Originally Posted by goofyballer
Wait, so you're not even trying when stuff falls into your lap? wtf @ this rice krispie treats thing?
Well. The rice krispie thing was with an engaged girl who I (for better or worse) didn't do anything with even though...well I could have. I don't have a couch, so my bed became a place for her to lie down and, etc etc. Didn't do anything even though I could have.
Her fiance (two hrs away) later gave her crap about going to my place to hang out like that. She then said to me that she found it weird he would be upset. So she was basically acting like it was no big deal and she didn't think anything of it. I have ZERO doubts in my mind that we could have hooked up and she would have wanted it. And coming from someone like me, that tells you something, since I'm not someone to see a girl is interested unless a hammer is used on my head.
At the time I was being morally sound, but in hindsight...I don't know.
The recent active pursuing girl just was clingy and shy, etc. I've talked about her before. In that case, I just wasn't feeling it nearly as much as she was. Hard to temper the expectations of a girl with a crush (especially one who is socially behind her age).
Originally Posted by Karak
If the effort doesn't seem worth it, then the girl probably isn't worth it. But you should try looking for some girls who interest you.
I mean if you're happy single then you're happy single. I wouldn't go forcing anything. Problem is you can't let that attitude continue into mid-late 30s if you eventually want to marry someone and have kids haha.
These are my thoughts entirely on this right now. I'm fine and dandy single right now. I'm just worried it will carry on too far into my 30s or whatever, and then I'll regret not having done something about it when I was in my 20s (25 now).