Originally Posted by Karak
If she's a pure random? Yes, it probably is. It depends on the situation. I've seen people go to jail for doing what most men ITT would deem completely innocent. It's all about your EV calculator. You take a risk every single time.
And to be clear, it's an awful double standard and the court system is heavily stacked against male defendants due to rape shield laws and other devices, but the more I learn about this legal situation, the worse it is.
We spent a week on rape accusations in my PR class last semester, and the stuff about date rape and all that was really eye opening. My profs were defense attorneys and basically said taht nearly every one of you men in here has done the same thing the men in these examples did, except you didn't do it with a girl who went to the cops.
V interesting. I always hear the feminists say how rapists always get away with it, so I had the opposite picture in my head. I mean, if the girl goes back like a week later, wouldn't there not be any evidence?
Obviously I'm talking about smthg where a girl wants to have sex, doesn't give explicit consent, then later regrets it and convinces herself she never wanted to. Thus there would be no signs of force or anything.
Originally Posted by Henry17
I think it is always best to error on the side of caution and not have sex with a girl the first time when she is drunk. It just isn't worth it.
I thought you said you would sleep with a girl as soon as you got the chance, e.g., first date, which would presumably involve drinking. I suppose you are differentiating having 2 drinks and being tipsy from having 5 drinks and being drunk?