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Why is the Milieu in SMP Unfriendly? Why is the Milieu in SMP Unfriendly?

09-13-2016 , 12:17 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
We need the maximum intellect of each other to gain from this experience of the community.
My counter-proposal is that we need maximal community to draw out the best of the intellect.

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I have explained to you many times why this is the case with long posts and your criticism is conflicted because you cannot have it both ways. You cannot at the same time not like length and still want the others that read to understand what you mean avoiding strictly technical talk.
But you can have organization. As long as this particular post is, it's a well-composed and organized post. So you have the ability to do it.

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Sometimes it is hard to express what you mean without many examples and explanations. You risk being repetitive and boring to those that know or get it fast but you do not betray the others that see things for the first time and who you do not want to keep at a distance like others have kept you in your life. You only lose those that do not want to waste any time or put any effort into understanding your ideas.
If it's hard to express what you mean clearly, perhaps you should let it rest in your mind longer before posting. Let the ideas work themselves towards clarity before filling the screen with words. Not only will your ideas be better, but they will be more concise and you will lose fewer people.

Also, the bolded is the sort of statement that makes you come across as arrogant. In your very next sentence, you complain about your limited time. You're not the only one. Why do we all have the responsibility for putting time into figuring out what you're trying to say, but you don't have the responsibility of putting time into figuring out what you're going to say?

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The fact is i have limited time for 2+2 every day. I cannot be around and read every hour what is going on and participate as if in a discussion with brief exchanges.
Is there a problem with coming back to a conversation the next day?

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And science doesnt work that way anyway unless you are next to the other person and are talking live.
Science also doesn't work by word vomit. If you submit a paper, you take the time to type it up and organize your thoughts. And then people judge you on the quality of both your ideas and your presentation. They send it back, and then they make you do it again if it's not very good.

Edit: Do you send your collaborators rambling, off-topic emails that don't answer the questions they've asked? Maybe you should try to think of this more in that type of context.

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I do not get value out of this manner of multiple brief posts always waiting for more.
Here's an important point. Who is the post for? Is a post primarily for your own value or for the value of others? If it's primarily for the value of others, then you ought to take the time to prepare in a way that is of value for others.

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I prefer instead to combine my ideas in fewer long posts. Editing long posts is important and necessary but it takes substantial amount of time to do it very well that i am not going to be using for new ideas or calculations or for learning things.
If you're too busy to post something today, then wait until tomorrow to post. Or type it up in a word document and comb through it later when you have the time.

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My argument is that among people who arrive here with good intentions it is the ideas and information that has to win as the important priority and not the imperfect editing of the presentation.
Your argument doesn't seem to comport to the reality of the situation.

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Nevertheless i do edit my posts often and it is wrong to think that all my long posts require much better editing always. You simply do not read them and assume the worse about them or do not put effort into them because of the fast pace of modern life that victimizes attention.
Again, this comes off as very arrogant. You don't have the time to slow down, but blame us for not putting the time in because of the face pace of modern life.

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I always read all the posts you make in a thread i participate. And i never complain about the length or the style, only the insults.
Perhaps this is because there aren't problems with length or style when others post.

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In fact my posting style in 2+2 serves these goals typically;

1) To help the discussion and the OP in the direction i consider is relevant and important to the thread topic including things that maybe the Op hasn't considered yet or is close to hinting indirectly.

2) To help myself use this opportunity to explore ideas that are related to the topics and from where i can learn and motivate myself and others to study things further. It helps me when i write a lot of things about what i am thinking. It leads to more ideas.

3) To help the significant number of people that do not post but are most certainly reading (seen by hits vs posts) to follow a discussion and gain something from it that they couldn't find in brief exchanges. I value when others do that and i am the silent reader.

4) To expose myself and my ideas maximally and attract therefore creative opposition, corrections or agreement and more information/enhancement so that i can learn not from just one thing but from as many ways as possible.

