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Originally Posted by socalsucka
I have a question that may yield different answers but basically when do you drop the "I love you" bomb on a girl? Do you wait until you're in a relationship? How about after X amount of dates and on the cusp of a relationship? Does it matter who says it first (the guy or girl)?
It's almost always a bad sign if a guy (probably girl as well) wants to say ILY.
It's basically a "tool" to put pressure on the other person. Why would you want to say ILY to a girl you are not even dating?
To show her that she is something special for you?
By saying it, you put her on the spot and want a decision from her.
It's just not natural and I would recommend not saying to anyone unless you've been dating them.
This is bugging me for quite some time, but why do a lot of people ITT tell girls they are not dating their feelings?
"Should I tell her how I feel?", "Yesterday I sent her a text saying 'You are so special for me, I am in love, when I see you, I dont care if Georgia is next to Russia'".
It's so weird to me, because it accomplishes nothing, literally nothing. The girl won't change her mind, just because you told her how you feel.
The situation will only be awkward and most of the time everything ends right there.
Because if she really felt something for you, you would not have had to tell her what your feelings are, it would just have happened.