Originally Posted by Henry17
My point is that if all you have to offer is hanging out at home no girl is going to be interested in that.
while this is generally true (80%++) there are some girls who prefer laying low and watching movies to the bar/club scene.
for a "cool" guy, i'm pretty damn nerdy (as if posting on this forum wasn't enough evidence). i spent plenty of weekend nights just hanging out watching TV/playing poker/videogames. i've dated a couple of girls pretty seriously--objective 7s--who actually enjoyed just sitting on my couch and doing her own thing. they were like grandmas-- cooking, cleaning, baking for me and if we went out it would be to a nice dinner.
interestingly, these girls were both incredibly insecure and jealous. they HATED when i'd go out and if i did they'd automatically assume i cheated and hit me with an interrogation when i got home.
in any event, the problem with this sort of semi anti-social behavior is that it limits the nights you can pick up women because you're certainly not meeting any in your apartment building or whatever.