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09-25-2012 , 04:19 PM
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Keep em coming please !
ldo
that's his job afaik
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09-25-2012 , 04:37 PM
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I am surprised that this thread isn't getting more attention. Thanks for it though OP, good read.
I think it sets off a lot of BS detectors. New account, no pics etc. Saying a mother who wants her daughter to make money by giving blowjobs would pay someone to let the daughter blow him makes no sense and was BS so have to assume most of it is. I sitll enjoy the read though.
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09-25-2012 , 11:24 PM
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I think it sets off a lot of BS detectors. New account, no pics etc. Saying a mother who wants her daughter to make money by giving blowjobs would pay someone to let the daughter blow him makes no sense and was BS so have to assume most of it is. I sitll enjoy the read though.
This

Is there a mother that ruthless? Probably yes.

If so, is she that stupid not to know that she could pitch herself to a tourist/businessmen and add that for a little extra money she would allow him to teach her daughter?

Mother could rinse and repeat this tactic over and over again, and she would hit the jackpot.

Or, she could pay someone? I mean, really.....

This is about as believable as a hot babysitter paying an americam couple $200 so that she could have a threesome with an older couple (for the first time, of course). Happens all the time.
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09-26-2012 , 03:38 AM
please don't stop OP. keep the stories coming.
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09-26-2012 , 08:25 AM
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I think it sets off a lot of BS detectors.
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09-26-2012 , 10:44 AM
please continue to update OP... entertaining stories haha

Also can't remember if you mentioned this earlier, but what is your day job?
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09-26-2012 , 12:57 PM
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I love the stories and am subscribed. Keep em coming please !

Can't believe the girl didn't know that some chicks shave ... wtf.
I assume she knows and just playing coy. Not all girls in VN would know about shaved pussys as they never heard and never seen of such things. I had girlfriends who I gotten to shave and some of them say it looks weird. For some girls, they have no clue about things regarding sex except just lying there.

Cafe shop girls are different because it is a job where it is selling sex. The girls dress nicer etc to entice male customers in. These girls would know more about things regarding sex as I'm sure they have slept with many customers on their own time. She just wanted a way to say she wants to get ****ed without saying it. Non prostitutes do not initiate sex with guys they are not involved with. They do things to as a reaction to you that they are ok with the idea but nothing close to direct. Its just the culture here. Many exceptions of course but the culture here is not to even really dress provocative. Its a big nono for "good girls". Those that do are in the sin business to varying degrees.

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I think it sets off a lot of BS detectors. New account, no pics etc. Saying a mother who wants her daughter to make money by giving blowjobs would pay someone to let the daughter blow him makes no sense and was BS so have to assume most of it is. I sitll enjoy the read though.
I made this account for this thread. My main account was made so I learned about poker. Thanks to 2+2, I have a positive roi but cant play many tables. I guess it wouldn't matter if I used the same account since I don't know anyone on these boards directly but why would I want to, I am a hooker after all.

I was paid because of my stamina. They have tried local men and they can't last. I know its hard to believe but that's because you are from a 1st world country. Most white expats in VN wouldn't see this side of VN much but I welcome their thoughts about what they do know and how VN is. Things here defy all logic.

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This

Is there a mother that ruthless? Probably yes.

If so, is she that stupid not to know that she could pitch herself to a tourist/businessmen and add that for a little extra money she would allow him to teach her daughter?

Mother could rinse and repeat this tactic over and over again, and she would hit the jackpot.

Or, she could pay someone? I mean, really.....

This is about as believable as a hot babysitter paying an americam couple $200 so that she could have a threesome with an older couple (for the first time, of course). Happens all the time.
Communication problem first of all and a waste of time. This mom was a pro with so many techniques. What does the average guy know about blowjobs? Deep throat, sucking balls, rimming. How would he explain to the daughter what he wants? She was able to show her daughter everything she knows fast and get her working.

