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Originally Posted by Karak
Actually I do know how to incorporate it. If she feels so strongly that she feels guilty, then why did she engage in the behavior in the first place? Why did she put herself in that position if from her moral standpoint (and from mine which should be clearly obvious to her) she thought it was "disgusting" and "shameful" behavior?
I suppose my problem is at my age I don't need to be dating people who make mistakes like that so casually. Especially ONE DAY before she was going to see me. Am I barking up the wrong tree?
I would incorporate this into just being a caution sign. Make a mental note of this and forget about it. If it happens again, you reevaluate. I think it would be appropriate to let this slide once to see what develops from it.
As far as her making casual mistakes, are you certain that she does this casually? It is possible that you just caught her when she was running bad and made your read off of that.
I would give it a shot, but be very cautious about getting involved further for the wrong reasons. As far as the issue from last night, I'd make a mental note of it, but not let it create distance if you do meet up (but not hook up) with her.