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04-17-2008 , 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted by RuleThirtyFour
because i fu*king wanted to?
hahahahahaha, relax
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04-17-2008 , 09:45 PM
seriously wimmenz always gotta be causing unnecessary drama
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04-17-2008 , 09:45 PM
i dont want to fight anyone who sounds like she could be 150 lbs of muscles yo
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04-17-2008 , 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted by 2p2Reader
How many of you live by "The Game"? and would you or did you get your girlfriend using the techniques described in it?
Read it, great book, actual theory is ****. you must be akin to the guy in the jaegerbombs youtube video for any of the strategy behind it to be worth your time. The real basic theory behind it is it's a numbers game + self confidence + destroying other's self worth = sex with courtney love type women.
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04-17-2008 , 09:50 PM
lol. so ask until someone says yes? any fool at a bar could do that
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04-17-2008 , 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted by dxu05
Read it, great book, actual theory is ****. you must be akin to the guy in the yaegerbombs youtube video for any of the strategy behind it to be worth your time. The real basic theory behind it is it's a numbers game + self confidence + destroying other's self worth = sex with courtney love type women.
haha, i dunno, i know guys that have gotten very hot, non crazy girls. but yeah, I guess it is a numbers game. I can see from the psychology stand point that it could work, so I dunno...

However, I think it's probably not a good idea to use it if you want a serious relationship.
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04-17-2008 , 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted by tarheeljks
lol. so ask until someone says yes? any fool at a bar could do that
I'm pretty sure that's not the entire "game", come on.
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04-17-2008 , 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by 2p2Reader
I'm pretty sure that's not the entire "game", come on.
hah i know, but it sounds like that's what it is predicated on. whether you're trying to get w/someone w/whom you have some level of informal acquaintance or a girl you danced w/at the club i think the "game" is pretty similar
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04-17-2008 , 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by 2p2Reader
haha, i dunno, i know guys that have gotten very hot, non crazy girls. but yeah, I guess it is a numbers game. I can see from the psychology stand point that it could work, so I dunno...

However, I think it's probably not a good idea to use it if you want a serious relationship.
thats why I say courtney love type chicks, a majority of the game strategy lies within destroying other's self worth while elevating your own. Any chick that clings on to you post being insulted/treated bad is prob bad news.
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04-17-2008 , 09:58 PM
i thought the point is that, they want to prove to you you're wrong, that's why they are trying to hang around and impress u
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04-17-2008 , 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by tarheeljks
hah i know, but it sounds like that's what it is predicated on. whether you're trying to get w/someone w/whom you have some level of informal acquaintance or a girl you danced w/at the club i think the "game" is pretty similar
It's predicated on the fact that most ppl with women issues just don't approach women enough. Secondly a large key to women and men's attraction is the fact that you're always trying to get something of equal value in a relationship exchange. Thus, manipulations of the perceptions of worth = profit.

The problem with the equation is women you pick up who are dating based off projected worth are interested in the project worth, not you.

An example of where this comes into play would be if you were talking to a woman casually the way you're supposed to project your body. The advice there is talk to her over your shoulder , approach her from in front, and let her know that you're if not superior, at least equal to her.

It's mostly rules to project fake self confidence or self confidence indicators.
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04-17-2008 , 10:04 PM
i think the whole concept of negging is overblown. very few girls actually like dbags (unless they have some issues like you've suggested), but they don't like boring guys either and being too nice can make you look that way. obv confidence is necessary and you need the confidence to be able to approach a girl as well as the ability to playfully make fun of her and show her you have a little personality. that's a far cry from being a douchebag though, which is what i think a lot of guys perceive negging as being. i joke around w/my girl all the time but i'm not mean or rude to her.


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It's predicated on the fact that most ppl with women issues just don't approach women enough.
i'm not disagreeing w/you i'm just saying that most of the golden pua tactics i hear seem like common sense
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04-17-2008 , 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted by tarheeljks
i think the whole concept of negging is overblown. very few girls actually like dbags (unless they have some issues like you've suggested), but they don't like boring guys either and being too nice can make you look that way. obv confidence is necessary and you need the confidence to be able to approach a girl as well as the ability to playfully make fun of her and show her you have a little personality. that's a far cry from being a douchebag though, which is what i think a lot of guys perceive negging as being. i joke around w/my girl all the time but i'm not mean or rude to her.