There is not shortage of places to get sex or blowjobs in VN. The mother already hit the jackpot having her daughter becoming a prostitute. Obviously she would make more money per your suggestion than whoring out her daughter to locals but how would she get that clientele? There are pimps/gansters and real estate you know. There are so many beautiful prostitutes who provide for local men who can make 5 times as much if they worked the tourist area but they don't. Again, you find it hard to believe because your thinking from a 1st world prospective. Come live here and you maybe start to understand how VN is like, that is if you actually venture out the tourist district. Even that would be difficult because your white who would get treated differently than someone like me who is a local looking VK.

Again, I welcome expats of Vn to share their input about anything VN.

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please continue to update OP... entertaining stories haha

Also can't remember if you mentioned this earlier, but what is your day job?
I teach english here. I get paid 60% of what the white people in my school gets paid and that's because I am good and negotiated hard. I know other VK's who get a slight bump to what local english teachers make. It is how it is here in VN. Im for the most part a better teacher but I lack the white face.

As absurd some stories sound, they are true. If you read about the massage news story and the sex slave article, do those stories strike you normal? How they talk due to translation and what happens? Read other news clips from that site and you may start to understand VN.

-There are many prostitutes in VN and many of their families are aware of it but it is not spoken. As I said before, a lawyer gets paid 10 mill dongs a month here in Saigon. That is someone with proper schooling etc. Now when a daughter with no skills goes to the big city to find work to support her family is able to send this kind of money home or have; do they think she was able to find a good paying job? They know what she is doing. Do they speak to her to try to convince her not to? No, they let her keep doing what she is doing and take her money. This is very normal in VN.

- cycle of prostitution. Men here are worthless unemployed drunks yet they are number one. The wifes/daughters works mainly to support the family where the males do nothing but go drink coffee, get drunk and gamble and sleep with women. Daughters go hook themselves to support their families. The money is used to survive and the males use it to be "big 'I have money' men". They use it to seduce girls and buy prostitutes. So essentially the daughters prostitute themselves so their brothers and father can buy prostitutes themselves.

As I said before, there doesnt seem interest in this thread or the realness of it plus I am running out of actual interesting male gigolo stories. I can always share some normal stories. Ill continue for now.

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09-26-2012 , 01:46 PM
People seem interested, I'm enjoying it. not sure what you are looking for.

I will say that being someone that has been around saigon long enough to understand the culture and way it is around here, the Op description of what goes on around here is pretty much spot on whether you believe all of his encounters or not.
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09-26-2012 , 02:33 PM
Whoever thinks that these stories are fabrications because they are too far fetched has not spent an extended time in SEA. Generational prostitutes are pretty common in Thailand too. If somebody wanted, it would even be possible to have a foursome with a grandma, mom, daughter...I mean it's not easy to find (the mother daughter combo is - and they would lie about it for sure if one is actually looking for it), but pretty sure it would be possible.

So how do coffee shops work? Bunch of sexy girls flirt with customers to sell overpriced drinks, and then it's up to the girl and guy if they want something more?
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09-26-2012 , 02:47 PM
OP, you are doing a great job so far. How many customers do you think you have provided services for to this point? How many per week? Per month? Is this profession a better income than your teaching job?

If you can, post some photos of areas you travel/work in Saigon. Not specifically things like a cafe photo with a caption of "I sat in the yellow chair in the corner when I got my second customer" but more street scenes, local flavor, people, and of course women. We will be happy to tell you if they are attractive or not.
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09-26-2012 , 10:01 PM
Thank you OP.
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09-27-2012 , 12:26 AM
I enjoyed this. Thanks op. Post some stories about getting robbed if you have any.
How much usd per month is the average living cost. for tourists

i.e Rent/Room to stay (tourist area / non tourist area), Food everyday, Alcohol and clubbing weekly, Prepaid internet.

Is it same like Thailand?
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09-27-2012 , 07:12 AM
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Whoever thinks that these stories are fabrications because they are too far fetched has not spent an extended time in SEA. Generational prostitutes are pretty common in Thailand too. If somebody wanted, it would even be possible to have a foursome with a grandma, mom, daughter...I mean it's not easy to find (the mother daughter combo is - and they would lie about it for sure if one is actually looking for it), but pretty sure it would be possible.

