flaming on karak when he seems to have actually benefitted from this thread, well then...

*NSFW Language*


P.S. if you think "I'm not feeling well" means "I'm not interested," then you already lost with that girl a LONG time prior to that.

lawl i was thinking the same thing.

SIQ i was confused though i thought her posting that as a status was a good sign not bad? i guess i'm misinterpreting the song

goodgame, don't really care for it to be that serious. was hoping we'd be able to have fun since we have mutual friends and whatnot but that status would scream drama imo.

okay the following may seem like a giant wall of ramble but just go with it.

there is a chick at work who is super super hot imo. we never used to work together but over the past like 2 months we have worked more and more together (she is a minor so ya it's still not much). we flirt quite a lot at work, she initiates most of it. we don't talk whatsoever outside of work unless it involves work... but when it happens she's the one initiating the convo. the way she talks to me makes me feel like she has some vibe for me or something but i rarely am in situations like this so it could just me having to boost my ego.

us talking about hanging out has never been talked about, we talk about stuff but not like me and her hanging out. the other day i casually said mid convo so when are gonna hang out? (lol) and she replied "idk but we should." couple of co workers know i like her and think i should go for her but all agree it might be a hard task.

she's a senior in high school and i am 20 but that's strictly for your entertainment if any, not gonna affect situation. what is my play? we talk a lot at work but never talk outside of work and i don't feel normal just randomly starting a convo outside of work. my friend had a bonfire and i was gonna use that as a scapegoat to hang out but it got cancelled sooo ya. work with her again on saturday am i supposed to be hella blunt and be like ay shawty lets do dis or what?

can she blow smoke rings? i was at a kegparty once visiting a friend at another school and was talking to this girl, solid 7. Nothing overly special, but she seemed pretty cool and I didn't really know a whole lot of people at this party other than the people that I came with. Anyway, some guy eventually brought his hookah downstairs and sparked it up. I sat on the couch beside the girl in question, and she could blow the best smoke rings i've ever seen, and it made her a full point hotter imo. I said something along the lines of "wow, those are amazing, that's some real skill." (it had something to do with skills anyway). She shotguns the rest of the smoke in to my mouth and then says all sexylike in to my ear "that's not skill, i'll show you skill" and grabs my upper leg really close to my package. it was the single greatest moment of my life.

Sick life IMO

Thinly veiled "I've been to keg parties" brag.

lol nah, nice score though.

Hmmm....Good Bad? I'm not sure yet what are the benefits/risks of dating a girl like this...

Short history leading up to today- I recently just broke up with a girl taht I had been seeing for a few weeks, Im 22 she was 18, her immaturity was very clear and she was too dramatic. We broke up tonight actually...


I've been working overnight shifts 11pm-7am and everynight theres this BEAUTIFUL girl who comes in around 1:00am for a room. Tonight I spark up a conversation asking her where shes from, she told me she lives in southington by herself at the hotel now and that shes a stripper down over at the bar....I asked if she was married or had a bf she said no, and no....So I told her I thought we should get together and go on a date maybe out to dinner and then back to my place for some hot tub fun...she said she'd love to..


She's 26 im 22...shes beautiful I'm an okay looking guy but not the hottest amongst them in my town.....What are the benefits of dating a stripper and what are the downfalls?

Good post Vintage.

Not only are TRs often fun to read, but they really have value beyond being "bloggy" or whatever TUTS's complaint is. They give context to how you're playing overall situations. Leaks in your game can get pointed out and fixed this way.

Anyway, since TUTS is the only one who makes this complaint, and everyone else seems to enjoy this thread and the way it's evolved...I think we'll all just keep on as we're doing.

pros:
-she's hot, ldo and if you're out in any kind of social setting with her, having her with you is like a golden ticket. Other women see you with this women and are interested in you solely based on the fact that you're with a really attractive women and thus realize you have something to offer.
-they're usually pretty flexible lol
-if you're both doing shift work/nights it's opens up a lot of opportunities for stuff to do during the day that the Monday 9-5 crew do not have.

cons:
-if she's on any kind of promotional contract with a specific company she could finish up in your town fairly soon and ship out so anything long term isn't likely so I wouldn't get too attached
-this is a huge generalization but strippers can carry around a lot of daddy issues/psychological trauma from their childhood. Lets face it,not many girls say they want to be a stripper when they grow up.
-teh STDs

That being said, go for it. Show her a good time and be a gentleman and don't grill her too much on how she feels about her job i.e. keep the conversation more about the other good stuff like travelling, music, good stories, etc. glglglgl

For the record, adding onto my post from last night, don't feel obligated. If you think the thread sucks, don't read it.

I have to admit, now that he stepped in to remind us that he started the thread, it's sort of amusing for me now to visualize TUTS as Mickey Mouse from the Sorcerer's Apprentice.

The rest of us? Well, we are of course these guys.