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05-01-2010 , 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
im not a gimmick
you also say you are from burkina faso, so we cant trust you.
05-01-2010 , 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
you also say you are from burkina faso, so we cant trust you.
lol alot of guys have random locations on thier profile
05-01-2010 , 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
lol alot of guys have random locations on thier profile
If you're implying that I'm not from "Can't do it, Sally," I'm offended.
05-01-2010 , 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
lol alot of guys have random locations on thier profile
a lot of guys got/are gimmick accounts
05-01-2010 , 06:34 PM
That's how you know my account is real. B/c I actually live in Georgia. Suckasucka dick, y'all.
05-01-2010 , 07:02 PM
lol georgia is a real place??
05-01-2010 , 07:09 PM
Georgia is a real place
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/258912
05-01-2010 , 07:11 PM
hahahahahahahaha nh. Yeah, we have some special people here.
05-01-2010 , 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Flyingbanana
Bahahaha always laugh when I see that
05-01-2010 , 08:36 PM
I have a question that may yield different answers but basically when do you drop the "I love you" bomb on a girl? Do you wait until you're in a relationship? How about after X amount of dates and on the cusp of a relationship? Does it matter who says it first (the guy or girl)?
05-01-2010 , 09:04 PM
I would be willing to bet that 80% of people ITT have never said ILY and meant it. Most either say it in order to get something in return(anal ftw), or a slip up/peer pressure type of situation...

As to answer your question the answer is always after they say it and when you feel comfortable. Being the first one to say it would just be awkward imo...but then again I usually avoid anything resembling a serious relationship so I would not know
05-01-2010 , 09:16 PM
http://videolog.uol.com.br/video.php?id=440339

for all the mad men fans. made me think of this thread
05-01-2010 , 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by socalsucka
I have a question that may yield different answers but basically when do you drop the "I love you" bomb on a girl? Do you wait until you're in a relationship? How about after X amount of dates and on the cusp of a relationship? Does it matter who says it first (the guy or girl)?
It's almost always a bad sign if a guy (probably girl as well) wants to say ILY.
It's basically a "tool" to put pressure on the other person. Why would you want to say ILY to a girl you are not even dating?
To show her that she is something special for you?
By saying it, you put her on the spot and want a decision from her.
It's just not natural and I would recommend not saying to anyone unless you've been dating them.

This is bugging me for quite some time, but why do a lot of people ITT tell girls they are not dating their feelings?
"Should I tell her how I feel?", "Yesterday I sent her a text saying 'You are so special for me, I am in love, when I see you, I dont care if Georgia is next to Russia'".

It's so weird to me, because it accomplishes nothing, literally nothing. The girl won't change her mind, just because you told her how you feel.
The situation will only be awkward and most of the time everything ends right there.
Because if she really felt something for you, you would not have had to tell her what your feelings are, it would just have happened.
05-01-2010 , 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
It's almost always a bad sign if a guy (probably girl as well) wants to say ILY.
It's basically a "tool" to put pressure on the other person. Why would you want to say ILY to a girl you are not even dating?
To show her that she is something special for you?
By saying it, you put her on the spot and want a decision from her.
It's just not natural and I would recommend not saying to anyone unless you've been dating them.

This is bugging me for quite some time, but why do a lot of people ITT tell girls they are not dating their feelings?
"Should I tell her how I feel?", "Yesterday I sent her a text saying 'You are so special for me, I am in love, when I see you, I dont care if Georgia is next to Russia'".

It's so weird to me, because it accomplishes nothing, literally nothing. The girl won't change her mind, just because you told her how you feel.
The situation will only be awkward and most of the time everything ends right there.
Because if she really felt something for you, you would not have had to tell her what your feelings are, it would just have happened.
Blame this on Hollywood IMO.
05-01-2010 , 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Karak
i have to learn a semester of con law in 3 days

ive been going to bed at like 6-7 AM every day.

took my crim law final this morning on 20 mins sleep. taught myself the whole course in a day. hopefully booked it? lololol

GL with con law... who has saturday finals in lawl school?
I did. It was grand. Been studying so much that the days are all mashed together and it definitely doesn't feel like a Saturday.
05-01-2010 , 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
I would be willing to bet that 80% of people ITT have never said ILY and meant it. Most either say it in order to get something in return(anal ftw), or a slip up/peer pressure type of situation...