5) To do all this in a manner that doesnt waste a lot of time and doesnt victimize the ideas. I will always choose ideas over the proper editing of them that takes a long time. I always reread my posts a couple of times but in my view it needs a lot more that i cannot always afford. There is no such need when you post very brief comments.
In general, you're creating your own self-contradiction. Your approach is ill-conceived for the goals you have.

(1) doesn't work because your long posts don't actually help the discussion. They create a hindrance to it.

(2) is what blogs are for.

(3) is a quite conjectural and possibly a misreading of the data.

(4) is fine, but see #1.

(5) is again an arrogant approach. You are only thinking about the time you are wasting, and not the time that other people are wasting. If 10 minutes to think through a post and organize it means that it takes 10 fewer minutes to read and understand, imagine how much time is saved globally when all those people in #3 don't have to spend the extra 10 minutes to figure out what you're saying.

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Please realize that proper editing of very long posts where i think most content in them is necessary for a variety of reasons my education and experience justifies takes a lot more time than writing it.
I don't think "proper editing" (as if you're going all the way to submission) is what anyone is asking of you.

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Think about it. What you are asking is to save 2-3 min of your time that a longer post may take to read which will then cost me 30 minutes of multiple edits to obtain. No! I prefer to use those 30 minutes for more ideas or to make it clear to be understood by even 1 person that puts the effort.
Again, you sound extremely arrogant here.

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I extend friendship to AaronW, BriantheMick who i have known for years and continue to read their posts and criticism and yes to trolly and ctyri and others that have said nasty things about me but i have also seen in better times operate differently.
I appreciate the extension and accept. I don't hate you. I just hate the way you post.

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I want to make it clear this is not about me. It is about making the climate better for all that want to post without being faced with unreasonable aggression. Let them face only better ideas knowledge and friendship. Let the mods help in that directions with some guidance.
If it's not about you, then please think more about how to post to help others, and less about how to post to help yourself.

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I apologize for anything you may have perceived as inconsiderate or arrogantly persistent. I promise you it was never intended that way. I always read what you have to say. I am always open to revisiting my positions with proper arguments. You do not need insults to produce these.
I accept your apology and accept that you don't intend arrogance. However, you still come across arrogantly in many ways. I urge you to consider the collective weight of people trying to tell you to post better as a strong indication that, even though you might disagree, you would be better off to change your posting habits.

Last edited by Aaron W.; 09-13-2016 at 12:27 AM.
09-13-2016 , 01:02 AM
Hi Masque.

You have made your protest, I hope you will deem it sufficent and remain. Few will appreciate just what you did for Bruce but we know, and it was real, unlike so much of the abuse and trolling that goes on at 2+2.

Good community cannot be imposed on us lot, it's not a modding issue. We have to do it for ourselves by appreciating all of us with all our quirks, recognising the difference between friendly banter and mean-spirited abuse and standing up to those who want to destroy rather than build any community. I'm not putting Aaron or some others in that class although I think they are very mistaken about you being particulary arrogant.

Also shorter posts would be appreciated I need to be fed in smaller chunks.
09-13-2016 , 03:15 AM
How'd I miss this? Drop me a PM next time Chez you old lime. Welcome back Bruce and Masque!
09-13-2016 , 04:49 AM
Aaron W. i seriously do not think you understand how impossibly hard it is to not post your ideas because you need to organize them better and then think it over and post later and then edit many times etc as you suggested. Seriously do you imagine me working for 2+2 here as a job or what? If i have ideas now i will organize them locally as well as i can fast and then post them now and it's over in a few minutes to 20-30 usually if a big post. I may forget later or not do it. Is that better? Sometimes i even get excited about sharing them because they are good ones, they wouldnt have existed without the OPs asking their questions and will create activity and feedback leading to more because of other good thinkers. What a better way to show respect to the thread, its creator and the community?

I cant spend more time because i have to think about many other problems every day. What you need is a dedicated educator. I am not that. I try to be creative thinker that can also be an educator if the other side is patient and willing to put some work and cooperate.