So how do coffee shops work? Bunch of sexy girls flirt with customers to sell overpriced drinks, and then it's up to the girl and guy if they want something more?
Coffee shops are just staffed by pretty lady servers. They don't wear really provocative clothing but normal skirts and semi low cut blouses or pants etc. Coffee shops vary on if they use this tactic or even have good looking girls. Price for coffee is around 25,000 which is 1.25 usd for a place that is designed nicely, established with many good/decent looking girls.

These coffee shops are not a place or have the environment that sex is sold. What the girls do on their own time is up to her and its up to the guy to persuade her to meet up somewhere.

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OP, you are doing a great job so far. How many customers do you think you have provided services for to this point? How many per week? Per month? Is this profession a better income than your teaching job?

If you can, post some photos of areas you travel/work in Saigon. Not specifically things like a cafe photo with a caption of "I sat in the yellow chair in the corner when I got my second customer" but more street scenes, local flavor, people, and of course women. We will be happy to tell you if they are attractive or not.
I don't usually do many clients but currently about 1 a week. If I wanted to I can defiantly make great money as I have many clients I met who I just tell I am busy. If I just accepted any and all request, I could do one client a day. My rate is 1 million and I usually don't do more than one a day. Meeting a client usually entails going out for entertainment/eating first. I am easy on what we do so I follow her lead but if I am bored or its getting to long, I let her know we should head to a hotel or where ever.

About a year ago when I wasn't working for about 2 months, I was going out with a lot of clients. It was very cool to be able to go out without spending money and actually pull in money. Makes me wish I was a girl. So to answer your question, I can make 1500 a month and not spend a dime for entertainment/dinner during that time if I went full HOE. This is not including having a sugar momma taking care of me. I accept gifts but turn down having them provide a place to stay/allowance etc.

I don't take pictures because it has caused problems for me before. Saigon has only so many hot spots so people who "party" all go to these places. Pictures would only make it worst. I also don't like carrying large items. I don't even have a smart phone but prefer the smallest phone possible so taking pictures is not convenient.

When I was more tourist I took many videos and pictures. I can post more but I am in them so unless someone can point me to free easy to use software where I can cut out sections and blurr out faces; these are the only ones where it doesnt show myself/friends.

http://s1291.photobucket.com/albums/b555/asiangigolo/
password is agagag

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I enjoyed this. Thanks op. Post some stories about getting robbed if you have any.
How much usd per month is the average living cost. for tourists

i.e Rent/Room to stay (tourist area / non tourist area), Food everyday, Alcohol and clubbing weekly, Prepaid internet.

Is it same like Thailand?
When I go out, I only bring enough money plus extra for what ever the plan is. If I am going out to eat, coffee or maybe see a movie, I bring one million. If I am going clubbing or meeting with non locals, I bring 3 million and up. My driver license from both USA and VN and photo copies of my passport and visa [not credit card] and a debit card in case I need to withdraw more money.

I have never been had a knife pointed at me but have gotten money disappeared by I really have no idea. I could have dropped it, pick pocketed or maybe the lady takes it, idk. Its usually an insignificant sum.

For someone who is staying in VN with the intent to have loads of fun but not waste, I say you need about 800usd/month for everything non club. I do fine with spending 300-400 because I am over VN and just kick back and relax and know more better value places to do things. Clubbing is one of the most expensive activities in Saigon, even more than wooing ladies and scoring or paying a nice prostitute for over night. Assuming going dutch, you can easily spend 75+ usd each at a club. If you plan to go club heavy, tack on accordingly.

If you are a tourist however and don't know that there are better places to find ladies, places to eat and hang but only go to the tourist or popular places; you'll need 2000+.

