Get her some anal toys

lol, no.
This.

The anus will stretch. Try doing it gradually. And with lots of lube. And not a lot of in/out action (you don't want her anus to prolapse)
Unless you do, then no lube and lots of pounding.

I have signed up for an archery class, I feel strongly that it will become my home/work go to-- along with something for blunt force trauma. I considered cast iron frying pan recently, but decided that I lacked the necessary upper body strength to wield it effectively and am now accepting suggestions.

I truly believe though that the best weapon is a series of well-planned exit strategies. Which I have.

Not relevant that it was written by a fat woman..all women with even an ounce of intelligence and understanding of the world around them have felt this way at some point.

We used a small but plug once but it was not stretching enough I guess.

Never heard of prolapse...figured out what it meant from context hopefully(to scared to google it) I am pretty sure this is not what I want.

She bought a spray that is supposed to loosen the muscles and make it easier. Has anyone ever tried such a product?

regarding anal, try it from the missionary position

Use fingers, build up more fingers in there. Use the toy, get a bigger toy (move to bigger toy).
It's not rocket science.
And use lube, pretty sure there are no products that can actually loosen a muscle.

please to be explaining why this is better?

Anal beads? They come in small sizes. I don't have any experience with them tho.

You can't just do it all fast the first time you have anal with a girl. You need to finger her ass slowly with one finger for 5 or 10 minutes, then do the same thing with two fingers, and THEN try to **** her. Also, make sure her pussy's getting lots of stimulation the whole time. The more turned on she is, the less she's going to feel the pain. Oh, and lots of lube obv.

This.

Once you can get 2 fingers in and she's ok you'll be good to go... well...make it 3 if you are a brotha or just 1 if you are Asain.

HOWEVER, do not rub your eyes after this activity without washing your hands a few times when finished....just ask pooter about that one...

GL to you on your journey... and you'll get use to your peen smelling like ass

I always tried doggy and it just made the girl cry after 2cm.

So her friend said to switch it up, and sure enough...

nothing to add here, i'm proud of you

DONT GOOGLE IT

instead just google "pink sock".. it's a more friendly variation of the theme.

or perhaps "Blue Waffle"