Please go back to the thread that created the last few incidents and tell me exactly why i deserved all this abuse given that i offered so much content to the problem and i realized the problem in a much more general manner that enabled us to see it as optimization in path selection in race car turns and then i provided the mathematical framework for studying it for general paths moreover how hard it is to get closed form results.

Would we have arrived at any of this if i hadnt been posting so much detail?

Not only i explained properly the simple case, i also made it clear that the general problem was very interesting for all of us to consider. So instead of you guys being glad i put all the work i get the insults and nastiness that followed. What was the point to hurt those that help the forum with content that likely nobody else would have provided there if we had taken the easy centripetal answer path? And Zeno let that happen without any suggestions for civility. Exactly how hard is it to do it all better? I put a ton of work in it and will get this treatment and i will continue to post there? Why? Who protects the principle of it all? What are suggestions and 24h bans for to put trolling to freeze? Reread what you all had to say and tell me exactly for what purpose in that specific thread!

See how the thread evolved after the insults took place. Where did it go by the way in terms of math and physics?
09-13-2016 , 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I also want to thank all the people that supported me before and showed that you understood my friendly intentions.
If you will forgive me discussing our PM exchange, I said I didn't doubt your sincerity. I retracted the criticisms I had of you because arguing with you is like arguing with a freight train, and this petty topic can soon become labyrinthine. Unlike some others, I have no problem with scrolling past the parts of your posts which do not seem to be worth reading. The charge that your sheer intensity is overwhelming and alienating to others is a serious one, however, and I would ask you to keep that in mind.
09-13-2016 , 06:08 AM
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Originally Posted by lastcardcharlie
If you will forgive me discussing our PM exchange, I said I didn't doubt your sincerity. I retracted the criticisms I had of you because arguing with you is like arguing with a freight train, and this petty topic can soon become labyrinthine. Unlike some others, I have no problem with scrolling past the parts of your posts which do not seem to be worth reading. The charge that your sheer intensity is overwhelming and alienating to others is a serious one, however, and I would ask you to keep that in mind.
I most certainly appreciate you doing that although that freight train thing is not something that offers any comfort in the retraction being a genuine one and that matters to me.

I want to understand what exactly is alienating also. I am available to talk to anyone that asks me something about what i post with sincerity. I react very well to civilized disagreements and dont take at all any offense if the other side is serious and not trolling. I value the ideas others provide to solve problems, i read very carefully their solutions, i treat them with respect and invite interactions with them on the problem we talk about, keeping nobody at distance by being for example obsessively strict on the way they "play the game".

I let others have their own style as long as it's not abusive and even when it is rude and abusive i will not exactly react bad right away and offer multiple chances instead. I never look down at people and i appreciate when they share information i can learn from and never insult anyone on their education or ever claimed authority over anything as substitute for actual original thoughts, arguments or calculations, etc. In my thoughts and behavior i place no bounds in anyone's greatness and potential.

This is not a competition for volume either or any intellectual exhibitionism. I can say ten things and you can say one that is very well thought and original that can top the ten i did in potency. I am capable to understand beauty when i see it and it dont have to be the author of it. In particular your honesty, dislike of hypocrisy and search for substance in things and economy of expression is something i value.
09-13-2016 , 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I apologize for anything you may have perceived as inconsiderate or arrogantly persistent. I promise you it was never intended that way.
See, if you were sincerely sorry, you'd put some effort into changing your style and not bombarding the forum with train-of-thought word salad that everyone finds annoying.

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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I am always open to revisiting my positions with proper arguments.
No, you're going to keep doing what you always do despite your friends Zeno and Bruce telling you not to.
09-13-2016 , 08:33 AM
I also find annoying the simplistic blanket terms people use like walls of text and word salad without getting the necessity for content. I find it very insulting and i will never yield to people that want to be insulting on purpose as long as i get 2 more in private messages that have good things to say and as long as i gain something from the process and the threads do too at my judgement. Your insult is a lot more annoying than not reading me. Not to care for the thread's ideas is more insulting to me. What a comparison.