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09-27-2012 , 09:24 AM
nice vids, I especially like the 3rd one even though u meant to take a pic haha. All 3 were amazingly hot.
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09-27-2012 , 01:33 PM
hoowwt!
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09-27-2012 , 04:01 PM
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nice vids, I especially like the 3rd one even though u meant to take a pic haha. All 3 were amazingly hot.
nvm interpreted wrong
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09-28-2012 , 02:17 AM
pics or
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10-02-2012 , 09:52 PM
OP still alive out there?
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10-03-2012 , 07:47 AM
Wow so hot. puts the travel forum thread girls to shame
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10-04-2012 , 10:21 AM
Some extra reading. 2 part plus 4 other additional related subjects.
http://www.tuoitrenews.vn/cmlink/tuo...h-city-1.43299

Being here for the last 3 so years, I have a lot of experiences. Most of it being in Saigon, some of it outside Saigon and none of it in Hanoi. I have never been to Hanoi and don't really plan to go any time soon. Lots of good memories during these times but 2 always stuck out. The second happening some time in March.

~ Myself and another vk needed a vacation from Saigon. I had never really spent any long length of time in the country side so I strongly suggested we just go anywhere. I wanted to go to an unknown place to experience the unknown again and wandering which I felt 3 yrs ago. In the end, we decided to go to his hometown 8 hrs away from Saigon. He gets to visit some people and I get to explore a fresh new place.

So we head out and plan to stay for a few days. Anyway, this place was pretty rural/small city but it has enough to do. Anyway, one of the days we go to watch cockfighting. If any of you never have seen it before it's pretty fun. The male chickens don't just randomly kick each other but actually like a boxing match. Its very reactive and thought out. Its illegal so its done in many different places that change everyday.

To get there that day, we were drove down twisting pathways, roads and across water ways. There was no way I would be able to find my way back. The place we ended was a property surrounded by ponds of rice fields. Only way to get in/out is by a makeshift dirt path raised only like 6 inches from the water and only maybe 2 feet wide. 2 bikes have trouble passing each other for a good half mile.

There is card playing, dice games and cockfighting there. Food/drinks is also brought in by venders. Its like a gambling event that last anywhere from 4-8 hours. It was fun. By the 3rd hour, next thing I see is everyone scattering. It was insane. I was just sitting there eating and next thing I know is there is a huge commotion and everyone is either trying to pack things up or running across the rice paddy's.

It wasn't long before I realize I better do the same. I drop my food and jet into the water running as fast as I can. My friend wasn't with me because he was gambling. I didn't see him but I wasn't looking for him either. Just seeing peoples faces of panic, I just ran like everyone else. Running in a rice field with casual dress shoes was impossible so I quickly realized I had to ditch them. They easily slipped off in the muddy water.

As I get farther and farther away and people are thinning I look back and see dozens of police. They arrived by land and by boat. I didn't know what to do but I just kept running. Eventually I couldn't run any more and I'm all alone. Its a rural place so I just head for the densely populated area.

I'm dirty, wet, exhausted with no shoes and guess what, water logged phone. So I'm trying to find my way to civilization but I have no idea where it would be without heading back to the direction I came. I eventually see a house far in the distance and head that way.

As I approach the front of the house i see this beautiful woman working. I tell her I am lost and asked where the city was. She looks at me and asked what happened. I tell her and ask if I can rest here. She looks nervous. I find out that she is alone there and her parents are out in the field working. She points to a direction and states that the city is far.

At this point I just plop myself on the ground catching my breath realizing I am in a pickle. I ask her if she knows someone who can drive me to the city. She responds with her dad but he wont be back for a few more hours. As I didn't have any choice in the matter, I ask her if it would be alright with her if I just waited here for him to come home.

I get the ok and she heads inside the house and closes the door behind her. So I lie there for a good 15 minutes under a tree thinking about what just happened. I pull out my phone and take it apart, try to shake violently all the water out, put it back together and turn it back on. No good. Rip nokia. I take it apart again anyway and place it in the sun.

So I sit there, sit there and sit there. I can see her looking out the window at me at times. After about an hour, she comes out and offers me a cup of water. I accept and ask her what time it is. I try to talk to her to which she replies. I ask her if it would be possible to get a bucket of water so I can rinse myself off. She obliges and I can see her finally feel more comfortable.

