Also landed a new job that could potentially include me travelling around UK so will be putting tinder to work when that happens

Damn I wish they had keg parties at my squash tournaments. How big is squash in America? I thought racket ball was more popular?

Squash isnt big at all. Its mainly a game for rich people (aka businessmen), and in terms of colleges the only schools that compete at it with any seriousness are the Ivy's and some other private schools in the north east.

Racketball is more popular but isnt all that popular in the grand scheme of things. I live in the ~15th biggest city in the US and there are <10 squash courts, with only like 4-5 of them being regulation size(from what people were telling me).

Like one of the guys there is a close personal friend(his words) of John Kasich a presidential candidate.

Nah, it tells you they superliked you before you swipe right or left

Had good success w/ super like. 7 of my current 20 matches are super likes. I clean out my matches all the time as convos die but I would say that ratio is pretty normal. Tinder has said the data has been positive.

The reason I utilize super like is because it puts you in a position to actually be viewed by the girl. Otherwise you'll be buried in a queue of hundreds of guys and there are limits to how many swipes/day.

Moral of the story: Girl that said she thinks super likes are desperate is probably a negative Nancy and looks for any reason to dislike guys. This type of girl is going to disqualify everybody that isn't 9+

Wow theres 8 squash courts at my club and I live in a small city of only 80,000.

I installed Tinder last week while I was in Tallinn. Was watching the cricket final in a pub and got super-liked by a rather unattractive woman... Who was in the same pub. Had to leave immediately.

I use super like. You get 1 a day might as well just pick a 7.5/10 to use it on so you get to the front of her swipes.

lol, that's hilarious. Maybe I can understand a little how attractive women feel getting hit on all the time.

I don't think I'm super attractive, but a bisexual guy at work went through a phase of hitting on me about fifty times an evening during after-work Friday drinking. It became incredibly annoying, quite an illuminating experience in retrospect.

Ya tinder allows you to empathize with what hot girls deal with, when a ugly girl hits you up on tinder you think fml, so thats how hot girls must feel when they get unwanted advances from guys they dont find attractive

Just go to a gay bar and you'll learn what it's like really quick. I have fun with it since it's a rare thing, but I'd go crazy if I dealt with that every night out.

That's pretty much how I feel about it. Usually just pick a girl that looks fun and go for it.

I'm in Nashville for the weekend. Any recs for bars to check out? Hoping to have something TR worthy.

been reading some random stuff on thread is gold lol. Cant post any TR's tho cuz I have GF for a while now (1y+) but will deffo follow these stories .

Acme was a sick bar I went to in Nash. Has three stories, bottom more country style, 2nd a lounge/more kickback vibe, and then the roof/3rd floor has a DJ. Cool place.

Thanks, I'll check it out.

So many bachelorette parties down here. It's ridiculous.

The Stage and Honkey Tonk were my favorites. I was there last week.

GG that girl with the sleeve in your snapchat... Gonna need more of her please

Off topic, anyone here go to Richmond? or live close to richmond?

The Stage was real fun. Great town. Definitely coming back soon.

Just got back from Spain and then Portugal. Spent all week in Portugal staying in a 6 person beach house with 9 people crammed in, felt like what Spring Break should be haha. Way too much day drinking.

On the girl front I've linked up with G from earlier posts, would say we are about as exclusive as you can be in an abroad setting. Nothing long term going to come from it but we are both very in to each other and don't want to hurt her by hooking up with other girls.

Everything is great with her, have really been enjoying the sex, but unfortunately she can never orgasm . I've been lasting relatively long and going down on her, but nothing seems to work. She says that she has barely ever orgasmed and it is really hard for her, but I want to put in an effort and get it to happen for her. Any suggestions?

She ever give herself an orgasm?
If not,there's a real problem.

Some women do have a problem during coitus,so you help them out with oral and toys,whatever they like.

But if she rarely orgasms by herself,that's her problem that needs to be looked at.

Vibrator on her clit while you **** her from behind.

Brief update: My old obsession contacted me again by text, we exchanged pleasantries, I told her to bring some wine over tomorrow and we'd catch up, she responded "if only I had time," so it was over. Stung like not at all, so different then a few months ago. Mind you, I'm only in this town for a few more weeks.

Anyways, I worked a question from her that allowed me to respond with a joke pic I took a few weeks ago, it was perfect placement, pic shows me ripped compare to three months ago and with style.

She asked me to get lunch sometime, I reminded her that she sucked last time we had lunch, said I don't get up in time to do lunch and she could meet me after I teach at 10 p.m.

She said, "LOL get your life together. But okay, I guess." Not sure what the first part means- I guess because I get up in the afternoon? This has always been true of me- she is really not a bright bulb.

Told her I'd be at a specific bar on Wednesday at 10:30 and she could join me but if she comes to "bring her fun hat, because I say a lot of things to people that will embarrass you if you're not cool."

She said, "lol who are you?"

I said, "If you figure it out, wear a dress and heels and show up early enough before I get into a graduating sorority slut."

Of note, girl is a former sorority slut.

I may have overplayed my hand with the last one, but I don't expect her to show up anyways and I really don't care. Actually, I might flake on her early in the day before she can flake on me- she never committed to going at all, but I suspect a flake by text is coming anyways so she can assert herself. I also don't really like the word 'slut', but yolo and it was fun.

I'm speechless at those texts