"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2013 Year of the Tall Blonde - Page 1237

CCuster_911 · 01-21-2011, 09:16 PM

wug average in bowling?

**LKJ** · 01-21-2011, 09:27 PM

I used to play weekly, never really kept an average but was usually around 160. High score was 210. Not quite a good bowler, but I could consistently beat my friends.

However, then I stopped and rust accumulated and the last time I played, I sucked. Sucking when you bring your own shoes and personalized ball (not that it has my name on it or anything, but it's got the Seahawk logo) is twice as embarrassing. If I get off to a bad start, it's clearly time to get the beer flowing even harder just so I can have a lame excuse handy.

Aces Suited · 01-21-2011, 10:07 PM

Can we remove The come write a letter part from the thread title now?

GoCubsGo · 01-22-2011, 12:35 AM

Aces Suited,

No.

All, headed out to a party. Not expecting too much, but ya never know.

- GCG

Spoiler:

JK don't worry I'm not bringing it back.

GoodGame · 01-22-2011, 12:47 AM

how about you forget the girls and learn how to drink

**LKJ** · 01-22-2011, 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by GoodGame

how about you forget the girls and learn how to drink

GG's best burn in at least 72 hours. Or am I just drunk? Perhaps both.

Dyenimator · 01-22-2011, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by GoCubsGo

whatever, i do what i want. the blonde did have 2 or 3 beers in the time that i had 0, and i think the brunette had 1 or 2, my buddy had 1, but i'd be amazed if anyone noticed. generally girls respect a guy that doesn't need to get ****faced if he goes out, at least the smart and mature girls that i'm trying to get with.

Having ~2-3 beers = getting shitfaced. Girls could look at it either way, but spending 15-20 at a bar over the course of a few hours shouldn't be a hassle. And you shouldn't be more than buzzed. I'm really curious as to why you didn't initiate any contact on the walk home. That is pretty much the prime opportunity and one of the easier situations you can come across. Even if your intention isn't to get laid that date it sets up something for the future.

Operation Ivy · 01-22-2011, 02:11 AM

I fail. Even when I'm falling down drunk, I'm too stuck inside my head to talk to random girls @ a party.. fml

crackedquads · 01-22-2011, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Operation Ivy

I fail. Even when I'm falling down drunk, I'm too stuck inside my head to talk to random girls @ a party.. fml

What stops you? I'm drunkie now, and quite enjoy talking to random drunk females.

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also, @chris and the thread in general, if you dont want to date the girls you are trying to bang, ffs stop hanging out with them all the time. dont talk to them during the week, talk to them on the weekend, get them out with you, bang them and leave. dont put yourselves in situations where you are hanging out sober and being all cute with each other.

sheesh.

!!!!!!!

Please listen to this. Make your intentions as clear as possible and follow through with them and you'll save yourself a ton of trouble. I've only actually persued something NSA a time or two and found that despite the eventually emerging craziness from the girl involved, I still enjoyed and adequately managed what was to come when the situation unraveled. I don't at all expect something NSA to remain that way, but set your boundaries and stick the **** to them and your girl will get the point and be less likely to wig out on you, and if she does change her tune you've already set the tone of this situation and if she doesn't follow the beat of your drum, game over.

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if there is no dancing at the place youre at, then a) lol b) why are you there c) what kind of college area do you live in, and d) take her somewhere else. if the "passive acceptance" was so clear and they would follow you anywhere then you failed miserably there.

if there is nowhere like that around, then you shouldve taken her home with you earlier. if she wasnt gonna leave, then fine, leave without her/go somewhere else/just ditch her/ etc. but at least you wouldnt have wasted 3 hours for nothing.

Who the hell needs to dance? It works wonders when the venue offers it, but even if it doesn't you shouldn't have much of a problem with physical escalation. Girls at bars that don't offer dancing often don't like or are not particularly in the mood to dance their ass off for the next 2 hours that night anyways, but no dancing does not at all mean they aren't down to enjoy themselves.

Wasting 3 hours for nothing is a bit of an over statement me thinks. He could have possibly laid some solid ground work for a future encounter. Who knows though, maybe he'd be calling her a cab right now to take her back home from his place if only he had a DDR machine in his living room.

