You post them, I'll tell you what they want to keep hidden. I'll do any profile posted, but I'm skimping at work so I can't promise when I will do it.
Example I chose randomly...
gopher24 The Clownfish: someone with common interests
City Des Moines Iowa
Smoker? No
Sign Aries
Ethnicity Caucasian with Blond hair
Height 5' 6" (168 cm)
Body Type Athletic
Age 31 year old Woman
Religion Other Religion
Relationship N/A Chemistry View her chemistry results
Looking for someone with common interests to hang out/spend time with
Blue dress is me
1. I strongly suspect that this girl is insecure about her breast size. She chose a picture with her standing in the background of decently sized breasts at an eye drawing point. This is a fairly typical masking technique--adding a picture of others with traits you lack, most girls do this subconsciously obviously. If one were to correspond with this woman, he should attempt to work in the "fact" that he dislikes large breasts as soon as doing so would not be awkward.
2. The next thing I note is that she is wearing a very loose dress in regard to her lower body. Given her expressions on being into fitness, my strong hunch is that she has thick thighs. I strongly suspect this woman is insecure about her lower torso and thighs, and that she devotes significant efforts at staying as slim as she can. Note where she is holding her sweater. She nonetheless has a strong desire to be considered beautiful, and this can be taken advantage by emphasizing the traits she is most confident in--her hair and face.
3. I can tell she is vain about her face and hair for two reasons. First, and most obviously, they are the only physical parts of her that she has emphasized. In the picture she chose, she stands much taller than the girl with larger breasts, she is subconsciously saying that her face and hair are the most important. Second, her face is highly reflective for a single flash illumination taken in the dark. The reflections are caused by oil which came from her facial pores or her hair. Unless she did not wash before going out, unlikely, this oil came from some hair conditioner.
I am Seeking a Man
For Hang Out
Do you drink? No
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single
Do you do drugs? No
Profession teacher (part time)
Do you have children? No
Education Bachelors degree
Do you have a car? Yes
Relationship
Intent gopher24 wants to date but nothing serious.
Relationship History The longest relationship gopher24 has been in was over 2 years long.
Interests
running yoga art
live music theater reading
About Me
I returned to DSM about 2 years ago after working/living abroad in Europe.
She lives at home and cannot find full-time work. She is most likely a substitute teacher at this time. Also, note how she uses DSM instead of Des Moines. Indication that she hates living in Des Moines and cute use of abbreviations is an indicator that she is not quite ready to be an adult. I would like to meet new people with similar interests, though I'm not a big drinker and it seems that many just go to the bars.
More evidence she still lives with Mom and Dad. She's lived in Europe, she's single, but she hates going to the bars? Also, she just "loves" culture but returned from Europe to live in Des Moines? This girl absolutely hates living in Des Moines and wants to be taken away. She will be strongly drawn to men expressing intent to live in urban centers such as Chicago. I love working out:running(completed a Marathon in Oct
, biking, walking, yoga, anything outside.
Read, I work very hard to keep my hips and thighs as slim as possible. I hope to apply to Graduate School within the next year, that is the main goal.
More evidence that she cannot find work. Also a strong desire to escape Des Moines and to recapture the youthfulness she associates with being a student. I would be great to meet someone to go see a concert, musical, movie, grab dinner, so on.
Passive tone lack of proofreading, more on this later. I also hope to travel more in the future
Read, "some one please take me away from all this corn."
I do not wish to be contacted by someone divorced, or that has children. I'm normally not so blunt, but I tend to receive multiple emails from these "types". Sorry!
She clearly wants something more than "hanging out", but she probably has trouble admitting that she is relying on the internet to meet men. It is a blow to her ego.
First Date
I believe a first date should be low key, with no pressure. Maybe go to a cultural event/Art center, something downtown, then grab dinner after. Walking in the park is always great because you get to know the person and it's outside.
Other comments...
1. She writes she is unsure about having children. Most women at her age who are happy with where they are at would write that they want to have children. Her not writing this strongly indicates that she is not happy where she is at, hence the desire to escape Des Moines through grad school, travel, etc. She associates having children with being trapped.
2. She received very little formal writing education.
3. She hangs out with friends who have more money than her. Her choice of activities is a big clue to me on this point.
4. She writes passively, which could be a indicator of poor writing education, but in this case I see a little something more. She wants to a find a prince charming who will take charge of her life.
5. She lives in suburbs.
6. Men not from Des Moines will have an easier time sparking her interest than men from Des Moines. Anyone temporarily in Des Moines for work to be transferred to a more "sophisicated" urban location will have a better chance than others, all else being equal.
Obviously, I won't be right with 100% percent of my observations based on limited data, but I am confident I will be right on about 75% of my comments with a post as detailed as the one above, even more confident if they write more.