Where would the thread i last posted in SMP be without my posts? At the simplistic a2=r2/r1*a1 level?

Zeno and Bruce advise me to be more compact and i agree with them but they are not telling me to do that if it comes at the expense of ideas. I explained why that is not as easily done as imagined when you care to be understood and cover many ideas at the same time and you do not have endless amount of time for it.
09-13-2016 , 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I also find annoying the simplistic blanket terms people use like walls of text and word salad without getting the necessity for content. I find it very insulting and i will never yield to people that want to be insulting on purpose as long as i get 2 more in private messages that have good things to say and as long as i gain something from the process and the threads do too at my judgement. Your insult is a lot more annoying than not reading me. Not to care for the thread's ideas is more insulting to me. What a comparison.

Where would the thread i last posted in SMP be without my posts? At the simplistic a2=r2/r1*a1 level?

Zeno and Bruce advise me to be more compact and i agree with them but they are not telling me to do that if it comes at the expense of ideas. I explained why that is not as easily done as imagined when you care to be understood and cover many ideas at the same time and you do not have endless amount of time for it.
This post is legitimately just "I'm going to keep posting like this as long as **I** get something from the process" and "where would SMP be without me?". Then this:

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Originally Posted by masque de Z
Zeno and Bruce advise me to be more compact and i agree with them but they are not telling me to do that if it comes at the expense of ideas. I explained why that is not as easily done as imagined when you care to be understood and cover many ideas at the same time and you do not have endless amount of time for it.
Everyone else manages it. You are one of the most astonishingly narcissistic posters I have ever encountered. Everything is presented in terms of how important your posts are, how little time you have and what PMs you get as a result of your posts. If you really want to convey ideas, start thinking about what is easiest for the people reading your posts. I frequently think about posts for hours in my free time before actually writing them.
09-13-2016 , 08:58 AM
It's possible you are autistic or something and not capable of imagining how your posts appear to others, in which case this entire thread is cruel. I don't know how to approach this other than to tell the truth though.
09-13-2016 , 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by BruceZ
I used to troll masque more than anyone. I didn't do it to make him a better poster as others have claimed. I did it because I was a sadist who derived perverse pleasure out of lighting him up. He's better than me in some areas, so I could derive a little satisfaction by trying to take him down a peg. But there was nothing clever about that, and I've come to realize the harm it causes. Perhaps if others were honest with themselves, they would identify with my motivations. Because if their only goal were to make him a better poster, it should have become apparent long ago that their mean-spirited trolling wasn't going to work.

But despite having been my arch-nemesis for years, he still wanted to be my friend! He was there to support me during a difficult time when some of those I thought were my friends did not. This is extraordinary because I wouldn't have done the same for anyone who treated me as I had treated him. I don't think very many people would have. In my book, that makes him a much better person than almost anyone. Since then I've gotten to know him better privately. I suspect if others had done the same, they would agree that driving as good a person as him from the site is not a desirable outcome.

He truly loves science and math, and he wants other people to feel the same way about them that he does. He has always given most generously of his time and talents to helping students and others in pursuit of knowledge. To give of yourself in this way only to be disrespected and ridiculed is understandably a source of outrage. The charge that he has made math mistakes in analyzing a political problem are false, and the notion that he doesn't understand Bayes' theorem is ridiculous. I understand his position on this issue, and his problem is in English, not in math. That makes him an easy target. Translating math to English is hard enough for those who speak it fluently. I suggest that those criticizing him make their argument in Greek and see how much sense they make. If he disagrees directly with a result you have calculated or simulated, and you choose to ignore him, you are probably making an error.