As to answer your question the answer is always after they say it and when you feel comfortable. Being the first one to say it would just be awkward imo...but then again I usually avoid anything resembling a serious relationship so I would not know
Post "I love you" sex is, as noted above, generally incredible. But it's like 6+ months in, and she has to say it first.
05-01-2010 , 10:26 PM
Though obviously there are like 3 girls I'm not currently dating that I am madly and completely in love with.
05-01-2010 , 10:32 PM
Ok I'll give a mini story on something since it's far in the past.

I said ILY first to my last girlfriend. We had been emotionally involved for a lot longer than we were dating, so it's not like it just started right away. Things got pretty serious within like 3-4ish months of us dating, and she started the whole "I really like you a lot" thing with me, and I would reciprocate. After a while it got ridiculous and one night when I was drunk I said, "just say it. Stop dancing around it!" with a grin on my face. She insisted she wasn't going to do "that" first, but she would refuse to define what "that" was when I said "wait, what are you talking about? I meant that you want to go to Sheetz" just being a jackass (I was drunk ok?).

She got us back to serious bizzzz vocabulary discussion and looked at me and said, "You have to say it first." and then sat there waiting. I said "Ok, understood." and then just went on talking about something else, which frustrated her, but I wasn't just gunna go and say it then. That would be dumb. Plus I wasn't entirely sure if I felt that way.

I said it like a week later. I said it the moment after she... "came to fruition" as it were, cause I figured that's probably the most emotional time and the best time to drop it. I dunno why I did that, but it made sense to me at the time. She told me she had been dying for me to say it, but she couldn't bring herself to do it because she didn't know how I felt or something blah blah blah. I can say with good confidence that I may not have meant it at that very moment, but within a month or two I did mean it when I said it.

The only other girl I've ever said it to was the girl I dated HS->early college for 3+ish years. I won't say I didn't mean it, but I didn't understand it. I was infatuated, not in love.
05-01-2010 , 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Karak
im pretty sure wsopmichael is a gimmick
@wsopmichael: did this post inspire you today or something?
05-02-2010 , 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
Though obviously there are like 3 girls I'm not currently dating that I am madly and completely in love with.
stnadard
05-02-2010 , 12:50 AM
ive only been in the situation twice. the first time, she said it first like 3 months in, i said it back, we had awkward high schooler sex and dated for 3.5 more years.

the 2nd was the very next girl.. she said it first after like 3 weeks while we were hooking up and i go: "...noooo you dont. trust me, you dont" and she actually took it kinda well.
we broke up like a week later lol

and haha +1 to
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
Though obviously there are like 3 girls I'm not currently dating that I am madly and completely in love with.
any less would be unacceptable
05-02-2010 , 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Karak
The only other girl I've ever said it to was the girl I dated HS->early college for 3+ish years. I won't say I didn't mean it, but I didn't understand it. I was infatuated, not in love.
Yeah this for me too. Said it, was being entirely sincere, was just stupid though really. I was 18-19 during that relationship.
05-02-2010 , 01:28 AM
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
Though obviously there are like 3 girls I'm not currently dating that I am madly and completely in love with.
This made me LOL pretty hard in contrast with your post immediately before it.

I need to work on getting three of those.
05-02-2010 , 02:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Flyingbanana

I like this one more. http://www.yodawgyo.com/wp-content/u...g1-480x355.jpg

Gotta love Yahoo Answers.
05-02-2010 , 03:06 AM
nvm

Last edited by Karak; 05-02-2010 at 03:16 AM. Reason: writing it out did help me though

      
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