*This may be look TL;DR but i GUARANTEE u it is worth the read and I could use your advice. Cliffs at bottom though

Intro
My gf and I of 1 and half years had a fight and broke up. We kept in touch during the break-up with the possibility of getting back together, however she went degen, quit her job and tried to make money gambling and playing poker. She ended up losing everything.
Althought I still loved her at that point... I told her I couldn't be with her because of her being such a degen and lazy ass (i am completely against gambling due to -EV). I tried to help her find a job, I let her stay in my other house, and was pretty much there for her when she needed it.

The Bombshell
I had access to her email address cause I was helping her find jobs when I saw emails from a guy soliciting her for sex. I discovered she had posted an ad on craigslist for prostitution.... tbh this crushed my soul knowing that the girl i loved would do this to herself. I confronted her, stopped her from doing it and deleted the ad. She gave me a story that she was just upset, sad, confused, really needed the money... etc. At this point, I knew I could NEVER be with this girl again. I still cared for her and felt sympathetic for her situation though.

Bombshell again...
A week goes by and things seem better for her, she was working at a restaurant and I was helping her find a new job. Still having access to her email I routinely checked her email for jobs when one day the password was changed....but, I was able to figure out her new password. In her inbox there were NEW emails from guys responding to a NEW prostitution craigslist ad she had posted (obv she tried to change her password so I wouldn't see them).

So I set up a fake email address and responded to her ad to see if she would actually go through with it. I know it's sort of entrapment, but I wanted to see if she would actually do it. After a few back and forth emails, it eventually got to the point where she provided her phone number to me (pretending to be somebody else) and setting up a time that night. At this point I was convinced she would do it.

That night I confronted her and again and told her it was me the whole time. Again she gave me a b.s. story that she was just upset, sad, confused, really needed the money and wasn't really goin to do it.... etc.


Her Ex-BF
A week or two passes and I find out she has slept with her ex-bf and has been seeing him for a few weeks now even though she still calls me, wants to see me, and says she loves me. I conclude that she says those things so she can stay my house and possibly use me for other things. Now I know we were broken up, but tbh i was jealous and choked about this even though I had decided i didn't want her anymore (jealously can be a powerful emotion).
I confront her about her and her ex, and she tells me she wants to be with him... naturally I kick her out of my house.

Now up to more present time (this all happened in about a 2month time frame), she is now living with her parents and seeing her ex-bf and they spend a lot of time together. And AGAIN I find out through one of her other different email addresses that she tried to setup another sex date for money... I couldnt confirm if actually went through with it though.

My Revenge Plot
So this is where I need advice. I was able to save all of the incriminating emails and screenshots of the craigslist ads she had posted... so I have been entertaining the idea of sending all of that evidence to her ex-bf in hopes that they break up. I kno it may seem selfish.. but I am still extremely livid and somewhat jealous that she is with him. And i am further infuriated that she pretended to want to be with me while with him in order to use me.

There is also the possibility that she always wanted to get back with him and was merely using me as a long term rebound. Also, our circle of friends are somewhat connected and I cannot stand the fact that my friends or acquaintances will see them together. I will get laughed at... albeit, im moving on and will be dating other girls. But still... i will totally lose face if they are seen together.

I am about 75% sure the guy will break it off with her if she found out about the craigslist ads and emails.... soooo should i do it??
Any questions, advice, suggestions, opinions, comments are welcome. I know this is 4L so stupid/funny **** is welcome but id appreciate some serious advice as well

Cliffs

again, this may be TL;DR but i GUARANTEE u it is worth the read and I could use your advice.

- broke up with gf
- gf quits job and gambles all of her money away, completely broke
- i let her stay my other house and help her through the tough time
- she posts multiple craigslist sex for money ads (unconfirmed if she did actually go through with any)
- i find out she has been seeing her ex-bf while still living at my house, talkin to me and occasionally seeing me. we are broken up though, yet i am still jealous and infuriated (even though i do not want her back)
- I have evidence of her sex ads and incriminating emails between her and "customers".... should i send to her ex-bf in an act of revenge??

hey pawn

how the hell did u finish reading that already? i just posted it. and I am not pawn.. whoever that is.

POST PICTURES

PICS OR GTFO GIMMICK

obv. pawn would have posted pics

No way any of this is even worth reading without pictures.

it's simple; i didn't.

the more feedback... the more likely chance of pics

also post her ptr

Why you would want anything to do with this girl after all of this is beyond me.

and wtf, pics

you shoulda added a public poll and pics

i wouldnt send the guy this email cause it'll be too obvious it came from you and then she'll try to get re-revenge. and imo she seems a lot more unscrupulous than you are.

ok how about you don't trainwreck your ex's relationship by providing said evidence, because that just makes you a douchebag. does that sound good?

don't do anything. the **** she'll do to herself is 10000000x worse than anything you could ever do to her. she will be sufficiently screwed with or without your intervention.

but she deserves it imo, no?

appreciate the feedback thou... thats why i posted the story

WHAT IN THE **** ARE YOU DOING ON A POKER FORUM

no, her life is ****ed up enough. the last thing you want to do is find an excuse to bring her back into the picture. you're probably in the wrong for keeping her around you for so long without realizing how poisonous she is.

no more prostituta on the craigslists? musta mean kriegslist

fyp

nham droppin wisdom bombs itt.

plz be to droppin pics itt.

You suck at life.

ya... i kno sorry to disappoint. ive stalked BBV4L enough to kno "pics or gtfo". super busy tonight but ill see what i can do about pics tomorrow.

but keep up the responses tho, it actually is insightful cause I would never dare talkin about this **** with friends or family....

kinda ******ed that im so willing to talk about it with a bunch of random poker players... wtf is wrong with me haha

how so? where did i go wrong?

Edited for BBV4L

I'm sure you will when your main account garners some infraction points.