I've attempted to advise masque about his posting style, which incidentally is no different in private. He has reasons for posting the way he does. I don't agree with them, but I don't dwell on them. He understands my position as I'm sure by now he understands yours. Maybe it will influence him, maybe not. If he doesn't change after all he's been subjected to, then it is likely an integral part of who he is and not something he can change easily. It is ironic that he has been accused of derailing threads because his intention is to put all his ideas in a single post rather than many posts. If people simply allowed him to do that instead of bickering with him back and forth about his posting style, this derailing couldn't happen. If he makes points that others find not useful or incoherent, these can simply be ignored. How can that possibly be a worse outcome than losing a theoretical physicist from a science forum?
Golden post.

Welcome back, Bruce!
09-13-2016 , 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
(Though I will continue to push him to improve as a poster.)
No, you won't.

You need to stop the bullying, Aaron.

I will not let you drive out masque again.

What is your opinion on IDA?
09-13-2016 , 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I also find annoying the simplistic blanket terms people use like walls of text and word salad without getting the necessity for content. I find it very insulting and i will never yield to people that want to be insulting on purpose as long as i get 2 more in private messages that have good things to say and as long as i gain something from the process and the threads do too at my judgement. Your insult is a lot more annoying than not reading me. Not to care for the thread's ideas is more insulting to me. What a comparison.

Where would the thread i last posted in SMP be without my posts? At the simplistic a2=r2/r1*a1 level?

Zeno and Bruce advise me to be more compact and i agree with them but they are not telling me to do that if it comes at the expense of ideas. I explained why that is not as easily done as imagined when you care to be understood and cover many ideas at the same time and you do not have endless amount of time for it.
I'd suggest you spread your ideas over more posts as the thread develops. It overwhelms us when you pack them in so densely and in practice that is at the expense of the ideas.

It's a bit like giving a six hour college lecture. It may have all the ideas but they're going to be much better understood over a course of six 1 hour lectures. In an interactive environment it's even harder for us if every time we pick a bit and discuss it it gets a similarly long response.
09-13-2016 , 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
I'd suggest you spread your ideas over more posts as the thread develops. It overwhelms us when you pack them in so densely and in practice that is at the expense of the ideas.

It's a bit like giving a six hour college lecture. It may have all the ideas but they're going to be much better understood over a course of six 1 hour lectures. In an interactive environment it's even harder for us if every time we pick a bit and discuss it it gets a similarly long response.
I can do the splitting, if it's that difficult. Read anywhere, maybe five rows, it has quality. Leave him alone. He has learned all there is to learn for now.

Now WE have to learn.
09-13-2016 , 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by BrianTheMick2
People can and do have the capacity for change.... Not changing due to normal social pressure is just plain missing out on the majority of living as a social animal.
I have an academic friend IRL who is extremely verbose, has an out of synch schedule which regularly sees him working throughout the night, has a diet restricted almost exclusively to fast food, wears ill-fitting clothes that look like he bought them 20 years ago in a jumble sale, normally carries several carrier bags of information around with him, understands computing on a deep level but is incapable of dealing with modern conveniences such as mobile phones and home internet access, has rarely if ever published an original thought but is world class at assimilating new math/science ideas, and apparently has made a fortune trading currency self-taught.

His verbosity (all footnotes and disclaimers) can certainly be tiresome at times, although less so once one has accepted it is part of communicating with him. I have known him a long time and I have no doubt that his intentions are pure and honourable. A unique individual, a true academic, and I'm not sure how relevant it is to speak of him having the capacity for change.

I'm sure that how he is has alienated a lot of people from him and that he is missing out on the majority of living as a social animal. It doesn't appear to bother him, I doubt that there is anything I can do to change that, and it's not my problem anyway.
09-13-2016 , 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by ChrisV
It's possible you are autistic or something and not capable of imagining how your posts appear to others, in which case this entire thread is cruel. I don't know how to approach this other than to tell the truth though.
Let's not talk about Masque here but it's an important subject. Many dont fit into a narrow view of the social norm and the fact some seek so hard to ostracize anyone who doesn't is not at all to their credit. Posters have 'come out' as having aspergers but they really shouldn't have to. One of the great things about 2+2 imo has been the way it accomodates a wide range of often highly intelligent people. We dont all have to be the same, we are all individuals (except for BTM obviously).

