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Originally Posted by lozen
I have always thought racism towards natives is the worst here in Canada and the USA. I see more racism also in East Indians and Chinese cultures towards other races. I Believe everyone that notices color is racsit. The only ones that are not racist are young kids. They dont care dont notice it till they are taught it by their parents.
I moved into a new area and have many Chinese neighbors and they have been so rude and terrible to me as rare white living in the neighborhood. I have noticed that I have developed more racist tendencies to Asians now. Dont like it and I know it is wrong. One other white family on the Cul De sac that moved in 6 months ago. They asked me if I felt the neighbors treated me like garbage also.
Unfortunately a whole lot of Asians tend to be this way. I know a lot of them now, and the majority of my friends in high school and the first couple years of college were Asian too, so I know it's not just the "bad" ones acting out that feel that way. Prejudice is just the traditional way.
My brother is Vietnamese, and we have gone out to eat in the Bolsa district, which is Orange County's "Little Saigon," many times. The food is very good and relatively inexpensive. He says I should come back to this or that place and eat there as regularly as he does, but the truth is, even when I'm there with him, a very good percentage of them will treat me differently than him even though we're sitting at the same table. Once we went with his whole family to one of the worst of the restaurants, and even his little girl remarked that the waitress was treating me with complete disrespect. Right in front of the whole family. Now THAT's aggressive prejudice.
It's such a shame, because Chinese, Vietnamese, Japanese, etc., can make absolutely great friends -- maybe better than American ones -- once you crack enough of their many layers of shells. But there is an inherent contempt in their cultures for others.
This is one of the things that makes me laugh when people say, "Don't call them Orientals, call them Asians." Not only did every Asian I grew up with(and probably half the people or more thant I grew up with were Asian) call himself an Oriental, and never call himself Asian once, the very idea that there is any unity between "Asians" is a total joke, so the term itself is just a non-starter. They've been at each other in real if not ego wars since the dawn of time, nourish millenia of grudges, and most absolutely do not identify with each other at all unless someone who is even more of an outsider comes along. And generally not that much even then.