Originally Posted by Peternized
I can only talk out of experience, if you really have the feeling in your stomach just walk up to her and ask her out or facebook or whatever, even if you are insecure and she notice, you will still be one of the few that has ever approach her in that way being exposed. Girls love that. I did it once when I had a strong feeling, it's now my girlfriend.
I agree, to a point. I believe there is a pretty strong positive correlation between creepiness of a guy and the number of relatively unknown girls he asks out. So in theory, approaching as a normal guy may actually be a relatively rare experience for a lot of girls.
However, in saying that, girls may be conditioned to associate random asking out with creepy guys, and react accordingly. Also, anyone who needs to be told to ask out a random girl based on their reads of the situation probably doesn't have the game to pull it off without coming across as creepy/nervous, so it is best to just not to avoid further confirming the stereotype (justly or injustly) that generally it's creepy guys who do this with a high frequency.