I have an ex, we broke up about 5 years ago. We dated for almost 2 years iirc. I was her first real boyfriend and took her virginity. She broke up with me, without actually breaking up - she was a sr. in high school, it was towards the end of the year and she was going to college - said her dad wasn't letting her go out anywhere anymore until school was over and what not. It seemed pretty obv she didn't want to see me tho because I kept coming up with ways we could still see each other and she just turned them down.
Any way, I'm way way over it all, but I'm still friends with her friends. She goes to College on the other side of the state fwiw.
I saw her FB profile like 2 weeks ago as a suggested friend so I added it. she approved. Saw her on FB msger last night and thought I'd say hi so I did, but right then a lady friend was knocking on my door, she surprised me with dinner because I'm sick - so I told my ex on msger "oops bad timing i'll ttyl".
When lady friend left I look at FB and see ex has a status update (something she doesn't seem to do much) and it says "I will never be the same... If we ever meet again", from the time stamp it was like 5 minutes after I sent her the msgs.
Chances that this update is just a coincidence and has nothing to do with me? I find it hard to believe she feels anything like that for me anymore, I def don't have any feelings for her and I was more into her than she was into me at the end of our relationship.
I was kind of hoping when she gets back in town we'd be able to be friendly because we have a lot of the same friends that we hang out with. I'd also not turn down casual sex if it were an option. But if that update is directed at me it looks like I have no shot at that
odds that status was just a big coincidence?