"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: Home of A+ GG TRs

[TurnUpTheSun]

might go with
"just took the best nap everr. are you feeling alright today, you seemed kinda out of it in class"
using nap line so she gets the idea i was silent in class cause of tiredness.

[BamBam192]

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

saying "is everything ok" isnt too desperate, creepy, strong?

No, saying it like Yeota suggested

"looked like you were upset today... anything wrong/whats up/everything alright?"

is definitely the right play here. Plus it will score you points or your money back.

[BamBam192]

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

might go with
"just took the best nap everr. are you feeling alright today, you seemed kinda out of it in class"
using nap line so she gets the idea i was silent in class cause of tiredness.

If you are going to use that line change the wording

"just took the best nap ever. Were you feeling alright today, you seemed upset?"

[yeotaJMU]

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

might go with
"just took the best nap everr. are you feeling alright today, you seemed kinda out of it in class"
using nap line so she gets the idea i was silent in class cause of tiredness.

id say no to the nap thing. you dont want her to think you were quiet from tiredness. you want her to think you were quiet because shes not a big deal to you even though she is.

think about what is going through your head just because she walked by you today and didnt say anything. all you can think about is why/what/how did that happen? what can i do to fix it? etc. now flip that on her she is probably wondering the same thing. thats what you want. you can get the idea across that you still care without throwing in the nap thing.

[TurnUpTheSun]

good point. going to class now, will update when im back.
thanks.

[BamBam192]

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

good point. going to class now, will update when im back.
thanks.

May the force be with you


















lol I had to say it

[TurnUpTheSun]

me: were you feeling alright today?
her: what?
me: you seemed out of it/upset/unsmiley in class
her: oh nope just tired i guess idk

welp there we have it. nh gg me.

[Le Alexandre]

There's only one last resort: "So when you gonna let me tap that?"

But more seriously, in you're shoes I'd take a step back and just take it more slow. After all, you've only been actively talking to her for a couple of days.. I think she feels a bit pressed to get this 'done' faster than she might be comfortable with. Don't take the initiative to text her or something for the next few days, but with that said I wouldn't avoid her and if she comes to you, great.

I would tho' as a last thing to try to end things on a positive note send a last text w/ something like "ok nice, yeah I was also a bit tired, that lecture was boooring" (dont use those words, can't come up with something good right now, but just something to end the conversation on a positive note)

[yeotaJMU]

yeah alexandre is right there. might even be best to cool it till the weekend (thursday if ppl at your school drink thursdays) and text her to see what her plans are. sucks though she is either really cryptic, really insane, really shy, or just not really into you like that, which theres nothing you can really do about.

[TurnUpTheSun]

only problem is i see her wednesday. and friday.
and when it comes to cryptic/insane/shy, i think maybe a combo of all 3...or she is like me and finds these games stupid. but is a girl so doesnt want to make a move. who knows. or shes just not into me. impossible to tell. we will see.

[yeotaJMU]

yeah without being there to see how you guys interact it is hard to say. just stay off the gas for a few days and see what happens.

[BamBam192]

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

yeah without being there to see how you guys interact it is hard to say. just stay off the gas for a few days and see what happens.

Best option. Like he said hard to read. So just chill it out, who knows girls surprise everyone. She might even start talking to you and be like "omg is everything ok you havent texted me". I am not saying thats gonna happen, but at this point with this one who knows man.

[TurnUpTheSun]

its just a complete 180 from last week when she was so flirty and all interested and stuff. sighhhhhhh lets gooooo one timeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[BamBam192]

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

its just a complete 180 from last week when she was so flirty and all interested and stuff. sighhhhhhh lets gooooo one timeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Take it a day at a time and most of all, don't let it stress yourself out. If you do that you will be off your game.

[jiggybluff]

gg op