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Originally Posted by Snoopydance
If you want her to dress sexy, you need to make her feel sexy.
Tell her you have a nice date planned, take her to a nice restaurant, etc. She'll have to dress up for that.
Day in and day out... well did she used to "Dress sexy" for you before your daughter was born? If so, it would seem the thing that changed was the birth of your child. If that is the case, then... help her with the baby so your wife has more time for herself. Cook her some dinners, maybe help with house work. This is all assuming you don't already do those things.
She probably needs to feel loved to feel sexy, so... go... do!
Bad advice here, mothers want to feel needed so making more mess and never help her cook.
What you should do is sit down and tell her babe you look a bit far right and im finding it hard to love you. If you dont lose weight soon our daughter will grow up to think being overweight for a woman is ok which clearly its not.
You need to make her understand that you have her best at heart but you dont wish her to be a wilder beast as it makes your peen sad. If she understands she will take more care and dress sexyier.
Id take it to the extent where id refuse to go down on her until she is at the weight you want her to be.