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lol @ karak going to a hipster venue. that'll go over like a led zeppelin.

i'd amend friendly from "some" to "few." hipster girls are generally pretty cool but sometimes have a hard pretentious shell to crack. but they are generally nice. agree on the others.

karak, please do your best to have lots of interactions and post a good tr, i look forward to this.

henry,

whatever, i do what i want. the blonde did have 2 or 3 beers in the time that i had 0, and i think the brunette had 1 or 2, my buddy had 1, but i'd be amazed if anyone noticed. generally girls respect a guy that doesn't need to get ****faced if he goes out, at least the smart and mature girls that i'm trying to get with.

lkj,

i'll keep it in mind, either leave out the detail or go full blown. i thought i only do this when it's important to the sequence of events, but when it's a detail i'm not comfortable sharing. last night a lot of the conversation was specific to stuff that only i am doing and a lot of people know that i am doing, such that if 1 out of ~50 people saw it, they'd know it was me.

I'm sure you have your own reasons for not drinking, perhaps even beyond financial ones, but stating you're not drinking in order to attract the type of "smart and mature" women that appreciate it is not quite genuine. Especially lol worthy considering you have no issue with these two girls downing multiple beers before you try to get one of them to go home with you.

crackedquads · 01-22-2011, 02:57 AM

Also, spent my first weekend night as free man..... next to or 20 feet away from my ex. It was a mutual friends birthday and we were both invited and attended. Had a pretty amazing conversation with the birthday girl though. Sucks that essentially all of the women there were in several year long relationships, or married, or engaged, but ultimately chasing after some new girl in front of my now ex this soon isn't appealing to my appetite. Especially in front of a dozen of mutual friends.

CCuster_911 · 01-22-2011, 03:05 AM

had a legit poarty here, probably 40 people, woith some cute girls, they wre playing drunk driover then they lfet i dont kniow

Operation Ivy · 01-22-2011, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by crackedquads

What stops you? I'm drunkie now, and quite enjoy talking to random drunk females.

This is a good question, I think the answer is going to come out as a jumble of lame excuses if I try to seriously answer it right now. And maybe even after I sleep on it, but if I come up with something reasonable I will get back to you.

**Karak** · 01-22-2011, 03:30 AM

rofl @ tonight

just rofl

funkii can expound

pecota perhaps as well

crackedquads · 01-22-2011, 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Operation Ivy

This is a good question, I think the answer is going to come out as a jumble of lame excuses if I try to seriously answer it right now. And maybe even after I sleep on it, but if I come up with something reasonable I will get back to you.

Realize that these girls like the attention when sober, likely moreso when drunk. You're very unlikely to come out as creepy. Essentially ask questions, keep your responses short and hopefully interesting and you'll be golden. You're likely nervous, and perhaps rightfully so, because you don't have much practice talking to girls. Just like anything else in life you'll do better once you get more reps in.

GoCubsGo · 01-22-2011, 05:52 AM

one of the best parties of my whole life...there were so ****ing many hot girls. like probably 10 out of 100 people, girls > 8/10 and then 10 more were girls > 7/10. i was pretty drunk and spent almost the entire time talking to hot girls. there was almost no filler. it was long fun flirty convo after another, punctuated by brief greeting and/or joke to person that i came with or someone i knew at the party. sort of felt like ILM, and a couple guys commented on my game.

this one girl that i fell in love with 2 years ago (she is 9.5 for me) was there. we never really talked and i havne't seen her in forever but i recognized her and soon enough had my arm around her and it was perfect. but then she realized i was trying to tap and she didn't wanna tap so she left the convo, but in such a cool way. hard to explain but she is such a cool chick. anyway i later found out she had a bf, then met him and told him how awesome he is.

then later i was talking to another girl that was like a 9 and the first girl was like bye gcg! and then the 9 i was talking to gave me her number and said as long as i promise to not get into a relationship. and then my friend told me she had a boyfriend and the three of us were talking and he asked how we knew each other and she explained we are just friends and will never go on a date and i sort of thought she was being serious but i think she was kidding and she really wants to bang me, cause she said "don't judge me" as if she was doing something wrong (i.e. nsa sexxxxy time) i asked if she wanted to come home but she said nooooooo.

i got another really hot girl's number that just moved here she is 19 and blond and perfect in every way. i think it might be a fake number tbh tho the conversation was good.

i am drunk but may post more tomorrow, was such a fun night.