In most ways I agree with Dom, most relationships cannot stand this sort of thing as it leads to mistrust and jealousy, which in turn breaks things up.

I have had a couple of fairly serious relationships where we have indulged in swinging, by serious I mean over 2 years each one.

We were both comfortable with the idea and practice of it and it was something we did on a regular basis to add a little extra to our sex life. In both cases we had met through swinging.

Neither relationship ended because of the swinging, both because of other things - one was money and the other was me!

I have also done this with one partner who had not done this sort of thing before. That stemmed from a conversation about what was the rudest thing you have done.

In your case OP this will probably wreck your marriage, but it depends on what your wife is like. Do you watch porn? If so does she get turned on watching two women in a scene? That could be your starting point. The biggest erogenous zone is the mind, that is what you need to start working on first with your wife. Then you might get an idea if she is up for it.

True Story:

A friend of mine (he was in my wedding party), his wife got this mutual friend of theirs to fool around in a threeway for his birthday.

They continued it for a month or two until he started to catch feelings for the new girl. He ended up divorcing his wife and moved in with the new girl and her daughter. Leaving behind his two daughters and then the next year he had a son with new girl.

you make it sound so not cool

Because it is not if you took marriage VOWS.

Cowardly men, imo.

But, this is 4L so I say go for it and take lots of pics.

Like there gonna be ok to post on here!

We have some kickass photochoppers 'round here.

The institution of marriage is a ruin.

In b4 wife finds chat thread divorces OP and Op and "Cari" live happily together for 5 days before gettting bored and parting ways

A+ Butterface thread. wp OP covering it up

fyp

WOW - lots to digest. I have to agree that IF I could make this happen, there is no favorable outcome. The 2 minutes I could last during the sex would be great, and the 20 years of alimony and child support would not be as cool.

Unless I find myself single again, I sadly think 3 ways aren't in the cards for me...

I think you answered your own question!

Listen to Dom, I don't know the guy, but he has a grasp on this idea 100%.

If you were swingers, then it would probably be for you and would have already happened because you would have been into this kind of thing previously.

Has your wife ever mentioned anything about a 3-some, being with another woman, getting it from you and another guy? I'm assuming no, which mean's I wouldn't even suggest it. If you open this bag of worms it can only turn into a bad situation (unless your wife is a closet freak that you didn't know of). However either way is it really worth it to risk it?

Ask yourself this question.... say you get your wife to do it and she loves it, she loves it soooo much she wants you and another guy to give it to her and try that route. How do you feel about that? If that disgust you and makes you sick, think about how she will react.

Just like it's been said before by The Real Slim Shady (remix):
Man, don't do it, it's not worth it to risk it!
Not over this ****! Drop the biscuit!
Don't even listen to your penis, he's bad for you.

If you listen to that song again you will realize that Eddie robbed the liquor store, Stan date raped the minor, and Grady shot his wife and her lover.

I know 1 person personally who's wife agreed to a 3 way. He admitted to me it ruined his marriage. She thought she could handle it but when she saw that when he was with the other chick he was enjoying himself (ldo) and that's what set the whole thing off. He got things like "you didn't have to enjoy it THAT much' etc.

You mentioned you have a prudish wife. Prudish wife + 3 some idea = fail.

I also have an irl experience with this. My friend and his wife had a foursome with another couple. Then the wife ended up going without him to a threesome with the other couple because he was at work. Then to get revenge he went with the other girl by himself. They never got over it. They will probably be divorced soon.

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Caught me

That is alot of hand holding, imo.

I bet they go thru a gallon of hand sanitizer a week.

(rough estimate)

238R I don't like your attitude

double post bump

great bump ^

ty

Did anyone suggest roofies for the wife?

ATM you might be on to something. Really intrigued how this turns/turned out

You're almost intelligent enough to get people who don't know you to believe for a few moments that you're not completely ******ed. Cherish those short moments!

ps ban for suggesting disrespectful course of action