"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2013 Year of the Tall Blonde - Page 91

TurnUpTheSun · 01-08-2010, 12:59 AM

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GoodGame · 01-08-2010, 01:05 AM

she probably realized at some point your demeanor changed and you became a little to confident as if you got it in the bag, because.. ya... she asked to keep walking you have it in the bag. she just wants you to still feel like she has control and you have to impress her.

il_martilo · 01-08-2010, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Karak

lol yeah knowing my ex i'd bet a lot of $$ she's stalked my posts multiple times since we broke up. she used to (almost to a creepy standard) stalk any girl i talked to IRL when we were dating and she thought might be a threat to her. she also used to keep tabs on all of her former love interests too. there is honestly no doubt in my mind she's stalked my posts on 2+2 or on the law school forums i post on. if you are reading now, hiiii!

Standard x 1 million.

il_martilo · 01-08-2010, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

TR-
Stopped by her apartment just after 6, and she accuses me of being late, but jokingly and with a huge smile on her face.
"Wat? I said shortly after 6" I say, and pulled out my ipod to show her that it was ~6:10. I'm actually fairly surprised how excited she appears to be to see me. She asks if we're in a rush, to which I obv reply that we aren't, so she says that she wants to stop by campus to pick up her other shoes (she was wearing really funny sneakers at the time fwiw).
We get to the place where we're eventually going, and our table happens to be right beside my roommate and her boyfriend's, which isn't really a big deal I suppose.
I mention that I had Subway at like 3 and that I'm not incredibly hungry, but we decide to order food anyway. (I got a ****ing burger for some reason and regretted ti immediately when I saw the size of it. This thing was ****ing massive. I immediately got scared that I was going to look like a goat trying to eat the thing.)
Over the ~3.5 hrs that we were together, I think I stopped laughing like twice. My face actually really hurts from smiling so much, and she was smiling and laughing just as much. I really thought things were going well. As we were leaving, we run in the guy that I know who was playing and he tells us a really funny story and I almost piss myself, and as I'm walking her home we talk about him and how I know him and such. I'm not done talking by the time we get to her place, so she suggests that we continue just walking around randomly. (Brag? I mean she could have just said "okay I'm home, bye!" but she didn't) We walk around aimlessly for another half an hour for whatever reason, talking about nonsense.
When we get back to her place I ask her to put her number in to my phone, but she replies that she doesn't have a phone. She's just barely weird enough that I believe her. I'm so thrown off be the fact that someone can actually not have a phone in this day and age that I'm pretty much silenced for the remainder of the exchange.
I give her my phone number and tell her that I enjoyed myself "and would like to get together again" to which she replies, and I quote: "Mmmm, perhaps." Body language didn't really match what she said at any point when she was joking around earlier or w/e, and I just got a really weird vibe completely different than what I was getting for the other 3.49 hours we were together.

Cliffs:
girl wears funny shoes, but gets different shoes so as to have regular looking shoes.
Eat without being hungry for some reason.
We both laughed our heads off.
She wants to hang out a little while longer, though she doesn't invite me up.
I suggest we get together again and she seems meh about it.

I agree mostly with what others have wrote... I think you are good but she's trying to stop you from feeling like you have it all totally in the bag.

yeotaJMU · 01-08-2010, 03:05 AM

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

br3nt00 · 01-08-2010, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

well i love winter break.

Flyingbanana · 01-08-2010, 06:31 AM

I love having the time off from all that sort of stuff at uni. I think I needed it to recover to be honest.

**LKJ** · 01-08-2010, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break.

+1

**Karak** · 01-08-2010, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by GoodGame

she probably realized at some point your demeanor changed and you became a little to confident as if you got it in the bag, because.. ya... she asked to keep walking you have it in the bag. she just wants you to still feel like she has control and you have to impress her.

no

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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i just want to say that i hate break. i havent seen my situation's girl in almost a month. it is driving me crazy for multiple reasons.

ya

Nio min Nio · 01-08-2010, 04:36 PM

ohh good to be back after awhile. failing epically atm, visiting a friend at college for 2 weeks, looking to hook up w this easy hot girl whose really easy during that time. turns out her bf is coming to visit from today and onwards. all other girls here are conservative and theres some sortof dance tonite and i dunno what lol. well see.myabe ill make a short TR.

neways yeah just text her Karak, breaks suck.

glad to see thread up again, will read over the coming days as i have plenty of time and add my five cents if theyre of any worth. take care peoples

GoodGame · 01-08-2010, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Karak

no

really? care to explain more?

you said this:

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Originally Posted by Karak

3) i wouldnt read too much into it. weird girls like to say **** like that, especially ones who are acutely aware of the whole push-and-pull dynamic of relationships. if she's weird enough to not have a phone, she's weird enough to play odd ****ing games with a guy she likes.

distance for a little, then re-initiate contact and see where it goes. not an awful result at all. weird girls are just... weird though... so you never know what to expect.

which a) isn't really anything concrete so i can't understand your exact view point

and b) seems to almost agree with what i posted

**Karak** · 01-08-2010, 07:51 PM

my text: "when you guys back in town?"

reply text: "Tomorrow night. You? What fun awaits us?"

lolz

**Karak** · 01-08-2010, 08:03 PM

problem is philly @ dallas is on at 8

****

thebigeasy59 · 01-08-2010, 08:34 PM

are you in to a relationship with this girl? if she likes you then she'll watch football irregardless imo.

**Karak** · 01-08-2010, 09:21 PM

am i in a relationship with her? no obv not

but i think you were asking if im interested in one with her?

meh, maybe. im not really interested in dating anyone exclusively right now unless she really knocks my socks off.

either way im just going to invite her to watch football with me. *shrug* im not missing philly dallas part 3