So we eventually chat more and more easily. She is the last of siblings to not yet get married and lives here with her mom and dad. She is so pretty in the traditional sense. She looks like what Vietnamese looked like back in the day. Very clean, natural looking.

So mom/pops finally arrive to find me sitting next to their daughter. I greet them and explain to them what happened. They welcomed me into their home and ask if I was hungry. I told them I should just get going but they informed me that this is the time where they eat so I have to join them.

We all wash up and sit down for a meal. Over the meal we talk about what happened and other things. Before he was about to take me to the city, I invite them all to dinner the next day to which dad accepted.

I get back to the hotel, get his number and set an appt to meet at this hotel the next day. I give him money but he refuses. I go up to find my buddys door open. He looks at me and laughs. Glad I made it out. I laugh too and head for the showers.

That night was great discussing what happened over beers and food.

Next day is normal. We meet up with the family and head out to a nice restaurant. Things go well and the mom/daughter eventually leave early leaving us three to drink. I eventually asked the dad if it was ok if I took his daughter out? He was cool with it as long as his daughter was fine with it. He gave me her number and the night eventually ended.

Next day I called the daughter and chatted with her and asked her out. We spent a lot of time together that day learning a lot about each other. By the end of the night I wasn't sure what I wanted to do. Part of me told me not to pursue this because she was very nice and a actual good girl. The other half told me that if she was indeed a good girl, somebody would eventually get to her if it wasn't me.

We depart the next day. I asked my friend if we could stay longer or if he went back without me. He decided to go back first which left me with all my time with her. I spend the day with her again and it was during this time I decided that nothing would happen. She was just too naive, trusting and so thoughtful.

I spend a couple more days there with her constantly fighting with my conscious. We both have lots of fun. We did make out and feel her up but nothing more. I wasn't going to be the guy to ruin her.

Shame I am not the marrying type, if I was, she would have been a great contender even though we barely met.

- So it turns out these places where they hold cockfights are surrounded by look outs at entrances and water ways. A look out saw a boat with unusual people trying to look inconspicuous and called in the alert. All motorcycles were caught with about 15 people I'm told. It was a sight to see about a hundred+ people all scatter in all direction into the water. I laugh every time I re-imagine it.

Next time, My fondest memory from VN so far.

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10-04-2012 , 11:37 AM
Awesome story, dude!

I have been watching a cooking show where the guy is a vk. He goes all around Vietnam, and everything looks so interesting. The food, and people just seem so like so much fun--but it's a cooking show, so you don't get to see all the dirty stuff like sex & unsanctioned gambling. It's cool to read about the shadowy stuff.

Thanks for writing your stories. I look forward to reading them.
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10-04-2012 , 08:10 PM
Have you went back to visit that girl since?
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10-04-2012 , 11:45 PM
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Awesome story, dude!

I have been watching a cooking show where the guy is a vk. He goes all around Vietnam, and everything looks so interesting. The food, and people just seem so like so much fun--but it's a cooking show, so you don't get to see all the dirty stuff like sex & unsanctioned gambling. It's cool to read about the shadowy stuff.

Thanks for writing your stories. I look forward to reading them.
What is the name of this show? I would be interested in viewing it also. Hopefully Youtube has it.

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Have you went back to visit that girl since?
No. After my failed marriage and how much my ex wife ****ed me over pretty good, I gotten pretty calloused over this type of thing. She calls me and we talk but i dont call her. When she calls, I call her back to save her money for phone bills. Im upfront with with the ladies overall. This one I told her I am no good for her.
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10-05-2012 , 04:22 AM
What would have happened if the police caught you after the cockfight?

Same question for a foreigner? I guess there were no foreigners....just a hypothetical question.
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10-05-2012 , 04:58 AM
Do you still play poker here in vietnam? Or do you now only live from your gigolo activities?
Do you know other poker players in Vietnam?
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