You guys are so nice and I
you all
but the odds of me staying at one of your houses overnight or getting into one of your cars alone is very very slim. I've managed to live my life avoiding assault of any kind by simply being overly cautious and it'd be hard for me to change it now. I've mentally rigged myself for safety in this manner since I often travel without firm plans, and I will avoid even 1% risks when it comes to strangers. Please nobody be offended by it, seriously. Its not a you thing, its a me thing.