Katy,
To be clear it's not fulltime daycare. It's babysitting while moms are working out. Maybe a couple hours a day.
'Autism spectrum' is what they're calling it. He fits the major criteria though the neurologist says it's very mild. He makes eye contact and interacts. He just has emotional overreactions that cause a danger to himself and others. All the time. There are tantrums, then there are, yes, psychotic episode tantrums. You'd have to see it to understand.
I think autism is getting overdiagnosed just like ADD.
But there's no denying the effect this medication has had on my boy. He feels better and says so. He doesn't sit in a corner rocking and drooling. He acts like other kids act.
He also has a wide range of personality disorder coming from both of his parental lines
Both my parents were alcoholics, my wife has close relatives who have been institutionalized. So this is not something out of the blue with him. Almost more remarkable that his sister seems to have dodged the bullet.