i'm not disagreeing w/you i'm just saying that most of the golden pua tactics i hear seem like common sense
Oh i totally agree. A lot of people don't understand/think through it though so it's not completely common sense. The negging part is more or less interpreting that most women have a subconscious understanding of where they stand on a social scale normally. Everyone from an economics perspective is looking to increase their value. When you judge something's worth by it's cover, which is the case for many stranger encounters, I do believe some social dynamics/tricks are useful. Not to the level or idea of douchery involved with most idiot HCWDBers who bible "The Game" though.
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04-17-2008 , 10:16 PM
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When you judge something's worth by it's cover, which is the case for many stranger encounters, I do believe some social dynamics/tricks are useful.
can't argue w/that
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04-17-2008 , 10:16 PM
haha way to go pretending you didn't know what I was referring to.
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04-17-2008 , 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by 2p2Reader
haha way to go pretending you didn't know what I was referring to.
i didn't. i've never heard of the book


edit: maybe i implied something different than intended when i said i was unfamiliar w/pua tricks. didn't mean to suggest that i never interact w/wimmenz on > a platonic level. i do, just not w/randoms.

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04-18-2008 , 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by RuleThirtyFour
you have the choice between these 2 girls to be with for the rest of your life:

girl #1:

she is undeniably beautiful. every guy thinks she is gorgeous and she was the "popular girl" in school. but you have to deal with general "female" issues. she is bitchy sometimes. she nags about silly things and likes to stir up drama sometimes. she thinks playing video games is ******ed. she goes off on her womans lib thing every once in a while. she is jealous. she will get pissed if you even look at another girl. she plays games such as when she is mad she will say "if you dont know why im not mad i wont tell you." but, again, she is gorgeous and has a bangin body.


girl #2:

she is average. pretty to some, ugly to some. her body could use some work. but her personality rocks. she plays video games WITH you, instead of scolding you. she is bisexual, so she enjoys looking at other women WITH you and is willing to participate in 3somes, etc. she never nags or patronizes. she is a very understanding individual and rarely fights with you over little things.


These traits are a constant that you must deal with for the rest of your life.

Which girl do you choose?
We're just like women. We'd either take #1 and try and change her personality, or take #2 and cheat on her. Both relationships will end in divorce.
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04-18-2008 , 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by dinopoker
We're just like women. We'd either take #1 and try and change her personality, or take #2 and cheat on her. Both relationships will end in divorce.
I disagree. If #2 was my "type" it'd be a definite go. It just depends on whether she was "pretty to me".
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04-18-2008 , 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
We are guys so afraid of marriage?
We're not. Generally cold feet means we aren't sure about the girl.
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04-29-2008 , 07:49 AM
goddddddd how did i not think of such an easy girl trap thread like this
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04-29-2008 , 07:49 AM
all the girls itt have been buddylisted
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04-29-2008 , 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by RuleThirtyFour
you have the choice between these 2 girls to be with for the rest of your life:

girl #1:

she is undeniably beautiful. every guy thinks she is gorgeous and she was the "popular girl" in school. but you have to deal with general "female" issues. she is bitchy sometimes. she nags about silly things and likes to stir up drama sometimes. she thinks playing video games is ******ed. she goes off on her womans lib thing every once in a while. she is jealous. she will get pissed if you even look at another girl. she plays games such as when she is mad she will say "if you dont know why im not mad i wont tell you." but, again, she is gorgeous and has a bangin body.


girl #2:

she is average. pretty to some, ugly to some. her body could use some work. but her personality rocks. she plays video games WITH you, instead of scolding you. she is bisexual, so she enjoys looking at other women WITH you and is willing to participate in 3somes, etc. she never nags or patronizes. she is a very understanding individual and rarely fights with you over little things.


These traits are a constant that you must deal with for the rest of your life.

Which girl do you choose?
#1 is common I was engaged to #1. She was a bitch I left.

#2 belongs in a list with big foot, santa, the tooth fairy, easter bunny, atlantis, ect ect you get the idea.

If #2 did not have a penis defenatly #2 but since #2 is the unicorn of women I'd settle for sticking it in #1 just not getting married. I dont want to give half my **** to #1.
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04-29-2008 , 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
We are guys so afraid of marriage?
its not that we are afraid, its that its ur job to nest us so you overvalue marriage
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04-29-2008 , 01:04 PM
I'd pick 1 fwiw
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08-17-2008 , 12:56 AM
when you masturbate have you ever just finished by cumming on your stomach/chest?
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