Originally Posted by ElliotR
to you, TN.
What's the deal with hubs' trust issues? Someone in his past cheat on him?
Are you more likely to have a one night stand or a long-term emotional (i.e., not physical) affair? We'll take as a given that both are very very unlikely, but which one is less unlikely?
What was your best vacation?
yeah, he was cheated on by someone else a very long time ago. when we separated, he drove across town to "check on me" and when i wasn't there waiting on him, he jumped to conclusions and thought i was cheating. he assumes that's what is happening when i do anything on my own. he assumes i'm doing something HERE that involves cheating because it's something he's not involved in. it gets very frustrating bc i've never done anything and i have to go to lengths to make him feel confident over and over again. no matter that we've been married 17 years and have children...he thinks i'm always looking for something better.
i'd probably be more likely to have something emotional, rather than physical. since i'm on the computer more than out in the world, it makes more sense for something like that to happen.
best vacation as a kid? disneyworld
best vacation as an adult? vegas - i'd go monthly if we could afford it