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09-13-2016 , 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by plaaynde
I can do the splitting, if it's that difficult. Read anywhere, maybe five rows, it has quality. Leave him alone. He has learned all there is to learn for now.

Now WE have to learn.
I hope he appreciates it in the spirit it's intended. It's not an attack and im nit exctly in a position to criticse anones posting style.
09-13-2016 , 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
Let's not talk about Masque here but it's an important subject. Many dont fit into a narrow view of the social norm and the fact some seek so hard to ostracize anyone who doesn't is not at all to their credit. Posters have 'come out' as having aspergers but they really shouldn't have to. One of the great things about 2+2 imo has been the way it accomodates a wide range of often highly intelligent people. We dont all have to be the same, we are individuals (except for BTM obviously).
It's hard because one of the good things about 2+2 is also that it doesn't tolerate nonsensical discourse. Here is a post of masque's from the politard forum:

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This is not what i said. I said the situation deserved to get a coalition of many countries including neighboring ones form some over 300k army and get inside and end this crap for good fast. Turkey or Iran alone could clean it up if they had to but this is not how it must be done because it will be divisive. It needs many countries working together so that nobody is a target as exploiting the situation and other bs.

Maybe even have (invite) people (refugees) return back to their original locations. Then ask all the local people involved to top meetings for weeks or whatever time needed to forge a plan for the area either new Sunni nation but not with ISIS crap theocracy that most there hate anyway or Syria and Iraq as now but with serious agreement that all groups in these countries will be represented in government and have a fair participation in any future economic growth/recovery etc that would depend on them keeping it together as incentive.

Force them to see that either they get it together or they have to look for endless misery there. But to have any talks you must own the land and maintain peace so that people can finally settle down forgive each other and use their minds to move forward. Only when you offer them something they have agreed to from a position of stability they may have a chance to do the right thing finally. Right now its complete chaos there. I think after a decade of civil wars and vicious living there for all involved it would be easier to finally get what needs to happen to move forward. If Assad needs to go so be it. He is certainly not solving anything there as it is now.

Basically end the bs there and then start a Marshall style plan to regrow the system and rebuild. If after this they dont want to do it right then the hell with all of them. But give them a proper chance first. Yes of course all this will cost but you can be sure the cost of terrorism becoming big business for decades and most importantly the opportunity cost of losing all these populations and their land from being productive communities will be enormous too.
This is just drivel, just rambling nonsense. That's what any honest assessment of the post should say. Any assessment that doesn't say that diminishes 2+2, in my view.
09-13-2016 , 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
Aaron W. i seriously do not think you understand how impossibly hard it is to not post your ideas because you need to organize them better and then think it over and post later and then edit many times etc as you suggested. Seriously do you imagine me working for 2+2 here as a job or what? If i have ideas now i will organize them locally as well as i can fast and then post them now and it's over in a few minutes to 20-30 usually if a big post. I may forget later or not do it. Is that better? Sometimes i even get excited about sharing them because they are good ones, they wouldnt have existed without the OPs asking their questions and will create activity and feedback leading to more because of other good thinkers. What a better way to show respect to the thread, its creator and the community?

I cant spend more time because i have to think about many other problems every day. What you need is a dedicated educator. I am not that. I try to be creative thinker that can also be an educator if the other side is patient and willing to put some work and cooperate.


Please go back to the thread that created the last few incidents and tell me exactly why i deserved all this abuse given that i offered so much content to the problem and i realized the problem in a much more general manner that enabled us to see it as optimization in path selection in race car turns and then i provided the mathematical framework for studying it for general paths moreover how hard it is to get closed form results.

Would we have arrived at any of this if i hadnt been posting so much detail?

