Also, hopefully this counts as an update and not a TR so I can retain my shield lol, but BG called me drunk and sappy last night and confessed her undying love for me while insinuating relationship and probing my views on everything. Thankfully, since she was drunk, it wasn't very difficult to deflect.

Yes, she even used the "L word" at the end of the phone call. When I started laughing like she was kidding, she made it pretty clear she was not. Let's just all hope that was the alcohol talking. She insta-IM'd me the second she saw me online and tried to run damage control on it this morning, but she didn't do a very good job. However, I'll close my eyes and pretend she did (because we have law prom tmw LDO).

Ding Ding Ding. This sounds like what is happening most likely.

lol, for sure.

This is what I don't totally understand I guess...I can try out "casual" since tbh I'm not completely positive what I want, but specifically, the idea of her dating/hooking up with other guys bothers me. I don't know if that breaks the bounds of "casual" or whatever, part of the problem is that all these words brought up in relationship talks are so loaded and I'm not experienced enough in relationships to know what they all mean. As far as other people went, all she said was something like "I've been dating around" which may not even mean that she's currently seeing other people or intends to. Or maybe it does, I don't know.

2nd time we hung out together (although we've talked on gchat a lot in the interim).

2 dates = not even close to an exclusive relationship yet. You need to date her more. You can't even be sure you want that yet.

3 after tonight!

thought it was clear that nobody cares about updates just TRs

goofy- Girls lie to themselves just as much as they lie to us. She's almost certainly not going to be dating other guys while she sees if she likes you.

maybe not so much a **** test, but it seems to me like she's kind of trying to get him to define what he wants so as to make sure that they can **** without him bailing in the future or w/e.

Karak, my 2 drunk & stoned cents:
I'll speak for myself but wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people agree with me.
I love reading your TR's, and I really hope you keep posting them (maybe not too often lol but their a great read every single time, cuz u can write quite well). The thing is that you have some pretty outspoken opinions & character traits, which people will critique/discuss. But this is the very nature of this thread. I for myself don't agree with all your opinions, but I still really enjoy the TR's, so even though people will disagree with your views in this thread, please keep posting

LOL @ exclusivity talk after two dates. Save that **** for 2 months.

You mean, "Yeah, fur sure, fur sure, fur sure."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YxOWmq_tHQ

The other regs in this thread need to set odds on exactly when Karak is going to admit to being in love with this girl.

To be completely honest with you attraction is falling off a cliff rather fast in the past few days. No one huge thing happened to cause it, but a series of small events have pushed me towards disinterested. I have a feeling tomorrow night will seal that. However, it seems she is going the other way. We'll see. I could be misreading, but I doubt that after last night.

I appreciate your words, and I do realize the way I frame things can be inflammatory and provocative, and that I react to criticism here badly at times. That's why I think, for now, it's best I stay away from posting my detailed TRs.

I think your TRs can blow me.








lololol butnahhhhh

Hello guys, It's been a while since I posted but a situation has arised that I need some input on. Ok so my friend is seeing this girl and we had a party last week and she brought one of her lady friends with her. As the night progresses me and this girl talk and start to get to know one another and I end up getting her number at the end of the night. Overall she seemed really cool, down to earth, and we shared some things in common. So I text her the day after and we talk a little throughout the week and her friend (the one my buddy is seeing) says that this chick likes me. This is good. So like 2 days later my friends girl messages me on fb saying she thinks her other friend and me would get along really well. Ok. So my friend and I end up hanging with his girl and her other friend last night and this chick was really cool as well and we had even more in common. Problem: We planned to all hang out at my friends house tonight and both girls were invited; not by me obv. So what is my play? Do I just play the friend card to keep my options open or do I make it clar tonight which one I want to go after? I've only hung out with each girl once so I'm not sure which one I want to pursue. Fwiw the second girl is transfering to Santa Cruz in September (which is far from Oange County).

waitwat

socalsucka posts like that are why we adopted the ABC system.

is "her other friend" that you will get along well with the 2nd girl aka the one you didnt get the number from and were texting?

goofy,

karak said it. basically the girl came out and said she didn't want to be exclusive, and you basically agreed (though we know that's not really what you want), and she seemed to be like "ok.. good!" so now you want to tell her tomorrow that you kinda do want to be exclusive. that's why it seems like such a bad idea.

also, ive realized that my future wife is losing her hair. is that even possible if a girl is not on like chemotherapy (extremely doubtful here) or hormonal medicines? my curiosity is KILLING me but the thought of approaching the subject is obviously a scary one.

for full disclosure purposes i dont care at all and we are still going to end up married. but seriously... i have to know, and dont even know where i would begin a question like that.

Yeah, I've decided I'm not gonna say anything about it tonight, but I don't think I communicated what she said very well - she didn't say anything along the lines of "I specifically do not want to be exclusive" (I think her "dating around" comment was a little ambiguous), she just said she isn't looking for a relationship right now.

Unless "relationship" and "exclusive" go hand-in-hand, in which case like I said, I don't really have the experience to understand what all the connotations associated with these words mean.

Sorry about that, I don't know the ABC system. "her other friend" is 2nd girl, the one I have not gotten a # from. I was texting the first girl I met at the party.

ooo ok no worries. id stick with the one youve been texting and know you have an interest in rather than the one that youre trusting your friends gf about whether or not youd like each other.

Yea I was leaning more towards that. I noticed we "clicked", for lack of a better word, more so than I did with girl #2.

surprised this thread wasn't also renamed emokarak.blogspot.com

h8 u