Not only i explained properly the simple case, i also made it clear that the general problem was very interesting for all of us to consider. So instead of you guys being glad i put all the work i get the insults and nastiness that followed. What was the point to hurt those that help the forum with content that likely nobody else would have provided there if we had taken the easy centripetal answer path? And Zeno let that happen without any suggestions for civility. Exactly how hard is it to do it all better? I put a ton of work in it and will get this treatment and i will continue to post there? Why? Who protects the principle of it all? What are suggestions and 24h bans for to put trolling to freeze? Reread what you all had to say and tell me exactly for what purpose in that specific thread!

See how the thread evolved after the insults took place. Where did it go by the way in terms of math and physics?
I mean, one helpful hint is to realize twoplustwo isn't a job for pretty much everyone here. That's why we don't communicate in novel form.

Whatever, people can just skip over wall de text if they so choose so its not a big deal. But its pretty funny to complain about time constraints on 2+2, talk up the value of your content, get upset if people don't exactly capture the meaning/content of your 10,000 word post, and then continue to post missives.
09-13-2016 , 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted by ChrisV
It's hard because one of the good things about 2+2 is also that it doesn't tolerate nonsensical discourse. Here is a post of masque's from the politard forum:

This is just drivel, just rambling nonsense. That's what any honest assessment of the post should say. Any assessment that doesn't say that diminishes 2+2, in my view.
I'm keeping this abstract, this discussion cannot be about individuals.

In general it is hard - many things are hard but they dont get resolved by pretending they are easy. There are two competing aims which are a) to address bad posting and b) to welcome a wide range of people

It's my view that we do our best by trying to recognise when we go too far in a) so that it becomes abusive and harmful. This is a judgement call that depends on the people involved and the group dynamic. Going too far with b) may be a mistake as well but it's a far better mistake to make and when the posts are pushing acceptability then it should be over to the rules and the mods to decide.
09-13-2016 , 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by masque de Z
I also find annoying the simplistic blanket terms people use like walls of text and word salad without getting the necessity for content.
You might be annoyed and insulted, but that's not really the point. I'm not here to coddle your emotions. My desire is to live within reality as much as possible. Your posts are truly a word salad and walls of text. And much of the content is disjoint and unrelated.

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I find it very insulting and i will never yield to people that want to be insulting on purpose as long as i get 2 more in private messages that have good things to say and as long as i gain something from the process and the threads do too at my judgement.
This bolded is the sort of needy behavior that in real life makes people not want to be friends. You sit around and feel mopey and look for others to come and affirm that you're not the problem.

The underlined is what makes you sound arrogant.

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Where would the thread i last posted in SMP be without my posts? At the simplistic a2=r2/r1*a1 level?
This, too, is arrogant.

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I explained why that is not as easily done as imagined when you care to be understood and cover many ideas at the same time and you do not have endless amount of time for it.
Simply because something is not easy does not also mean that it's not worth doing.
09-13-2016 , 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by plaaynde
No, you won't.

You need to stop the bullying, Aaron.

I will not let you drive out masque again.
According to him, he was never driven off and that he was merely in active protest.

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What is your opinion on IDA?
I don't have one.
09-13-2016 , 12:19 PM
Aaron, just let your obsession with masque go.

Break yourself free.

If Bruce says he's good, he's good enough.
09-13-2016 , 03:39 PM
Is bloviation an art or a science?
09-13-2016 , 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by ChrisV
It's hard because one of the good things about 2+2 is also that it doesn't tolerate nonsensical discourse. Here is a post of masque's from the politard forum:



This is just drivel, just rambling nonsense. That's what any honest assessment of the post should say. Any assessment that doesn't say that diminishes 2+2, in my view.
I have been a mere gongoozler of this thread, but now feel obliged to state that that is reasonably and understandably written as a course of action he may long to happen, however unlikely most would believe it could ever become much of a reality.

Coming from Northern Ireland, I have lived through seeing a divided community committing atrociously violent attacks against the other where it can be argued that it was only because of external parties virtually forcing the two sides to sit at tables together to debate their differences that that this has been turned to a lasting, albeit somewhat fragile, peace, headed by people still with widely different political aspirations, but who at least argue their points without the use of bombs and bullets.

      
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